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the journey so far
  • Hi everyone,
    the many posts I read on this forum helped me on my journey so far and after last night's new heights I feel I have to give back a little.

    I am a fresh user of the aneros but not new to anal pleasures since I am gay, both active and passive and have been playing occasionaly with dildos. When I saw the aneros and read a few posts I thought: this is for me!

    The MGX and Helix arrived last week and I gave myself a test ride with them. The first two sessions I had were dissapointing as nothing happened. Nothing. Except I could feel the aneros in my rectum and that was it.

    After that I tried to follow the advice to relax, kneel, do nothing... for some reason I think I was triying too hard. On the third session I contracted my sphincter muscles, thighs, just about everything I could and it got me into some sort of spasms with a rocking pelvic motion. I could definitely feel the aneros and the tab this time, generating a wee bit of pleasure but what seemed to be very little for such an effort. Anyway I was making progress.

    Then I read someone's post about differentiating between all the mucles involved in order to fine tune the effect... easier said than done. But I tried and noticed that if I concentrated on my anal sphincter and then added contractions of the muscles that control your peeing, somehow the plesure seemed a bit higher. But still: no waves, no butterflies, no groaning... I was becoming jealous!

    On my fourth or fifth session something different happened: After using the aneros for an hour and calling it a day with only slight improvement, I terminated the session by masturbating and as the previous times my orgasm was a bit stronger and copious than normal. I took the aneros out and went to sleep. When I woke up, I could still feel my sphincter muscles and contracted them a few times. A very short but definite hit of pleasure went through my body! I was so surprised as I had done nothing more than contract my muscles with no aneros in. The pleasure was akin to what I experience when I make love.. only shorter. This definitely encouraged me to continue as I was feeling that I was making little steps forward every session.

    Yesterday I came home tired from a very busy week at work. Went to bed at 1 am and decided to try and sleep with the aneros in. As ever afer the first sessions I used the MGX as I like it better.
    After a relatively short time (15?30? mins) I was where I'd been before but I then tried to avoid squeezing my butt too much or rocking my pelvis and lay still. When contracting and moving the aneros inside I tried to feel if there was a place that seemed more sensitive. When there I would try to just keep the toy pressing there, not thinking about my contraction or breathing, and I tried to get \"into\" the feeling mentally, concentrating on the pleasure created, however small. This resulted in stronger feelings but I could not sustain them very long; however I was now really starting to enjoy this. Then on one occasion I got a glimpse of what was ahead I guess: a warmer, deeper, stronger feeling started to radiate within my pelvis, at the same time my legs experienced a fast but low amplitude vibration. This was very nice and I tried to find how to keep it but again lost it after a while.
    Tired I decided to end the session with a hand job and had a very strong orgasm, rocking around and comming profusely, despite having done so several days in a row ( and I am no 20 year old...). I went to sleep after playing a bit with contractions without the aneros that brought little pleasures all worth feeling.
    I don't know how long I slept but I was woken up by a sharp surge of pleasure going through my body. I loved it even though I was quite taken by surprise. My body felt very sensitive and my anal area even more so; I couldn't resist giving it another try, so I put a little bit of lube on my Helix and in it went. I experienced more waves that I couldn't make last but enjoyed them as they came. Then, and for the first time ever since I embarked on this journey, I felt a very strong erection. I was too tired to last very long so I played with myself again and had another very strong and wet orgasm.

    I haven't had the super one, I know that, but every session had something more to offer and I feel that my body is slowly awakening and offering me more and more enjoyable moments. I haven't read here of someone experiencing \"pangs\" of pleasure that woke them up but would like to hear from your experiences. I am very interested to see where this leads and just a bit anxious that I may become addicted(!)

    This is the first \"place\", virtual or other, where I have seen men share such intimate feelings, regardless of their origins or sexual orientations. And I am touched. All because of this little bit of plastic we are playing with...

  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
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    Mypleasure,

    It appears that you're coming to a deeper understanding of why I have long referred to all of this as a sensual journey. Like a journey there are very often little detours along the way, but eventually things reveal themselves to you...albeit slowly sometimes. These pangs as you have called them or rushes as I call them, are definite signs of an anal/prostatatic awakening. Yes, it is very possible to have these waves of pleasure without the Aneros or any other stimulation outside of a contraction or two and some element of arousal. As a matter of fact, very commonly when a person truly crosses-over they many times feel aftershocks of the Super O for hours afterwards (sometimes even days).

    In any event, it sounds as though you're going in the right direction. If you start to stall a bit, I might suggest that you put a day or two between your sessions and recharge your batteries! It can really help, and again, remember arousal is an essential component in all of this so if you don't feel it ...don't force it.

    Regarding your final point, about sharing these intimate details here,...yes, I think it terrific thing! It's a funny thing too...because I think what you'll discover here,..is that most advanced users are positively driven to share this experience with others. Naturally this says something about the individuals themselves, but frankly I believe it says more about the experience itself. That is, the Super O changes you.....

    BF Mayfield
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    Originally Posted By: B Mayfield
    Mypleasure,


    If you start to stall a bit, I might suggest that you put a day or two between your sessions and recharge your batteries! It can really help, and again, remember arousal is an essential component in all of this so if you don't feel it ...don't force it.

    Regarding your final point, about sharing these intimate details here,...yes, I think it terrific thing! It's a funny thing too...because I think what you'll discover here,..is that most advanced users are positively driven to share this experience with others. Naturally this says something about the individuals themselves, but frankly I believe it says more about the experience itself. That is, the Super O changes you.....

    BF Mayfield


    The excitment, the hunger for more has made me overlook the issue of stamina... On my last session I did indeed stall a bit and actually felt like I was forcing it a bit; all I got was nice sensations and lots of fatigue! So I am putting the aneros away for a few days now and will refrain from similar pleasures as well.

    I feel I have embarked on a very exciting journey indeed and I actually like the idea that it will take a while, most probably. Makes you enjoy every little step even more!

    P.

















  • My journey continues. I am all but certainly getting an
    orgasm of some kind. My sensations are very positive; this is from a guy who
    disposed of devices a year or more ago, because they were not working.



    This time the Vice was fast into action—within 2 to 3 minutes
    (really). For the next 60 to 90 minutes or more, there were several positive
    internal sensations. First, a sense of an emerging ball from the size of maybe
    a dime to that of a Ping-Pong or golf ball within the anal area. I tried to
    follow this sensation or at least balance it within the cavity and let it keep
    coming as long as it would. Second, a sense the Vice was slapping around the prostate. (This sounds a little gross, but was
    really nice.) I let it happen instinctively, rather than trying to control it
    at all. Third, a sensation there was an emergence around the outside of the
    rectum (the inner cheeks, if you will); something you could seem to sit on. (I
    know that sounds strange, but that was a very pleasant development, too.) The
    feelings would move from one of these different auras to another, then around
    to yet another.



    The twitching I experienced in my pelvic and anal regions
    months and weeks ago have transitioned into full body twitching. This is much
    more than mere vibration. There is a satisfaction to these feelings. I found,
    for this session, the Vice (without the insert) worked fine. I am coming to prefer the large size.



  • RIP aneros devices . :-((
     So sad to hear they got wasted.
    Happy you are getting somewhere now though.
    Stick in there. Excuse the pun.