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Ive been wondering
  • AurokenAuroken
    Posts: 113
    lve had some interesting feelings but not had any success yet (been at it for three years so far).

    however l have a question as l believe part of the reason lve not had any success is because lm not placing the Aneros(es) correctly to have perennial(sp?) access.

    so here is my question, where is the perineum? l know the general location but lve found no information out there that really gives much of an answer other than its between the scrotum and the anus, what l wish to know is how one tells where it is and where best to place the P-Tab and tell tale signs of what to look for area wise when placing the p-tab in position as my general findings are that when l allow an aneros to place itself (be dragged in on its own) l can only imagine it getting dragged straight up.

    however my assumption is the p-tab is supposed to help angle it towards the prostate but lm not sure its doing it enough on any of the models l own (Helix, SGX, MGX, Maximus, Eupho and Progasm).

    In any case, so far lve only seen a diagram for the Helix placement, l would be very interested in seeing similar diagrams of inserted placement for other aneros models for informational value, as well as more information on how to find the prime spot on the perineum to place the P-tab, while l am aware it maybe different for different ppl, there must be some common ground after all we arent all that different and our internal organs are generally all in the same place.. so where do l start looking?

    (lol l work better from diagrams for some reason, so on that note.. where would one theoretically locate the Perineum on this diagram? )
  • AztecAztec
    Posts: 47

    Find the ridge that is raised leading from your anus, to your scrotum. You will note that it is not soft in some areas leading to and from. Now, take a sharpy, but leave the cap on. A finger will not work, you need something that has a point like a sharpy top. Starting at the scrotum, press ever so slightly for a few seconds on the ridge. If you don't feel a tingling sensation, move it a little closer to your anus, but keep it on the ridge. You will eventually hit the 'sweet spot' of your Perineum. Mark the spot with your sharpy, and verify your inserted toy is massaging this general area by looking in a mirror, or setting up a video camera.

    If it isn't, reposition yourself. If you are on your back, try adding something under your lower back. Then slide yourself back and forth on the item until you achieve contact. I hope this helps.

  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,484

    You have already correctly identified the perineum area of your body, roughly that area between your scrotum and anus spanning between your legs. This area is highly sensitive and easily erotically stimulated due to the proximate underlying nexus of nerves serving the genitals called the Pudendal nerve(s).

    I get the impression you are actually asking about Taoist/Tantric acupressure spot known as the "Million Dollar Point" which is located in the perineum area. What you call "...the prime spot..." is referred to as the sweet spot in the Aneros WIKI. You can read about some tips for helping you locate that spot in the WIKI. This is the intended location for the placement of the P-tab of your Aneros massager.

    With that being said, I wouldn't be overly concerned with finding and hitting it exactly. I've been using Aneros massagers for 5 years now and still have not found my "sweet spot" image but nonetheless have experienced Super-O's.image One's attitude goes a long way to defining what constitutes success, hopefully, you will give yourself more credit for successfully experiencing "...interesting feelings..." during the ongoing journey with your Aneros massagers.
  • hulahula
    Posts: 234
    Look between the points marked as number 1 and number 2 on this photograph.
  • AurokenAuroken
    Posts: 113
    thanks for the information, and with regards to interesting feelings.. l just cant get past them. lve done contractions to the do nothing technique and while at points l can consistently keep these "interesting feelings" l cant seem to progress further than them which is slightly frustrating however l dont go in with that mindset and tend to try and pay no attention to what lm trying to do if that makes sense.