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At a restaurant, talking....
  • sublevel1sublevel1
    Posts: 12
    THen at one point, my best friend and his wife, and my other best friend , came on the subject
    of sex life, and children, you know .....

    i said, that i discover something that with it i don't need a girl friend, not for now anyway
    and i show them a picture of the Helix Syn, with the text saying its for prostate, and male
    multiple orgasm

    They just look and said, ahh, then nothing, I know they were not ready

    just wanted to share !
  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 833
    @sublevel1, I feel if that opportunity arises again say it increases desire and performance with a partner. If you focus more on 'their' benefits it may attract more interest. If you focus on it being more of a substitute then you will have lost them, particularly the couple.
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,149
    some people will never understand.  To truly understand you must want it.  Cheers for bringing it up though, you must have brass cajones lol
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 523
    @sublevel1 I think saying that to a couple might be rude, especially to the girl.
  • LinumLinum
    Posts: 227
    Thanks for sharing with us - we'll all show an interest.

    I agree with the other poster's comments.  They aren't so much criticisms I think, so much as points to consider for the future.

    All the best

    Linum
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 117
    Hehe, blabla :"you need a girlfriend or wife and children to be happy"
    (show the Aneros)
    ' 1 session with this is equivalent to 365 days of sex, you were saying....?'


  • braveneworldbraveneworld
    Posts: 1,014
    Due to my wifes health I have not had sex in over 2 years now. Aneros keeps me sane but I would give it all up in a flash if I could have sex on demand with my wife.Aneros is good but it will never be like a womans touch.
    But thankfully my wife is on board and if she does get better aneros will be staying.

    I think in hindsight you might have delivered the revelation in a better way with better chosen words. But full marks for trying dude!
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 117
    Yeah you're right, in retrospect this would have been better:

    "You need a girlfriend or wife and children to make you happy, blabla, you'll never be complete on your own, blabla, do you want to die alone?"
    (take out the Progasm and put it on the table)
    'stfu'
    :-h
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 523
    Even I, being a happy user, I find it offensive.
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 523
    With the title, I initially thought you reenacted the famous Meg Ryan scene (from When Harry Met Sally)... You would have had a different success... LOL
  • @Ehm

    ROTF LMAO! =))
  • I might tell a close buddy alone, but probably not more than one at the same time, depending on the guys. Definitely not in from of a wife. If the husband buys into it, it for him to share the info with her.
  • devajonesdevajones
    Posts: 157

    @Ehm we get that you want and need to die alone...thats why everybody is an individual....you have a right to your foolishness.

    @braveneworld thank you so much for reaffirming that woman are still needed and make a lovely addition to aneros use...i think some women may be afraid they will soon be replaced by all the plastic their men keep buying and thats just not the case.

    @aneros_user13872 good point well made. the only addition i suggest to @sublevel1 is that when there is a woman around dont say

    sublevel1 said:

    i said, that i discover something that with it i don't need a girl friend, not for now anyway


    why???? the wife probably heard "kick your fucking wife to the curb....and get this man.  it doesnt bitch moan ask you to take out the trash none of that shit"....tack is priceless...use it.  Also when/if you ever get a girlfriend....lose this line...forget it exists.
  • sublevel1sublevel1
    Posts: 12
    You actually did not get the whole story, The 2 guys , i know for over 20 years, we share everything, 1 of them is with a girl, not maried, and she has an 18years old girl, they sleep in a seperate room, they have trouble with their couple
    the other guy, is divorced, alone, no sex life, busy with trouble with the ex, 2 children always sick, he does not get out at all
    a month ago, she asked me , still no woman in your life, and by the way, they all know that i find her very very attractive, and we share all, we talk about orgasm, sex, all, and all 4 of us play joke a lot, 
    she pass by me, and give me a little ball touch, or press her tits on my back when at the beach, all sort of things, just for fun, but never in the intend of sex, just for fun, she likes to see me aroused, but been very shy about it, since she is my best friend girlsfriend...he knows but i swear to him that i will never cross the line
    when she asked me about a new woman, i just told her, that for now, im not looking , and there is other way for sex, then just a one night stand, 
    i prefer my life alone, as a single guy, its my choice ! i go with woman from time to time, but i don't need another person in my life to be happy, if it happened, ill be glad, but for now i learned to live my life alone

    hope this clarify things.
  • sublevel1
    Relationship with that woman as you explain it leaves me with more questions than answers. I get your point about not needing a woman in your life at this time, and that you find what you get from Aneros adequate for you at this time. Also, your explanation of your relationship with these men is helpful for me to understand why you might introduce them, especially the divorced man, to Aneros.
  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 833
    @sublevel1, thank you for putting your OP in context. Fits much better into the full story. You have sown a seed of an idea, it will be interesting if it is taken up. Some of these new ideas take time to sink in, they did with me. Well done!
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 117
    devajones said:

    @Ehm we get that you want and need to die alone...thats why everybody is an individual....you have a right to your foolishness.

    .


    We all die alone unless of course the wife gets burned on the husband's funeral pyre like they used to do in India. Anyway, as for my 'foolishness' and how I supposedly want to live my life... You're very judgemental for someone who believes in individuality

  • devajonesdevajones
    Posts: 157

    @sublevel1 thanks for the whole story....and clarification, makes more sense now.

    @Ehm by foolishness i was refering how you are adding nothing to this thread....as I have noticed you do in many threads....thats not judging thats fact.

  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 117
    Ah now I understand your animosity, you're still angry coz I thought it was a selfish reason(and totally unnecessary btw) that you liked the idea of men being circumcised coz having half their dick cut off would allow them to last longer, or that had been your experience coz uncircumcised men were too sensitive in your opinion.
    I made a joke, sorry, based on what I read it was appropriate until sublevel 1 explained what was going on and that it was perhaps his way of staying aloof from his friend's gf flirts. Coz believe it or not, people are constantly 'advising' people who don't have their 'perfect'life why they aren't just like them. Be it women who don't have children who are constantly asked 'why don't you have children' or men why they aren't married have a girlfriend.
    1)It's none of their business 2a)you want to but you don't have a choise(say the woman is infertile)b) you don't want to
    Either way their asking isn't helping anything and can be uncomfortable and unnecessary painful too.
    When s1 was being criticised I thought I'd make light of the topic and at the same time show the other side to the story


    Anyway I haven't come on this forum to argue, so please, forgive me my foolishness, I wish you and your 'hubbie' (and children if you have any)all the happiness in the world
  • devajonesdevajones
    Posts: 157
    @Ehm...you have proved my suspicion to that you are here just to kill time to be true.  Your assesment of my post on circumcision is totally wrong and anybody who read that can see that. You replied to me with a response that was....well very scattered thought wise and full of grammatical errors.  I'm not arguing with you...and thanks.