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Pegging
  • View Poll Results: Pegging? Voters: 151

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    Never. No way. Forget it 4 2.65%

    Maybe, maybe not 12 7.95%

    I would if she asked me to 56 37.09%

    We did it - don't anymore 9 5.96%

    Yes, we do it regularly 31 20.53%

    I've asked, and she won't 16 10.60%

    I'm afraid to ask 23 15.23%

  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 864
    xtimedt69;

    Yes, the vibes are very intense, using the Salsa Vibe by WeVibe stuffed into the Tango double dil. My wife feels it, too. The only drawback to the Salsa Vibe is the charging system. The magnetic connection on ours is flaky.

    Cheers,

    Dave

  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 606
    Got Pegged ..... Delicious ....
  • xtimedt69 said:

    @married2mywife which is awesome? I am getting her one or she looks sexy or she slips it on for me to watch?  :bz


    The fact that she loves slipping it on for you is great!
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 606
    @married2mywife she was quite eager last night, she texted me and initiated the whole event, by the time she got to touching my penis, I had so much precum, it didn't even need lubed. She says she likes it, well it is mutual.

    She has this one and her butt looks as good as that models ....

  • @xtimedt69  Nice!  I should get my wife one (when I have money that is).  I had a first for me though a couple of nights ago.  I actually had an MMO during regular love making.  It was amazing!!  I hope it happens more often!  :D  We were missionary style and it just hit me, quite surprisingly.  No ejaculation.  Then when I finally came, wow, intense.  :D  I would say that between the aneros and pegging, my body has awakened to a new world of pleasure and excitement. 
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
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    @married2mywife WOW! I never had an MMO but lately orgasms with her are more intense and deeper. I also find after pegging I have P-waves for several hours if I do event the slightest contraction and If I use the Aneros the next day it is VERY good.
  • TurnrowTurnrow
    Posts: 154

    @xtimedt69  Nice!  I should get my wife one (when I have money that is).  I had a first for me though a couple of nights ago.  I actually had an MMO during regular love making.  It was amazing!!  I hope it happens more often!  :D  We were missionary style and it just hit me, quite surprisingly.  No ejaculation.  Then when I finally came, wow, intense.  :D  I would say that between the aneros and pegging, my body has awakened to a new world of pleasure and excitement. 



    married2mywife:  Were you intentionally trying to relax and bring on the MMO during sex, or were you in the heat of going for a wet orgasm and this happened to you.?

    What your experienced is where I want to go with my wife in sex.  Could you tell us what you did to bring on the MMO or what state you were in when it came upon you suddenly.  Thanks.

  • Turnrow said:

    @married2mywife:  Were you intentionally trying to relax and bring on the MMO during sex, or were you in the heat of going for a wet orgasm and this happened to you.?

    What your experienced is where I want to go with my wife in sex.  Could you tell us what you did to bring on the MMO or what state you were in when it came upon you suddenly.  Thanks.

    @Turnrow, we were in the heat of lovemaking.  I was on top.  I wasn't doing anything special.  I felt the orgasm coming on and just went with it.  It felt like the orgasms I have when getting pegged.  It started around the base of my penis and then went thorough out my body.  Towards my prostate first then all over.  It was amazing.  I don't know exactly how it came on.  I just went with it.  Then another one came.  I don't know if it happened again, I was kind of lost in it for a minute or so then I had a traditional orgasm.  All I can say is wow.  It had been a while since I used the Aneros or was pegged, probably a month or so.  We were just hot in the moment together.
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
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    @married2mywife when you started pegging, how often did you do it at first? 
  • xtimedt69 said:

    @married2mywife when you started pegging, how often did you do it at first? 



    Not very often.  Still not too often because we have young kids.  My wife would rather do that when we are alone.  We don't get much alone time without kids.  Especially now with school out.  We were doing it on Mondays when I was home.  Summer break is here.  It makes it more special.  :)
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 606
    @married2mywife Ahh Haa I see. Our kids are grown so we are free as birds .... or rabbits as it were.
  • wasn't able to do any pegging when the kids were at hom,
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 864
    Hello, muscleman.

    Right. My wife is more likely to engage in noisy sex, including pegging when the kids aren't home. I think that is mostly because of her own parents' attitudes about sex and her Catholic schooling, which made sex something to be embarrassed about.

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 606
    The other night she pegged me and I had an orgasm so hard I almost passed out. I had her keep stroking slowly after main event and had orgasmic contractions last for nearly a minute. Then She stopped and my internal throbbing lasted for about another minute. It was incredible. 
  • that's so true ten_s_nut. All the toys were stashed away in closets and drawer. Now they are often left out. Have had some questions about my progasm but thats the only one found
  • xtimedt69 said:

    @married2mywife Ahh Haa I see. Our kids are grown so we are free as birds .... or rabbits as it were.


    Heh. Rabbits, yes. Its going to be a few years until ours are out of the house, but hopefully we can get some kid free time this summer. :).

    xtimedt69 said:

    The other night she pegged me and I had an orgasm so hard I almost passed out. I had her keep stroking slowly after main event and had orgasmic contractions last for nearly a minute. Then She stopped and my internal throbbing lasted for about another minute. It was incredible. 


    Sounds like you are rockin' it. The mmo is just incredible. :D
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 606
    @married2mywife yes it is!!!!  :bz
  • Thanks for the lovely video. I think there are a lot more peggers than people think, all the dildos, harnesses etc. There must be a market. Years ago many thought pegging was just a girl.girl thing
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
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    Well, that was an interesting video ....
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
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    She really worked up a sweat!
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 864
    Gents;

    There is no shortage of pegging videos on the Web. If you go back through this very thread, you'll find pointers to many of them. I think that indicates a high level of interest, as does the number of reads and comments on this thread. Nonetheless, the actual number of people who participate in the act itself is probably very small. It's still way out of the mainstream.

    Cheers,

    Dave

  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 606
    @ten_s_nut While there appears to be a lot of pegging videos, after doing some taking a look around, appears to me there are a lot of the same pegging videos. Not a lot of new ones.

    @muscleman65 very interesting, could spend a day on your wife loves pegging.
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 606
    I created a Monster. She has wanted to peg me Sun, Mon & Tuesday. Last week 3 days. There were physiological reasons I couldn't so they were not three in a row. But she likes it as much as I do.

    It's a good monster.
  • Stop complaining you lucky guy
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 864
    Gents;

    Over the years, I've noticed that new sex activities get more play than the same-old same-old. When my wife and I got into pegging 3 years ago, we went at it frequently. Theses days, it's kind of in the normal rotation and not nearly as often as other things. I think that's partly due to familiarity and partly due to the extra prep pegging requires; not a spontaneous activity what with the cleaning out, harness set-up, etc.

    Cheers,

    Dave

  • xtimedt69 said:

    I created a Monster. She has wanted to peg me Sun, Mon & Tuesday. Last week 3 days. There were physiological reasons I couldn't so they were not three in a row. But she likes it as much as I do.


    It's a good monster.


    How very interesting. Do you find that she enjoys it for the arousal and enjoyment of giving you pleasure, or does she physically get off from it too? Its great that you can both enjoy it the same amount and that you don't have to feel like its something you must ask her for. 
  • Love_isLove_is
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    @xtimedt69 - That sounds like a problem I'd like to have. Congratulations!  :)
  • ten_s_nut can't agree with you more about pegging not being spontaneous. As pleasurable as it is for both of us it comsumes the afternoon with prep etc
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 606
    @Love_is @musicmaker86 I can't explain it, she really doesn't get anything physical out of it and as I explained elsewhere has no interest in a share type thing. Now, she has gotten rather enthusiastic and maybe a but more aggressive. But it does make her horny and the next day or day after she is ready to rock and has become more vocal. When I ask her, she says she does it for me and enjoys watching me. 

    @ten_s_nut I don't find it anymore problematic than regular sex, because we almost always take a shower first, takes me a couple minutes to get the pipes clean. Takes me about 10 seconds to get her harness ready. I kinda like the ritual, it prepares my brain for what is coming and I am usually drooling pre-cum which she seems to like cause she plays with it.
  • xtimedt69 said:

    I created a Monster. She has wanted to peg me Sun, Mon & Tuesday. Last week 3 days. There were physiological reasons I couldn't so they were not three in a row. But she likes it as much as I do.


    It's a good monster.


    While we aren't there yet, we are very close, but I know what you mean! Using toys on me is as or more erotic for her as it is for me! Yep, good monster to have in the bedroom!
  • devajonesdevajones
    Posts: 157
    @musicmaker86 I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents really quick.  All women are different and what equipment you are using does make a difference.  However if a woman wants to peg a man more than likely it is a mental thing first.  Women are aroused mentally (usually) before physically..just the way we work.  Just watching a man in the throws of passion is hot simple as that...especially if we are causing that reaction.  Now when using the share yea I get pleasure, sometimes I get off...but thats not my main goal.  I'm usually more concentrated on him and his pleasure (kind of like how you guys are when making love to women).  I know you guys always want us to physically get off (those guys that care...), however i kind of stress not to worry about that as much, were perfectly ok not getting off sometimes especially if we were highly aroused.  Or after pegging you can take the time to do other things...to make her cum.  My best advice relax and enjoy it.
  • Just watching a man in the throws of passion is hot simple as that...especially if we are causing that reaction.

    +1 exactly as it is for my girl!
  • devajones said:

    @musicmaker86 I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents really quick.  All women are different and what equipment you are using does make a difference.  However if a woman wants to peg a man more than likely it is a mental thing first.  Women are aroused mentally (usually) before physically..just the way we work.  Just watching a man in the throws of passion is hot simple as that...especially if we are causing that reaction.  Now when using the share yea I get pleasure, sometimes I get off...but thats not my main goal.  I'm usually more concentrated on him and his pleasure (kind of like how you guys are when making love to women).  I know you guys always want us to physically get off (those guys that care...), however i kind of stress not to worry about that as much, were perfectly ok not getting off sometimes especially if we were highly aroused.  Or after pegging you can take the time to do other things...to make her cum.  My best advice relax and enjoy it.



    Very cool, and good to know. I understand what you mean though - I was in a relationship where we never actually engaged in sex but were pretty adventurous with our hands. And yes, she was most often more interested in getting me off than she was about herself. I felt the same way for her but she almost seemed less willing to let me pleasure her. 

    Thanks!
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
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    @musicmaker86 I have noticed that the day after pegging, is we have sex, she is way more vocal and animated. She gets something out of in her mind. But she won't talk about it.

    Plus through our entire relationship, she would give me handjobs and BJ's, but if I tried to give her a gspot massage she will get close to orgasm and make me stop and screw her. I managed to get her to over the edge once and she had a shivering orgasm. You would think that would be incentive to do it again, but she won't. She says she likes it better to cum with me inside her.
  • CanacanCanacan
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    xtimedt69 said:

    She says she likes it better to cum with me inside her.



    Of course she does... Don't you understand her now?
  • Ya know, since I was finally able to tell my wife I wanted her to peg me, it has opened up our relationship even more. We have been pegging on and off for, I would say, 3 years now. When we do get the chance to peg, the experience is more than just having anal sex, it is a spiritual experience. She really gets off at just seeing me in so much writhing pleasure. The share doesn't really give her much feeling, but the sheer joy of giving me the most amazing orgasms is enough for her. It gets her really hot. When we have intercourse afterwards, she just let's loose and squirts all over me!! :D

    Our ability to communicate has been the key to opening up her mind to the idea of pegging. I can't stress it enough. Communication is the key!!

    @devajones, it is so refreshing to see a woman participate in the conversation. You bring a great perspective and knowledge to the group. Thank you!
  • newguy8newguy8
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    Ya know, since I was finally able to tell my wife I wanted her to peg me, it has opened up our relationship even more. We have been pegging on and off for, I would say, 3 years now. When we do get the chance to peg, the experience is more than just having anal sex, it is a spiritual experience. She really gets off at just seeing me in so much writhing pleasure. The share doesn't really give her much feeling, but the sheer joy of giving me the most amazing orgasms is enough for her. It gets her really hot. When we have intercourse afterwards, she just let's loose and squirts all over me!! :D

    Our ability to communicate has been the key to opening up her mind to the idea of pegging. I can't stress it enough. Communication is the key!!

    @devajones, it is so refreshing to see a woman participate in the conversation. You bring a great perspective and knowledge to the group. Thank you!




    so was she really not into it when you first started?
  • devajonesdevajones
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    @married2mywife thank you very much I truly appreciate your kind compliments, I really appreciate them.  I wanted to say I agree with what you said above.  I think lots just think of pegging as screwing a guy in the ass. For me (i think i'm somewhat like your wife from what you have described) it is much more than that.  It is definitely spiritual and very erotic.  The part of communication is a very key part as well.  I think lots dont understand how much easier it would be if they conquered their fear of just talking to their wife about their desires.

    I see so much when men say oh my wife/gf wont do that she's a prude etc...thats not the case.  The real case is its all in the presentation, and as men you cant talk to a woman like you talk to your guy friends.  You have to arm yourself with the correct vocabulary (no its not rocket science).  Women who dont even know what pegging is once it is explained correctly want to peg men...trust me we get how deep sex is (i argue some of the best sex is the deep intimate kind...that in my opinion is the embodiment of pegging)...we are receivers by nature.  Think about it sex is always penetrative for us (unless it is a lesbian pairing void of penetration), whether oral, anal, or vaginal...we have to be receptive.  That receptiveness carries over into all other aspects of life as well.  We are  also nurturing by nature (women carry children), so your desires are something we want to fulfill, it just has to be worth our while.

    Follow @married2mywife 's example he sets a stellar one.
  • Ruby RyderRuby Ryder
    Posts: 116
    I am loving this conversation - and the presence of both genders! Your presence here is indeed valuable, @devajones.

    I recently posted my reply to a message from a woman who tried pegging once, hated it and now seems to think her guy is gay. Might be of interest to you all. I'm sure her experience and assumptions are not unique. Please feel free to copy and share the post anywhere you like. The word needs to get out there!

    And by the way, If you want to send your wife/girlfriend/guyfriend/anyone to a website to learn all about pegging, keep in mind that my blog http://PeggingParadise.com combines a little kink in with the pegging, while http://Pegging101.com does not and is more for 'vanilla' couples. Refer accordingly!

    Happy Pegging, everyone!
    Ruby


  • newguy8newguy8
    Posts: 182
    Pegging sounds interesting.


  • @Canacan I guess so, although I like to watch hr cum too, just like she likes to watch me when she pegs me.
  • @Ruby Ryder My wife asked me if I was turning gay after the first time. I just said no, I can't help it if MY gspot is in my ass. However I never did any of the sucking on the dildo and stuff. I just like what she does and it is much more pleasurable that any prostate stim I can do by myself. 
  • She pegged me Friday, if she can time it where the device is passing the Prostate right at the moment of your first orgasmic contraction HOLY S%^T hold on. I had an orgasm that lasted about 30-40 seconds followed by after waves that lasted about a minute. It is incredible.
  • xtimedt69 said:

    She pegged me Friday, if she can time it where the device is passing the Prostate right at the moment of your first orgasmic contraction HOLY S%^T hold on. I had an orgasm that lasted about 30-40 seconds followed by after waves that lasted about a minute. It is incredible.



    I know what you mean! :D



  • @devajones, thank you for your affirmation. I have learned a lot in my 20 years of marriage from my best friend and wife. She had some apprehensions at first, but after showing her @Ruby_Ryder's page, she understood what I was aiming for. :) It has and will continue to be a wonderful adventure. (Especially after the kids move out of the house ;) ). I have the aneros to thank, in part, for starting this adventure. First the helix, and then the program. :)
  • newguy8 said:

    Pegging sounds interesting. -- newguy8

    newguy8 said:

    Hello, newguy8.

    newguy8 said:

    Yeah, more than interesting. But, as many have pointed out in this thread, you need to COMMUNICATE with your wife or partner before handing her the strap-on.

    newguy8 said:

    Cheers,

    newguy8 said:

    Dave

  • @devajones, thank you for your affirmation. I have learned a lot in my 20 years of marriage from my best friend and wife. She had some apprehensions at first, but after showing her @Ruby_Ryder's page, she understood what I was aiming for. :) It has and will continue to be a wonderful adventure. (Especially after the kids move out of the house ;) ). I have the aneros to thank, in part, for starting this adventure. First the helix, and then the program. :)



    Could not agree more! What an adventure Aneros has started for me, no, for us!