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My Fleshlight and I
  • HelixerHelixer
    Posts: 566
    It's been hot over here, my sultry mangina has been horny as hell. The couples on this forum talking about sex with their partner inspired me to incorporate mark hunt in a can into my Super O sessions. I hold it on a surface that's level to my groin and then start pumpin'away. It's a stamina training unit, the claim is that if you can last 5 minutes with this crevice, you can last half an hour with the real thing or something like that.

    Up until now I haven't really been using it very often, so although I've been multiorgasmic with it before, it's amazing despite being rewired and multi-orgasmic how penile stimulation almost automatically puts you back into traditional wiring. So at first I was just using edging, I would almost get to the Point Of No Return(PONR) and then I would hold still and start grazing over my nipple, giving many dry orgasm. Also I found the nipple to be like a circuitswitcher between the ejaculatory mode and the multiorgasmic mode.

    As I mentioned in another thread men are wired to react to moaning. If you watch porns, you'll notice that there are certain sounds when done in a certain way that always turn you on. I realized I sometimes (unconsciously) made sounds similar when coming and I noticed I could use these imitations to turn myself on more and more. A bit like that watershed moment when you discover you don't need someone to read you a story and that you can read perfectly well on your own. We as men no best what sounds we're wired to react to, cut out the middle(wo)man.
    Now this discovery alone would be useful in it's own right but last night I discovered how I could use this with the fleshlight. It makes sense once you discover and you can only wonder why you didn't deduce it sooner.
    On the one hand the raw male energy of total control(over the submissive) and penetration which will lead to ejaculation if it's not counteracted. Some would say counteract it with kegels but to me it makes more sense to counteract it with something that activates your female side of multi-orgasmic potential. The solution? the same (imitation)moans I mentioned earlier!
    So every time I was close or at that PONR I would moan like a bitch and instead of ejaculating I'd feel those ever increasing orgasms permeate my body, transforming that male ejaculatory energy into feminine receptivity.....
    Using this method I could be pumping myself to orgasm without even feeling the need to ejaculate. So after that I just cleaned up my dick and fleshlight but left the Helix in and then lay back to enjoy the superlative of (even)that
  • HelixerHelixer
    Posts: 566
    One more thing, although some prefer the looser settings, to give a more natural feel, with the Fleshlight you can create an incredible suction that even the virgin vagina of a 12 year old girl that has been practicing Kegels can't approximate(not that I'd know, deduction of course). The best way to experience pleasure from this mode is by going in extra slow all the way in and almost all the way out. Being ecstatically aware of the eb and flow of how it slowly enveloppes your entire shaft and then when youve come almost all the way out, feeling how it sucks at your tip, wantonly sucking you back in
  • Korkelz
    Posts: 294
    Very interesting Helixer.

    When we stub our toe shout "AHH!!"
    When we experience pleasure we moan "uhhhh."
    The KSMO uses a "huhhh" sound.
    When we sing, our body enters a different state of mind (two people on American Idol have had Tourette's except when they sing)
    I've tried singing while edging, seems to help me last longer and produce more pre-cum than normal.

    I believe all of these things have something in common; through our voice we can express energy. Some of these are involuntary, but that only means when we aren't voluntarily expressing this energy, our body instinctively forces it to happen. You've discovered yet another facet of how our bodies require our voice to function. More important than what goes into our mouth is what comes out.

    So, the question is "What is the moaning sound that resonantes with our masculine side and, if imitated by us, awakens our feminine response?" It's up to the individual to answer!
  • HelixerHelixer
    Posts: 566


    Very interesting Helixer


    Thanks, hopefully the community can benefit from it.


    I've tried singing while edging, seems to help me last longer and produce more pre-cum than normal.


    I think this is more akin to interupting the arousal, it's a bit like the breath of fire or
    thinking about football, whereas moaning like a pornstar is more like the ksmo.


    I believe all of these things have something in common; through our voice we can express energy


    Yeah it's a feedback loop. I think we are prewired to react to certain type of moan and there's a code a pattern to it so you activate this as well when you make those sounds yourself which effects your arousal/body which in turn produces another moan.


    So, the question is "What is the moaning sound that resonantes with our masculine side and, if imitated by us, awakens our feminine response?" It's up to the individual to answer!


    I think it's more that the moaning resonates with out female side which in turn activates our feminine multi-orgasmic potential
  • [QUOTE=Helixer;97452]One more thing, although some prefer the looser settings, to give a more natural feel, with the Fleshlight you can create an incredible suction that even the virgin vagina of a 12 year old girl that has been practicing Kegels can't approximate(not that I'd know, deduction of course). The best way to experience pleasure from this mode is by going in extra slow all the way in and almost all the way out. Being ecstatically aware of the eb and flow of how it slowly enveloppes your entire shaft and then when youve come almost all the way out, feeling how it sucks at your tip, wantonly sucking you back in


    yeah I have an stu fleshlight as well was my first sex toy :) it been very much neglected get it out on the odd ocasion onto bigger and more diverse pleasures like yourself atm but never the less its nice from time to time i own 2 fleshlights and a helix and a progasm ice these days
  • HelixerHelixer
    Posts: 566
    I'd like to own the mouth and the asshole as well, have myself a nice little FUC*Fest,my copiously lubed,diversely ribbed enveloping holes ready to be penetrated, my piece of ass on the side, my cun*s in the can, to show me I'm the man
  • HelixerHelixer
    Posts: 566
    Paraphilia?
    Guilty as charged but just lovin'it!;)
  • Korkelz
    Posts: 294

    I've tried singing while edging, seems to help me last longer and produce more pre-cum than normal.


    [QUOTE=Helixer;97460]I think this is more akin to interupting the arousal, it's a bit like the breath of fire or
    thinking about football
    Oh, indeed, I don't doubt that for a second! Was just hoping to last longer with this idea. :)
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    I have had some incredible experiences while incorporating my STU into a session. Very seldom will I take it to ejaculation, it is all about moving the energy. There have been times that the intensity of the pleasure covering me from head to toe is almost unbearable......ALMOST! I can get into a zone where the danger of ejaculation is almost non-existent yet I am enjoying the concert of sensations from both penile and prostate and back and forth and to complete the circuit, up the spine around the brain and down my chest and stomach. Early on I felt as though I was almost cheating because Aneros practices are supposed to be without any penile stimulation. I just felt like experimenting and I was far enough along in my Aneros sessions that I figured it would not hurt anything. My ideal session is at least 30 minutes with just my Aneros, then incorporate the Fleshlight for another 30 minutes or so. As Helixer said, it is great to complete the Fleshlight portion and go back to an Aneros only finale.

    I also like to combine Aneros and KSMO as times, it just kicks things into different gears.

    It is all good, happy trails boys!
  • [QUOTE=Buster;97501]I have had some incredible experiences while incorporating my STU into a session. Very seldom will I take it to ejaculation, it is all about moving the energy. There have been times that the intensity of the pleasure covering me from head to toe is almost unbearable......ALMOST! I can get into a zone where the danger of ejaculation is almost non-existent yet I am enjoying the concert of sensations from both penile and prostate and back and forth and to complete the circuit, up the spine around the brain and down my chest and stomach. Early on I felt as though I was almost cheating because Aneros practices are supposed to be without any penile stimulation. I just felt like experimenting and I was far enough along in my Aneros sessions that I figured it would not hurt anything. My ideal session is at least 30 minutes with just my Aneros, then incorporate the Fleshlight for another 30 minutes or so. As Helixer said, it is great to complete the Fleshlight portion and go back to an Aneros only finale.

    I also like to combine Aneros and KSMO as times, it just kicks things into different gears.

    It is all good, happy trails boys!

    may give it a go :) ha aint used my fleshlight since I have been rewired should be fun im sure the results with my stu and progasm will be very explosive :D
  • [QUOTE=Rocketman10;97511]may give it a go :) ha aint used my fleshlight since I have been rewired should be fun im sure the results with my stu and progasm will be very explosive :D

    dude what's a "stu?"
    - rip
  • schitzschitz
    Posts: 32
    [QUOTE=RipTheJacker;97527]dude what's a "stu?"
    - rip

    Stamina Training Unit
  • Gave it a go last night after coming across a new porn site fullsuck.com :) such a good site has tons of porn film was watching a rather naughty and funny take of robin hood lol :) gave it a go with my stu and progasm like I siad i would running low on lube so i had to use olive oil which wasnt the best but did the trick , gave it 30 mins then gave it a go my prostate really swelled with each stroke felt great
  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    I have been really curious about the STU. I have the "original" model, and we use it every now and then as part of fantasies, and I use it solo when she is out of town. Does anyone have both the original and a STU? I am curious to know what the differences are. Mine is pretty intense. I assume the STU is even more so, but would like to know.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    Yup -- got both. From an old circed guy:

    Great way to use up all those water-based lubes that didn't work out !

    the STU remains a bit too aggressive for me. Perhaps someday, but I've not gained a dependable foothold into the world of Stamina Training. To even attempt a 30+ minute Stamina session with the STU requires more scheduling/planning than I want to pursue on a regular basis (i.e. drain down, recover a bit then use an aggressive ED therapy for max erection). I've not used numbing agents.

    As a 'finishing tool' to an Aneros bph therapy session, the "Original" works best for me -- I can maintain plenty of physical action to build up to an effective 'tube-cleaning.'

    The Wonder Wave has proven to be my most versatile sleve. It's sufficiently stimulating to act as a nice foreplay toy and my wife never got bored using it -- she sees quicker results than with the 'Originall.' Might be a nice addition to your couples toybox if your mate isn't always into giving oral. Or, if you want to play with 'soft' BDSM.

    Suggestion... consider one of the newer transperant/translucent Fleshlights for couples play. My wife has a good view of what's going on

    I like to put a marble in the sleeve to serve as a pseudo cervix. Shame the ILF folks haven't developed something similar.
  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    Rook, Thanks for the suggestions. These things are so expensive it is nice to get feedback like this. I will look into the options you suggest for FLs.