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Advice on Arousal
  • Hey all!

    This time, I'm wondering about one of the basics on MMO/Aneros: arousal.
    Is it normal that some tricks or techniques to generating arousal do not work as well the first time? For instance, recently I tried slowly rubbing parts of my body lightly - there was a really nice, electric feel to it, which is how Hypnaeros describes it funnily enough. Night following? Vague, and hard to sense. Which can describe a lot of sessions following an amazing one with Aneros. It can feel frustrating since I always feel like it's eureka - I'm finally onto something - only to find it's worn out from there on. It's almost like a one-trick pony.

    This could be chalked up to expectation, but I'm not so sure. Fantasies, positions and such have never worked nearly as well the first time using it, or sometimes at all. And this is three-years into my journey, it feels like I'm running out of tricks just to have an actual good time.


  • I have to say i know exactly what you're talking about.  I'm pretty much the same way.  I think its really the fact that it's something new that is what that feeling is.  It is probably the fact that you just get desensitized to anythingif you do it too much or even anytime after the first.  I'm not really sure what the solution to this problem is, but one thing you could try is not engaging in anything arousing such as using the aneros for a week or so and see if that helps.  I know if i don't use the aneros for a while the first time i put it in i get that same "electric" feeling your talking about.
  • slimjm
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    Take a week or so off and then just enjoy relaxing completely with it in at a time you're not too tired and after you've gotten really relaxed, lightly tickle your nipples some.  It will be great fun what you'll feel.
  • slimjm said:Take a week or so off and then just enjoy relaxing completely with it in at a time you're not too tired and after you've gotten really relaxed, lightly tickle your nipples some.  It will be great fun what you'll feel.

    I typically do about two weeks or more off with Aneros - unless you mean also with touching nipples, then yeah, that's a good idea. I'm trying to avoid nipple stimulation of recent; while it builds arousal quickly, sometimes I think it's a little
    too good at its job. Specifically, the arousal jumps to the penis first and the pleasure is in very confined areas. Within a few seconds I get a Mini-O, and that slight refractory can often be enough for me to literally call it a night on MMO.

    Then again,  that's when I'm not feeling so horny. Few days ago, I constantly stimulated the nipples along with watching porn and such - think my deep, inner arousal grew bit by bit. My PC Muscles/Prostate swelled like nothing before.
  • I agree that one can overdo it with nipple stimulation. If your nipples are sensitive, I touch mine briefly and slightly and then stand back. a little can go a long way.
  • i agree, nipple stim for me has to be almost in a teasing way, too much and i just end up raging hard and my prostate gets left out of the fun.  I try little teases on one nipple for a while then switch.  I still find it very hard to O from nipples but I did once and it was pretty cool.
  • I agree with time away from the penis your session pleasure will heighten. I went 12 days with out cumming or even touching my penis. The first couple of days were hard but then after it became normal. But watch out for those nipples. They will become extra sensitive and will work you up so quickly. play with them in moderation.