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First super-o, but nothing since.
  • jja
    Posts: 49
    I have had what I'd consider my first super-o.  It was about 90% strength of a traditional orgasm, but instead of lasting for 6 - 10 seconds like a tradional orgasm, it lasted for 1 - 2 minutes.  So I consider it a super-o.  Unfortunatly I haven't had any luck sense!  Had it bout a month ago.  Anyone else have this problem?
  • helix44
    Posts: 17
    I have had many cycles of success followed by weeks of dud sessions trying to reproduce it.  It's frustrating!  Eventually I give up and allow myself to be honest in feeling what I'm feeling, enjoying the moment, and letting go of any expectation that I'll be experiencing more.  You'd be surprised what kind of awesome sensations can sneak up on you when you truly do let go!  

    One of the magical aspects of aneros use is that no two sessions are the same.  If you find yourself expecting to retrace a path you've already explored in past sessions, your body will probably just fail to oblige.  Work on letting go, relaxing and then relaxing more.  At the very least you'll enjoy the relaxation.  More than likely you'll encounter some very interesting sensations in the process.
  • I'm having the same thing happen.  Had my first super o a while ago, maybe two months now, havent even come close.  Lots of dud sessions.  I have no doubt it will come again, just have to enjoy things as they come and just not worry about it.  But yes its very frustrating LOL.
  • XilehXileh
    Posts: 353
    I went through a 4 month dry spell this summer. It was fun, but mild and consistent. Then about 2 months ago, things really picked up. So much is happening, I can't even identify a pattern. Sensations come and go, sometimes repeat. All are intense.

    I think, when I quit thinking about my dry spell, it ended. Who knows?

    Xileh
  • @Xileh I think I have just started the same kind of dry spell.And its just coming into summer here too :)
    It all still feels good just dull not intense.
    With any luck it is the calm before the storm!
  • Good day, guys.

    OK, again, as I have said many, many times, focus on Super O, IMHO, is a fruitless endeavor.  I say this because I believe it puts the emphasis in the wrong place.

    A Super O, whatever that means, because it's different for every guy, is a wonderful and exciting thing.  It's real, tangible and superbly enjoyable.  I certainly don't deny it's existence or it's fulfilling occurrence.  But TRYING to get there is the issue here.  To paraphrase Yoda, "there is no try, there is only do" here. 

    We DO Aneros.  That's it.  By that I mean, our experience with our Aneros toys is based on the premise of prostate stimulated pleasure.  Period.  This pleasure seeking varies from session to session and can be absolutely astounding or it can be very mild.  The point is the PLEASURE, whatever "level" of pleasure is delivered and not the DISAPPOINTMENT that can accompany the feeling of failing to achieve a so-called Super O.

    Many guys here have reported that they are able to reach a level of pleasure that has been referred to as Super O often, even every session.  That's not been my experience, nor do I believe it's the experience of most of us.  However, all of us, once we've achieved a state of rewiring that allows for some degree of pleasure with every session, should focus on the wonderful sensations that our Aneros delivers, for me that's every time, and be satisfied and joyful with whatever level of pleasure we derive and not feel like we've failed because we haven't achieved Super O.

    Be happy! And if you're a newer user, simply remember that while you may not "feel" anything every time, EVERY SESSION gets you closer to the pleasure of Aneros stimulation as you rewire.  So, enjoy Aneros pleasure at whatever level you achieve it, and you WILL be rewarded with Super O at whatever level you achieve it. 

    By the way, for me, when I do get to the Super O level, it can last 15 minutes or more! Additionally, a successful session for me is one that allows me to achieve what I refer to as my Aneros "zone" that is so pleasant and so soothing that I can linger in it for sometimes hours, with a warmth and tingle that floats up and down my spine and radiates to my legs and arms...almost indescribable. 

    Hang in there, fellows, and enjoy whatever dame Aneros delivers.  It's all good.

    Cockadoodle
  • Well said Cockadoodle!  Ive been at this for just over a year now, and every session brings new and wonderful feelings even if they arent the super o.  It is frustrating, no doubt, to not be able to achieve the holy grail each and every time, but that being said, sometimes its just best to stop and smell the coffee along the way and not worry so much about where the journey takes us.