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Orgasm: How do you know you had one?
  • DarkEngineDarkEngine
    Posts: 192
    Following on this discussion in the chat, my intuition may be lacking…
    So basically, you had an anal orgasm right? What made that an orgy? How about a prostate orgasm?

    I know I had great moments with the Aneros, the trouble is I struggle to identify what is actually was - if it even was something to begin with. Maybe I'm so lost to using and riding fantasies that everything else slips by me? (Then again, this is what pushed along my journey more than anything)
    Worse yet, I don't know if I had a Super-O or simply mini-Os.

    I'm pretty certain I have abdomen/stomach orgasms, though that's all I ever seem to get and pretty bored of that, lol
    Any input would be much appreciated, thanks all!
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,168
    If you have to question it then it isn't an orgasm, least not a full one, perhaps a mini o or p waves perhaps. Super o from what I read are very noticeable as such.
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,162
    @DarkEngine, I hear where your coming from.  I've struggled with this myself.  Ive had 2 super O's since starting more then 2 years ago.  I will stand by that they were super, but for some reason they are hard to come by for me.  What I usually get its extreme pleasure and occasionally an orgasm I like to call the freight train, no other way to describe it and usually lasts about a minute or two.  Ocassionally I also get these quick orgasm flashes, they come on quick and leave just as quickly and feel really good.  None of the orgasms ive had from the start are nothing like a traditional, at least as far as I'm concerned.  I guess for me I dont really care what it is or was anymore, I enjoy it and keep at it.  If anything its relaxing.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,168
    You've not been at it long @ineverknew, comparitivley, plus at least you get *something*

    You have lots of time to make regular super o's happen. Right?
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,162
    @inhope, compared to you, nope not that long.   Though it doesnt seem like two years, seems like a shorter period of time.  I'm self employed so the amount of time I can dedicate to aneros use varies.  I'm also married with three children so that doesnt help as far as alone time.  I love when I have a day off during the week, its so relaxing to not have to worry about any distractions but those do not happen much anymore.  I usually find my only aneros time is late at night after everyone has gone to bed.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,168
    The worst time to do I am told, you need to be awake and aroused for things to happen.
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,397
    DarkEngine,
    I hope you'll read the thread What's an Orgasm? which was created a couple of months before you joined the Forum. There have been numerous discussions on the Forum regarding the specifics of Super-O's. Please read Buster's thread What exactly is a Super-O to get a wider perspective of what a Super-O is in reality.

    I would also encourage all of you to read 'BF Mayfield's response post in the Non-Ejaculatory response vs. Super-O thread.
    image Good Vibes to You ! image

  • DarkEngineDarkEngine
    Posts: 192
    Thanks Rumel - the topic on Super-O is particularly enlightening. So perhaps my first Super-O had indeed happened without the Aneros?
    Interesting expression with the freight train, ineverknew. With 'orgie flashes', I think I had something similar a few weeks ago. After a session last night (and anerosless ofc), I suddenly felt…these orgies going out of my control. It felt great, since usually my mind having to work a bit sort of clouds the pleasure a touch.
    inhope: inhope said:The worst time to do I am told, you need to be awake and aroused for things to happen.

    Interesting. People mention having some fantastic moments sleeping with the Aneros, but I know what you mean. I prefer doing it at night also, since doing it during the day makes me feel weirdly guilty. (In a sort of "You
    really have nothing better to be doing right now…?")
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,162
    @DarkEngine, no need to feel guilty as I only do sessions during the day when I really don't have anything better to do LOL.  Though that is rare as I mentioned.  I'm also a night person, thats when I am the most awake and aroused.
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 765
    While most of my best sessions lately are during the day, my first Super O was actually at about 12:30 am, which was a total surprise! It's all a combination of things no doubt!

    TG