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Telling your friends
  • View Poll Results: Telling friends about Aneros Voters: 48

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    I haven't told anyone 15 31.25%

    I won't tell anyone 7 14.58%

    I would like to tell others, but I am reluctant to... 16 33.33%

    I have told others without mentioning my use 3 6.25%

    I have told others about my experience 20 41.67%

  • Armon-neatArmon-neat
    Posts: 254
    There may have been a similar thread around when I first joined in October of 2012, but perhaps it's time for a new one abo I'm talking about mentioning Aneros use in general: I mean telling someone besides your life partner (there have been several discussions about this.  
    This includes asking them "Have you heard about this device?" without admitting to your own use,  or telling your "best buddy":  "You know, I have been using this and it's great/not so great,etc".   
    Personally, I have not told anyone  (besides my wife) about it.  I think I would like to share the discovery, but I guess I am a bit wary of freaking them out.  Though I have several good friends, I have never discussed intimate issues at all with any friends.  
    On the other hand, I have recommended the device to some patients with mild prostatic symptoms, but in a very casual, offhand way.  (I have wrtten before about my interventional radiology practice that includes treating BPH in a new, and we think novel way, so the subject can come up in the course of the preliminary discussions.

    I am going to create a poll (if I can figure out how) to see where my brothers in Aneros stand.

    The choices in the poll will be:

    1. I haven't told anyone
    2. I won't tell anyone
    3. I would like to tell friends, etc, but I am reluctant to...
    4. I have told others about the Aneros experience
    5. I have been telling others freely.
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 632
    I have told a select few by now, male and female. With more or less detail depending on the level of comfort. Ranging from "something tantra-like" to the full picture.
  • LinumLinum
    Posts: 227
    I'd echo what Canacan said.
  • I've told my doctor and a few close friends plus I have left my progasm out before just to start  a conversation
  • J2_0J2_0
    Posts: 23
    I have only told women. I felt they would be more interested and less judgmental. So far this has been true on both counts.
  • I've told a few men who I'm dating. they've all been interested more or less, or already have a aneros. I want to join a men's massage exchange meetup group and wear the device to my massages :)
  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 866
    It depends upon the person or group of people with whom I broach the subject.

    Right now I attend a fairly conservative church where the discussion of prostate health among is delicate at best. Talking about the Aneros there would be taboo.

    Some years ago a friend told me that he had been using Aneros. That delighted me because I was a year into my Aneros journey.

    Last summer a friend allowed a USPS delivery of the Progasm Ivory at her apartment building. When I told her about object I received, she understood, but didn't want to pursue the subject. She is now 76.

    Thom./BigGlansDC
  • I have told a 1 women and 2 guys friends...I am not comfortable to make it a dinner party topic yet.
  • CrimsonwolfCrimsonwolf
    Posts: 75
    I have told one of my lovers (women, ) and she was totally cool with it. Now that I can Super-O, she has a lot of fun...ummm...helping...lol. I have told a couple other people, but without mentioning a device. It can come up easily if the topic is sex anyway...all I have to do is ask, "Hey, have you heard that men can have multiple orgasms as well?"
  • CrimsonwolfCrimsonwolf
    Posts: 75
    Forgot to mention, just in the last day or so, I discovered I can Super-O without a toy...which is monumental to me! So damn happy!! :)
  • nerosneros
    Posts: 106
    @Crimsonwolf Awesome

    How? You and I seem to use the same technique for aneros super Os but I can't seem to get aless super Os.

    What you do to get them without aneros?

    Forgot to mention, just in the last day or so, I discovered I can Super-O without a toy...which is monumental to me! So damn happy!! :)



  • CrimsonwolfCrimsonwolf
    Posts: 75
    I will explain that in another (long,) post. Dangerous to talk about technique, because mindset drives this process, I think.

    I will give you a hint, though: It involves, more or less, "confusing" my senses.

    Energy (chi) flows where attention goes. I will post about this topic here a little later.
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 776

    Forgot to mention, just in the last day or so, I discovered I can Super-O without a toy...which is monumental to me! So damn happy!! :)



    An awakened Prostate IS an amazing thing!

    TG
  • nerosneros
    Posts: 106

    I will explain that in another (long,) post. Dangerous to talk about technique, because mindset drives this process, I think.

    I will give you a hint, though: It involves, more or less, "confusing" my senses.

    Energy (chi) flows where attention goes. I will post about this topic here a little later.




    Funnily enough after posting that I had to drive to a meeting and on the way I started to think about having an orgasm aless and what do you know my prostate and genitals started to give me pleasure. For the entire 30 minute journey my prostate ached and my cock felt like it was leaking liquid that felt deliciously cold and warm throughout my entire penis. I checked in private back at home and my underwear dry.

    Looking forward to hearing more how you go about aless sessions.


  • TurnrowTurnrow
    Posts: 156
    Looking forward to hearing more how you go about aless sessions.

    Me too.
  • nerosneros
    Posts: 106
    Well holy shit what a day.

    Still interested in hearing from Crimsonwolf but just by kick starting my arousal through erotic imagery and then focusing on the arousal and sensations in my cock and prostate and keeping my entire genital region relaxed I was able to have an entire afternoon of orgasms whilst working.

    Only wished I'd been alone as I had to hold back a little so no massive super o but some amazing mini and dry orgasms with a constant level of pleasure.

    Wow!
  • CrimsonwolfCrimsonwolf
    Posts: 75
    Been a very busy 24 hours...sorry for the delay, gents, but I WILL post about this later tonight. Most of it's written, I just need to finish it and post it. As stated before, it's quite long. lol

    (Had a gig last night, and working a double today.)
  • TurnrowTurnrow
    Posts: 156
    Good things take time.

    And reasoned, articulate communication, be it written or verbal, is a gift.  You have the gift verbally and in writing........its worth the wait.
  • CrimsonwolfCrimsonwolf
    Posts: 75
    Greetings, Gentlemen –

    I wanted to post this earlier today, but I had too much going on. So here we go…

    A lot has changed since I had my first multiples/super-os. I’ve been asked how I’ve managed to start getting these without using a toy, or a-less, as some might say. As happy as I am to share any information with you gents, I’m a bit hesitant to do this, because I do not wish to send anyone down a path that may cause delays in their experience of pleasure and self-awareness.

    In order for me to explain this from my perspective, I’m going to say some things that some might find disagreeable. What has proven effective for me may not help you in any way, but I do believe that we are, in fact, more similar than we are different. As such, I don’t think it’s unreasonable for anyone to describe their personal bodily experience, as long as it’s understood that it’s not meant to be advice. Ok?

    On with it…

    I had my first mmo/super-o’s on January 27th of this year, and have gotten to the point where I’m getting fairly consistent results – which is another way of saying that I haven’t since walked away from any session unsatisfied. There are a few fundamental things that I’ve come to learn/accept about myself and my sort-of orgasmic potential:

    1. First realization: If I can’t tell what my muscles are doing without a toy in, it is pointless to try and figure it out when I DO have one in. It’s literally like fumbling in the dark.

    2. Doing slow, sensitive contractions and breathing WITHOUT a toy inserted was vital to growing my awareness. I specifically practiced the “tug of war” exercises before receiving my MGX, but now I do none at all.

    3. Somehow or another, my left nipple feels almost hardwired to my prostate, and the right one is getting there…more on this in a moment.

    4. It seems there is almost always the innate potential for an orgasm, kind of “running in the background” – like a river that will sweep you away if you dip your foot in at just the right time.

    5. This type of orgasm is paradoxical to me. It is both energizing and exhausting – and bears a striking resemblance to deep crying. A physical and emotional release, complete with tears.

    6. After I’ve been laying there, cumming my ass off for an hour, finishing with a traditional orgasm is nice, but sooo not necessary, and honestly takes a lot of concentration…and really, I think there’s something devious going on there, kids. There’s a hidden little truth that I’ll get to in a moment.

    7. My cock feels like it’s being fine-tuned. At 48, to have the kind of raging, tingly hard-on that Viagra cannot duplicate, is nothing short of revolutionary. It never felt this good, even as a teenager.

    Ok, so those are a few little things that I’ve begun assimilating. To explain further, I have to tell you how my orgasms kind of work. First thing you should understand is that I NEVER consciously, willfully contract anything during an Aneros session…UNLESS, I’m ready to finish with a traditional orgasm…and here’s that hidden little truth I mentioned a minute ago…

    Contracting to build to a SUPER orgasm does not work.

    For me.

    (And I suspect for a LOT of other guys.)

    Contracting to build to a TRADITIONAL orgasm does work…and almost “nullifies” any other type of pleasure by doing so.

    I stand by those words. Here’s why: While we’re all told by this post or that website to avoid touching your penis during a session, in truth, you’re only in danger of prematurely ejaculating if you are actively contracting your PC muscle. How can I know this to be true?

    I cannot achieve a super orgasm without relaxing EVERYTHING. When my body contracts on its own, I do not try to “help” – on the contrary, I sort of target that tense/tingly spot for relaxation. (This is during a specifically hands-free, no other stimulus but the Aneros session. Once the first orgasm crashes over me, all bets are off, and I might engage in all manner of outside stimulation.) If I want a traditional orgasm, I have to re-focus, and THAT is when I contract my PC muscle, and not before.

    About 3 weeks ago, I had started a session, and it was going really slow – it felt really good, but it was like there was some tension down there holding things at bay. Just as an experiment, and because I like the idea of confusing my senses, I lightly caressed my left nipple and almost immediately after, very lightly squeezed the end of my cock with my other hand. Going back and forth between, kind of slowly…squeeze, caress, squeeze, was just exquisite. The effect was almost immediate, as if I was winding up, or something, and it sent me into full super-o bliss. If I keep doing the squeeze thing, slowly, the orgasms keep coming, getting more and more intense each time.

    The kind of stimulus/response I get from doing this squeezing thing brings to mind the idea of spinning a basketball on one finger – the ball is already spinning, but I’m just kind of “helping” it spin by applying a little “nudge.” At the risk of hyperbole, I have to say that it’s pretty fucking awesome.

    I don’t do this in every session, but almost. It’s almost like there are 2 kinds of multiple orgasm going on with me – one that is focused almost entirely in the rectum, and one that is focused in the penile area. The latter is the most satisfying, as it feels the most complete to me, and it's the one that's brought on by the squeezing thing.

    Fast forward to two days ago…I had been doing some writing for a couple of hours, and felt the “itch,” so to speak. I was going to get myself ready for an Aneros session, but something told me to just go lay down for a minute. I stretched out on my bed, got VERY relaxed, and was kind of resolved to just having a traditional instead of lubing up, etc. Then, just for fun, I tried doing the squeeze-squeeze thing (or some variation of squeezing/caressing/stimulating, etc.) like I just described for you. Imagine my surprise when the “wind up” starts happening…I kept doing it, and holy shit, a super-o within less than 5 minutes, and with no toy!

    It takes about 3 or 4 “waves” before the super hits me, but those build up waves feel SO good. I think a lot of the reason this works for me is that my nipples feel inexorably linked to my prostate – I think of this as a stimulation anchor, and I probably established the link during a session back in January, before I ever super-o’d.

    Hope this gives you an idea about how this is all working for me. I am a bit eccentric, I know this. I have no clue where all this is leading, but I’m very grateful for having discovered what I have so far. As I’ve said before, I am a very happy guy.

    I’ll answer any questions you all may have, but I think I’m zeroing-in on an understanding of this (with me, anyway.)

    Have a great day, Gentlemen – happy motoring.
  • nerosneros
    Posts: 106
    Thanks for sharing!! Think ill give that a whirl next week :-)
  • CrimsonwolfCrimsonwolf
    Posts: 75
    Turnrow said:

    Good things take time.


    And reasoned, articulate communication, be it written or verbal, is a gift.  You have the gift verbally and in writing........its worth the wait.


    You honor me, sir.

    I hope you find value in what I've written here - thank you!

    Cheers

  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 866
    @Crimsonwolf, once again you wrote something absolutely beautiful about your Aneros experience, this time how to achieve a Super-O and even MMO's from Aless. I am bookmarking this thread for further study.

    Incidentally for the last few months I have been enjoying exquisite Aless from which I can savor the energy of Aless and my Aneros sessions.

    And yes, @turnlow, "good things take time!"

    Thom./BigGlansDC
  • TurnrowTurnrow
    Posts: 156
    Crimsonwolf:

    Value, honor, and hats off to you for relating your new experiences and continuing to press the boundaries of the rewiring.

     I have one question that you may not be able to answer since you reached the super O thru aneros toy play. 

    I have asked this question in the chatroom with answers always in the negative.

    My nipples are like yours.  Super Wired to my prostate except that it is my right nipple that is far more erogenous than my left.  I like to engage in nipple stimulation when I have privacy in my work day.  The pleasant surges brighten my day.

    Question: Knowing what you now know about rewiring, do you think it is possible to reach an A_LESS super O from nipple play alone without the use of the aneros toy?  I know on your journey, your first super O was produced thru the aneros toy and that experience probably disposed you to a super O thru A-LESS play.

    I ask because my A-LESS sessions produce more pleasant feelings than my aneros sessions? 

    Between your instructions and Neros' instructions, I hope that this will be my year of the super O, both with the aneros and A-LESS also

    If you or anyone can answer my question, I would appreciate such an opinion from your ever increasing vantage point of the rewiring.  

    Thanks


  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 866
    Interestingly enough, @Turnrow, my Aless is often more pleasurable then my Aneros sessions, but I do not let that bother me. Each session is different and has something to teach me. I like especially Aless because I can focus upon the sweetness of sexual energy emanating from my awakened, pulsating prostate. ;)
  • CrimsonwolfCrimsonwolf
    Posts: 75
    Turnrow said:

    Crimsonwolf:


    Value, honor, and hats off to you for relating your new experiences and continuing to press the boundaries of the rewiring.

     I have one question that you may not be able to answer since you reached the super O thru aneros toy play. 

    I have asked this question in the chatroom with answers always in the negative.

    My nipples are like yours.  Super Wired to my prostate except that it is my right nipple that is far more erogenous than my left.  I like to engage in nipple stimulation when I have privacy in my work day.  The pleasant surges brighten my day.

    Question: Knowing what you now know about rewiring, do you think it is possible to reach an A_LESS super O from nipple play alone without the use of the aneros toy?  I know on your journey, your first super O was produced thru the aneros toy and that experience probably disposed you to a super O thru A-LESS play.

    I ask because my A-LESS sessions produce more pleasant feelings than my aneros sessions? 

    Between your instructions and Neros' instructions, I hope that this will be my year of the super O, both with the aneros and A-LESS also

    If you or anyone can answer my question, I would appreciate such an opinion from your ever increasing vantage point of the rewiring.  

    Thanks




    Yes, I not only think it's possible, I think it's just a matter of time. My ex wife could have an orgasm if I played with her nipples the right way for long enough.

    I'll go one step further: I'm starting to believe that toys are more or less "training wheels." Our bodies already know how to orgasm, and I think we're really just learning to clear the blockages, so to speak, to kind of get our minds out of the way.

    "Instinct" might be a good word to use here.

    Thanks to everyone that read and commented on my post - I'll keep doing it, if you keep liking it. :)
  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 866

    Turnrow said:


    I'll go one step further: I'm starting to believe that toys are more or less "training wheels." Our bodies already know how to orgasm, and I think we're really just learning to clear the blockages, so to speak, to kind of get our minds out of the way.

    "Instinct" might be a good word to use here.

    Thanks to everyone that read and commented on my post - I'll keep doing it, if you keep liking it. :)


    Hi @Crimsonwolf,

    Thank you for your inspirational posts on achieving Super-O's and MMO's with or without Aneros.

    I still enjoy having Aneros sessions with my Aneros tools because they fill me with delight and pleasure. But at the same time, I enjoy the bliss and excitement of Aless in periods between my sessions. Right now it so wonderful to focus on my Aless and to manipulate Aless through breathing exercises, subtle anal contractions, and just by thinking about it!

    Thom./BigGlansDC

    P.S. I'll add by saying that there are lots of men out there who could benefit from the Aneros. Would that it be possible for me sure with the men of the church I attend the wonders of Aneros. Likewise other men here in other walks of life.
  • CrimsonwolfCrimsonwolf
    Posts: 75
    Ahhh, just fyi, everyone, I mistakenly said that my first super was last in February, when in fact, it was January 27th. Yeesh. I corrected it.

    Thanks, Thom - glad you enjoyed it. :)
  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 866
    Well @Crimsonwolf, I am still enjoying what you have written. This morning my Aless is alive with the excitement of sexual energy.

    I am using my Aless right now as foreplay for a session which will occur in a few minutes.

    Thom./BigGlansDC
  • nerosneros
    Posts: 106
    @Crimsonwolf yep i too have come to the same conclusion-aneros toys are training wheels to focus our attentions on the already existent sensations in our bodies. Great posts-look forward to more!
  • Armon-neatArmon-neat
    Posts: 254
    @neros
    thanks for your great contributions to this thread that has been revived.  And thanks to you both for your tremendous contributions to the forums.  It's great to be part of a community with people like you.
  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 866
    I thank our good buddy, @Armon-neat, for starting this thread. I am a retired man who happens to live in a large city which is the seat of the national government along with a high concentration of federal agencies and military service headquarters with their attendant federal employees and military men and women. At this time in my retired life, I have few male friends with whom I can share intimate matters of sexuality and morality.

    There are many security agencies located here.

    Also I go to a large church attended by some of the national authorities, feds, and military men. This parish church belongs to a denomination which is liberalizing a great deal on sexual issues and morality. However this great church which dominates the neighborhood where it is located. Most people at church, I believe are stuck in 1950's mentality on these issues. But prostate health among the men I see there is an issue. Would that the Aneros enter in for their well-being.
  • euphemisticeuphemistic
    Posts: 888
    I had a long agonizing comment written here but the site swallowed it up and didn't even save a draft! But you can just imagine what I said :-)
  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 866
    Sorry to hear that, @euphemistic!