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  • This past Thursday, I masturbated with ejaculation. This was after I had a mild dry orgasm. I must say that the orgasm I experienced with the ejection was the strongest I have had in a long time. Yesterday, I used my progasm again and I had two orgasms very close together, after the first, I just relaxed and let things come (no pun intended). Overall, I was extremely pumped up and felt very energetic although it did take a lot of energy. I do believe I was able to save some after the second.
    I want to thank everyone for their advice and most has been very complimentary to each other, with little contradictory information. Should that occur, I will choose what I think is best. Thanks again.:rolleyes:
  • The_BishopThe_Bishop
    Posts: 810
    Guess you have to change your username now. ;)
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Yes, indeed, a name change would seem to be in order! There are certain usernames that broadcast a lot about you and your experience. Yours is one of them. If this is no longer accurate, you may want to consider a change. Doing so would require an email or call to [EMAIL="support@aneros.com"]support@aneros.com[/EMAIL].

    BF Mayfield
  • Yes, my user name is now GetterThere. Yesterday, again I had two dry orgasms, one following after the other. After the first I rested and just let it happen. I came again, the vibes were over all of my upper body and started to go into my legs. I now know to stay with things until I feel that I am done and not just remove the device after one real good experience because the next one could be stronger. Patience is the key. I try not to think of much when I am "in practice" although some fantasy helps. Overall, I am getting there, oh, so slowly. Getting
  • Today I had three orgasms together with hardly a break in between. The last one was the best I have had in at least two months. I literally yelled out in pleasure and was out of breath for some time. It was very energy sapping but worth it. I had not exercised in two days so that may explain the strength of my orgasm. I am not even near a Super-O yet but I am much further along than I was. Getting There
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 722
    Sounds great. Keep up the good work.

    I think most of us have had a similar experience so this would indicate you are on the right track.
  • I have not had much success today but I think I need to rest and wait at least until tomorrow to start again. I feel that my body get's tired when I have the multiple Os even if they are mild. It is funny but I have lost weight because of this. I mentioned this before but it is true. I will be back Monday.
    Getting There
  • Yesterday, I had a fantastic orgasm but I ejaculated just a small bit. Today, I really had a fantastic O but I think I ejaculated because I felt the cum between my legs and I know it was not the lube. So I am doing worse on controlling the ejaculation although the Os are better than ever. I need to work more on my muscles and my breathing. However, I am encouraged. Getting There
  • Today, I had two medium Os with no ejaculation. I hope to keep working at the continued maintenance of orgasms without losing sperm and to build up my sexual energy. Comparing now with when I first started, my Os are much stronger and I shake quite a bit. I know I have not had a super O yet but I feel like with patience that will happen. This forum has been a great place for me to express myself and experience.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Getting there,

    Congratulations on your progress...and your name change.



    BF Mayfield




    Be open to all....feel your way, and things will reveal themselves to you.
  • I have not been practicing lately for a number of reasons but the result has been I have not enjoyed the Progasm as much as I had. Very probably it is because I have not kept up practice on a regular basis that the results have not been very good. I have barely felt even the least bit of orgasmic flow and I hope it is just my pyschology (I am easily discouraged and have experienced clinical depression all of my life) so I think not trying so hard will help.
    So many on this forum have been helpful and I would appreciate any assistance I can get. I am not going to quit but I have felt like it. I know others out there have been where I am now and can share their experience with me. Getting There
  • rck
    Posts: 32
    GettingThere, I am trying to go where you have already been. Do not feel discouraged. Take the knowledge with you that you have experienced a pleasure mulitple times that most males will never feel in their life. You are in elite company. The fact that you haven't been 'successful' lately I'm sure has a lot to do with your current psychology. You probably haven't had as much time or inclination to use your Aneros so your body is out of practice. Couple that with your not being in a great frame of mind because of other things going on and you have a recipe for frustration. The key, I think, is to remember how you started and to stop trying to be "successful". Just let it work and start over. View your sessions as an opportunity to renew and relax....the rest will come again as it did in the past. Putting pressure on achieving a result will only make that result more difficult to attain.

    Good luck..

    [QUOTE=Getting There;100026]I have not been practicing lately for a number of reasons but the result has been I have not enjoyed the Progasm as much as I had. Very probably it is because I have not kept up practice on a regular basis that the results have not been very good. I have barely felt even the least bit of orgasmic flow and I hope it is just my pyschology (I am easily discouraged and have experienced clinical depression all of my life) so I think not trying so hard will help.
    So many on this forum have been helpful and I would appreciate any assistance I can get. I am not going to quit but I have felt like it. I know others out there have been where I am now and can share their experience with me. Getting There
  • Thank you, rck. I am sure you are right and if I just let things happen, they will. It sounds funny but last evening I had some minor pleasurable feelings or shaking just while I sat there. They began when I started to exercise my deep breathing. Wow, if just the deep breathing without the Progasm can make me feel what I felt last night, the more I look forward to experiencing the progress I had made before. You are certainly right when you say I have experienced pleasure that at least some men have not experienced in their lives. Good luck to you in your progress and take your own advice.
    I will certainly abide by it. I 'll write again tomorrow.
  • This morning I used my Progasm and had two dry orgasms, the first was a mini, after which I rested but shortly afterword had a much stronger one. I still cannot have a sperm ejaculation (due to my ED I think) but I don't worry about it too much). I will continue to practice and use whatever I need to eventually super-O. I just need to keep at it.
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 722
    Getting There,

    If you are receiving orgasms from using your Progasm, that's great. Don't expect to "have a sperm ejaculation" from this activity. A Super-O is a 'Dry" orgasm and shouldn't normally involve ejaculation.

    If you do have an ejaculation in association with prostate massage, by the definition in the Wiki, this is called a "Super-T" which would normally be associated with intercourse and/or simultaneous stimulation of the penis. Unless you are currently involving your penis, I wouldn't worry about your ED.

    I reckon you are spot on track. Stick with it!
  • Badger
    Posts: 648
    I thought that an ejaculation by prostate massage was called a "hands-free wet-O."
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 722
    Badger,

    You are absolutely correct!

    I was just attempting to put the concerns that "Getting There" was having over seeming to be unable to ejaculate using his Progasm alone.
  • You are right but if my wife overcomes her feelings that I am gay and that sex is mutally attractive, I feel the need to ejaculate is important but I am not even getting an erection. I know the readings tell us how to enter a woman without having a real hard on but I am concerned.
    I will concentrate on the orgasms although yesterday, I ejected the prograsm from my anus without even coming close to an orgasm. I think I possibly over lubed myself but am not sure.
    It seems I go two steps forward and one step back at times so I need to just keep at it.
    Getting There
  • Badger
    Posts: 648
    Getting There;

    So your Progasm is ejecting itself before O? I have the same problem, and I just put on an old pair of boxer briefs with the waistband rolled all the way down, so it can help hold the Progasm in without touching the penis.
  • I may have overstated the case about the progasm being ejected (came all the way out). It just protruded enough to miss my prostate but I have since tried it and had no problem with to mini-Os. Thank you for the suggestion, Badger, if I have the problem again I will use your method.

    Sometimes I feel like my Os are not as good as before and I don't look forward to them. It may be that I expect too much and would be better off just getting what I get, that way, I can be pleasantly surprised. I have been doing this for less than six months so I cannot expect immediate success although I did have a mid-O spurting having only been going about two weeks. It will happen when it happens, no sooner or later and just enjoy what I can and relax.
    Getting There
  • The last couple days I used my progasm, little or nothing has happened. Perhaps I am trying too hard or am out of practice but I will try again. Perhaps a vibrating aneros would be helpful. I will try to keep going with the progasm but it may be too large for me. Any suggestions will be welcome. Getting There (?)
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