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What do YOU think about during a session?
  • wontquitwontquit
    Posts: 43
    Every source says to "fantasize" something, but Im so used to pornography that I feel like I need it to remain aroused. So what exactly are YOU thinking about? At what point do you stop "fantasizing"?
  • I used to "fantasize" alot, but for some reason always found that either my thoughts would wander elsewhere quite easily or it would not become as stimulating as I thought it would be. Watching porn during aneros I find is really nice but I only do it once in a while so I don't become dependent on visual stimulation to get me going. What I reeeally like to do and works best for me (been doing it ALOT more as of late) is to just close my eyes and focus ENTIRELY on every feeling the toy is giving me. The way it slides in my rectum, every tiny bit of pressure, every specific feeling that results from my toy and kind of imagine it happening if that makes sense. This intensifies the feelings because it is the sole thing I focus on and allows me to further identify the results of my breathing, muscle contractions, ect. I like doing this both because of the intensification of the feelings as well as giving me better control and understanding of the aneros/body interaction.
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,492

    You may find reading ‘Pan’s posts in The five minutes leading up to a Super-O thread helpful.
  • slimjmslimjm
    Posts: 577
    Okay, coming perhaps from a little different background here, but I'm a conservative Christian married guy and so don't do porn to start with. But during that last couple minutes or so leading up to a super-O when the feelings inside are about to explode into my first dry orgasm, I'll either fantasize about something erotic I'd like to enjoy doing with my wife during sex, or as AlllnTheMind referenced, just savor the subtle feelings like the movement of the massager in my rectum or the involuntary contractions of my anus and how incredible and prolonged that buildup before a prostate orgasm really is (much more so than you could ever experience with a traditional ejaculatory orgasm). But then when the orgasm itself surges through me, there's nothing else at that point I'm able to think about except how great it feels.
  • TurnrowTurnrow
    Posts: 176
    Wonderful post, slimjim, on what you as a conservative Christian guy thinks about. Very helpful.

    Now to get there to super O land myself. That time and place is not yet in my life but there is hope.
  • ZenithZenith
    Posts: 22
    While all of my worthwhile Anerosgasmic sessions start with desire, I try to ramp down my arousal to as close to zero as I can get through meditation. Once all the extraneous thought is gone, I think of how my breathing supports my soul, my being and my physical sensations. I've never been turned on by visual porn and think it would be a distraction from what I'm feeling.

    I'd make a really lousy circus ringmaster.
  • STARR831STARR831
    Posts: 71
    Like slimjim and Turnrow, I too am a Christian man. I look forward to each aneros session as a time to focus intently upon the intricate nature of my male creation -- praising my God with each building surge of fullness, each radiating wave of tingling and each glorious O! Two mornings ago, I clearly remember the coolness of my eupho sliding through my anal sphincters and settling aginst my prostate --- soon to be followed by that familiar awakening deep within my loins. With no outside distractions, my thoughts wandered to my Beloved, to a special mountain top escape earlier in my life and to the command of my Lord: "Be still and know that I am God!" --- a verse that was impressed upon my mind during a particularly intense mid-winter aneros session. These times are awesome; and, each session is a blessing --- something I hope to never take for granted.
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 888
    Hello, wontquit.

    I usually fantasize about my wife pegging me although now that also includes replays of the actual pegging sessions. Once I get to Super-O Land, the visuals get more abstract and "cosmic." At that point I can't say I'm really thinking about anything.

    Best Regards,

  • petardpetard
    Posts: 27
    I don't always use my Aneros, but when I do I lie face down, close my eyes and try to concentrate on its subtle movements, visualizing the interaction with my prostate. It's pleasurable but not especially erotic--almost like a therapeutic activity. Sometimes I imagine that the Aneros is my own penis touching my prostate, that my pelvis has been turned inside out somehow and now my penis is behind me. It's like my penis and my prostate form a circuit in which one pleasures the other. There's something about visualizing a cyclical circuit like this that causes pleasure to build. Anyone else do this?
  • Billy11Billy11
    Posts: 272
    Hey that's pretty cool petard. I'm going to have to give that a try.

    For me thoughts/fantasies/porn that would turn me on for a regular hands on ejaculation session, hinder me during an aneros or aneroless session. They seem to bring the arousal focus and energy more on my penis instead of deeper inside me where the deeper intense super O's or MMO's come from. So I typically just try to meditate on the feelings of this sexual energy inside of me and mentally attempt to help it grow into MMO's

    My problem is that if the session isn't going very well after maybe 20 minutes (because it seems usually if I don't go into MMO's within 20 minutes usually it's not going to happen for the session) then I'll switch my mind over into the fantasy/porn land which ends any chance of having MMO's. The problem with this is that sometimes I feel that I'm kinda setting myself up for failure by expecting fast results and if not getting them giving up on the session.
    Posts: 13
    I either think about my breathing and contractions, or go to xtube and watch twinks.
  • makelimakeli
    Posts: 14
    lol i agreedimage
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,140
    While there as a time when I used a variety of different stimuli to aid in the process more often than not nowadays it tends to be like a journey to forest or a place of quiet calm. Once there I search for the echo of orgasms past. Once I find it... I focus upon it. Focusing and breathing magnify its intensity. Soon a pleasure wave is generated. This builds upon itself with my encouragement until the moment of release.

    BF Mayfield
  • Billy11Billy11
    Posts: 272
    Hey I like how you put that B Mayfield. I guess that's what I basically do as well. I know the energy is in there and I know what and how it feels to congure up those orgasmic energies (echo of orgasms past) since I've experienced them before. Then when I feel it I focus and encourage them to grow and grow. I can't view porn and think of fantasies because that takes me to the "echo of ejaculatory orgasms past" hehe.
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    I'm really into New Age music during my sessions. I tend to do a lot (in my head) near water. For instance, I tend to think about flying high above the sea, a beautiful blue sky. My super o's are me diving into the sea, being completely refreshed and recharged as I surf the erotic wave. Then, again, I soar high into the sky until I take my next dive and surf. Other times, (my favorite) is me lying on the beach, alone, nothing but warm sand under me and the sun on my skin, making love to myself, increasing in intensity with every contraction of my progasm. Usually, I hangout in this "dream" for at least an hour. I can have several super o's with this one. I've never been into pornography because it is not reality. If you can tap deeper and really relax your mind, you can paint a number of erotic pictures in your head that are much more personable and intimate than porn, and you'll have stronger super o's as you ride the erotic wave in your head (as it travels down your body.) On the other hand, I've also has some aggressive sessions while listening to rock music. Those tend to produce raw, carnal thoughts, really making my progasm work me over. It's like lifting heavy in the gym-it's a CHARGE!
  • Billy11Billy11
    Posts: 272
    That's awesome Solostar! I'm definitely going to start using these meditations during my next anero or aneroless session. Very cool. And reading your post reminded me of a dream I just woke up from an hour ago! Involved surfing some bad ass waves. Thx!