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Most success with full bladder?
  • I'm a long time user but no Super O yet.  All my sessions are on my stomach with the do nothing approach.

    I noticed recently that I seem to get the most pleasure when my bladder is full.  The best time for a session is usually mid to late morning with the lingering effects of morning coffee.  I always empty my bladder before a session but if I get to the hour mark in my session I usually have to pee again.

    There have been numerous times where I felt the pleasure getting good but then felt like I was going to pee.  Which I always end up doing and it's a long clear pee which means my bladder was full.  The pleasure is usually the type that feels like it's behind the base of the penis and similar to the buildup of a traditional orgasm.  I know some people say just let go and you won't pee.  But since every time I feel the urge my suspicions are confirmed when I have a very long pee. Recently during a couple sessions I felt a very slow "trickle" of fluid down my urethra which I thought might have been pee.  It ended up being a decent amount of pre-cum.  For me anyway, as mostly don't get any pre-cum and sometimes 2 or 3 drops.

    Questions:

    1.  Is seems my pleasure is directly proportionate to how full my bladder is.  This obviously presents a problem.  Does anybody have any insight into what may be going on physically or how I might use this experience to replicate pleasure without a full bladder?

    2.  I've heard some describe their orgasm as "feeling like cum is streaming out of my cock but nothing comes out".  Is this the situation where you need to let go and just trust you won't pee?  I'd love to have an orgasm like this but I can't pee the bed!
  • exodusexodus
    Posts: 46
    I don't feel qualified to fully answer your question but maybe the full bladder is causing pressure on the prostate thus enhancing stimulation? Anyway I noticed the same thing with some of my sessions.
  • @hamptonbdsm

    FWIW. I start out my sessions with an empty bladder. Whenever I squirt, it feels like I have to urinate; but I do not urinate, while I am squirting. If you want to save your bed, from any type of wetness, invest in a Liberator Throe.

  • braveneworldbraveneworld
    Posts: 1,086
    Maybe you should try laying on your side. give it a few sessions. you might find it works better. It changes the pressure of everything inside and may have the desired effect so you dont need a full bladder.
  • dmiketdmiket
    Posts: 33
    I would add that you should trust how you feel as you know your body better than anyone else. If you think you're going to pee you probably will.
    I take a similar approach to my sessions and have found on three or four occasion that the urge to pee was exactly the thing I needed to do, even as I was edging towards the fantastic feeling building in that area.
    On one occasion I let it the good feelings bring me to climax and I peed all over the towel I had with me.
    Glad I had a towel.
    I've also found a full bladder did enhance the buildup of the experience . That said, emptying my bladder and returning to my session was the right thing to do as my rides were measurably more relaxed afterwards. And enjoyable I should add.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,255
    I experience this, exactly. Yet when I asked for help nobody helped nor knew what I was talking about. Nice to see that I'm not the only getting this, good it's finally been answered after all this time too.
  • dmiketdmiket
    Posts: 33
    @inhope. If I helped out you're certainly welcome.
    I'm just sharing my experience as I honestly as I can.
  • braveneworldbraveneworld
    Posts: 1,086
    @inhope I guess you really can live "inhope"  
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,255
    its why its my username, even the most terrible insurmountable odds i live in hope.



    most likely Naively
  • Armon-neatArmon-neat
    Posts: 254
    I dunno. I've found that a full bladder hinders the pleasure. I guess it's another case of WWFY (whatever works for you). I've been in the situation where the feeling of letting go , --I think it is actually relaxing the BC Muscle -- feels like peeing and if there's pee in dere it's gonna make its way out.. BY THE WAY: had a spectacular 1:30 session waking out of sleep with the device in at 3:50 am. I had a gentle clonic ( in and out) movement of the device going spontaneously which I kind of mentally tacked on to a sense of a wave, increasing and decreasing in amplitude and then I used gentle nipple stim to give well over 45 min of bliss punctuated by at least 5 ecstatic full body orgasm sensations. Actually had enough time to get another 1:30 hr sleep before having to get up at 6. Hope to reprise it tonight as I poke at the keyboard with the Helix in and feel myself dosing off...