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I don't have a spot!
  • I have come to the conclusion that I do not have a magic spot. I cannot find the magic spot!!! I have tried all means possible but I can't notice any place that feels remarkably different. I have moved the abutment tab bit by bit and can't get it. Need some serious help.

    Seriously considering putting out ad requesting "hands-on" help!!!! I'm not gay in the least bit, but just having trouble.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
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    Aaron,

    First, it's best to locate this spot with a finger prior to making any modifications on the Aneros. If you've not done so already check out my post in B's Keys to the Backdoor entitled In Search of the Sweet Spot. If you are having difficulty finding this area, I suggest that you make yourself fully erect (by more traditional means) then squat down. What this does is to engorge the area all the way down to the anus. Now find the vertical ridge that runs on the underside of your penis and follow it down below your scrotum into the perineal area. You should still notice this vertical ridge (which is part of the embedded area of the penis, sometimes known as the root). At an inch below your scrotum start to apply modest pressure on this vertical ridge. This can be done in one of two ways; moving in a very small circular motion on the tip of your finger or alternatively, back and forth in a windshield wiper motion. Work each area for a minute or two paying attention to any sensations that arise. As I've described before, the sensation that you're looking for is an almost urethral tingling (can be felt inside you penis) that may also be felt in your anus and prostate simulataneously. Be aware that this IS NOT of lightening bolt intensity....it may be subtle, so be observant.


    BF Mayfield
  • thanks. will try that. some have described this as lightening bolts. guess that is what i have been looking for.
  • almost forgot. Thanks Mr. Mayfield. you are the aneros god!!! i have read your post that you mentioned and probably had read all of them because its evident that you are the expert in this area. i appreciate your step by step instructions. just curious though, have you (or would you) ever consider instructions by phone?
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    Originally Posted By: aaron14684
    almost forgot. Thanks Mr. Mayfield. you are the aneros god!!! i have read your post that you mentioned and probably had read all of them because its evident that you are the expert in this area. i appreciate your step by step instructions. just curious though, have you (or would you) ever consider instructions by phone?


    Yes, indeed Mr. Mayfield, I too was curious about the same thing, if you'd give instruction by phone. I'll pay the phone charges, if any!


    NM