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What to mentally concentrate on during a session?
  • wontquit
    Posts: 32
    Do you just fantasize about something/someone and let it go from there? Do you watch a porn video or look at pictures? If you watch porn is there something online you recommend and link to?.. Ive found most porn to be too "fake" while during a session since I have a good eye for catching stuff like that, does anybody know of a video where its actually real, and the moans and such arent so obviously forced? (straight guy btw..)
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    There's a wide variety of tastes in the Forum. My personal approach is to avoid anything that would distract from my internal feelings and arousal; however, here are a couple of sites that appear to be quite legit:

    --- beautiful agony - facettes de la petite mort view --

    --- http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/japanese-anal-video-you-might-like-15253/index2.html#post94678 --
  • CockadoodleCockadoodle
    Posts: 397
    Hi, wontquit, welcome to the forum.

    Personally, I like no distractions, such as a radio or music. I like to just let my mind be as relaxed as my body. I think that too much stimulation, like porn (which I personally detest), actually slows the process down.

    Your concentration should be on your breathing, your relaxation and peaceful thoughts. The more relaxed you are, the more likely to experience prostate pleasure. Remember, especially early in your Aneros journey, the prostate gives very "quiet" feedback, and if you're concentrating on watching someone get fucked, it may just go "unheard".

    Just my .015 cents.

    Cockadoodle
  • kharrisma
    Posts: 29
    In complete agreement with Cockadoodle; my personal best-to-date experiences have involved minimal mental input, and more of a passive "taking it all in" frame of mind. I've experienced only pleasant sensations / excessive drooling thus far, but it's getting better, despite my best efforts. Progressing by relaxing is a foreign concept to me personally, and Western civilization in general. I did encounter the concept in Karate, and grappled with it there, too.

    Personally, I spend a little time watching AMATEUR porn first; not many overinflated plastic boobs and patently fake "oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah..." I highly recommend http://www.tubeum.com; no crap, you click on a link, and the clip comes up. I gravitate to the "wife" category (cuz i'm just evil that way :P ). In my experience about 95% of it is genuine amateur. Much of the female response is easy, appreciative, nice, but some of it is quite urgent-sounding (female vocalizations are SUCH a turn-on for me, but they have to be convincingly genuine to work. Throw in a squeaky bed and I'm fleeing for privacy to take care of business!!)

    At any rate, that gets me good and 'charged-up' for my session. Hard to keep the hands off, tho :) It does jack up the intensity, generally, but not to the point of "jackpot" thus far. Another approach I use for prepwork is to go to one of the erotic literature sites, such as Literotica - 100% free sex stories, erotic audio, adult fiction with wifeslut, bdsm, etc! or Free Sex Stories, Erotic Stories and Adult Social Network, although you do have to look at a lot of mediocre stuff before you hit a gem. In particular, the lush stories site tags the stories with reader votes; bigger the number, ususally, the better the story. Only place this falls down is with new stories, which haven't had enough time to accumulate votes. Literotica tags the titles with a red "Hot", which is usually accurate.

    Last several sessions, I've been using Rumel's Hypnaerosession CD, to great effect. Such a sexy voice! Well worth the price of admission!!
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 817
    Hello, wontquit.

    Not to be a smartass or anything, but "to mentally concentrate" as you put it, may be counterproductive.

    I begin sessions at bedtime and try to let my mind drift without concentration on anything, which is what I would do when going to sleep in any case. What I usually get out of that is a visual montage of past GFs, ex-wives, and my wife and me in various sexual situations. When the Aneros induced sensations get intense all that comes to mind (pun intended, sorry) are colors and patterns; like a psychedelic rehash of bad abstract art. Then, concentration is beside the point; I'm feeling, not thinking.

    I hope you find a method that works for you.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • Turnrow
    Posts: 123
    So, Ten S Nut and others:

    You seem to be saying that you reach a point in physical pleasure when that pleasure overpowers any thinking and brain noise; and thoughts are eradicated and/or subjected to that pleasure? Correct?
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 817
    Turnrow;

    Exactly!

    :)

    Dave
  • [QUOTE=kharrisma;96751]In complete agreement with Cockadoodle; my personal best-to-date experiences have involved minimal mental input, and more of a passive "taking it all in" frame of mind. I've experienced only pleasant sensations / excessive drooling thus far, but it's getting better, despite my best efforts. Progressing by relaxing is a foreign concept to me personally, and Western civilization in general. I did encounter the concept in Karate, and grappled with it there, too.

    Personally, I spend a little time watching AMATEUR porn first; not many overinflated plastic boobs and patently fake "oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah..." I highly recommend http://www.tubeum.com; no crap, you click on a link, and the clip comes up. I gravitate to the "wife" category (cuz i'm just evil that way :P ). In my experience about 95% of it is genuine amateur. Much of the female response is easy, appreciative, nice, but some of it is quite urgent-sounding (female vocalizations are SUCH a turn-on for me, but they have to be convincingly genuine to work. Throw in a squeaky bed and I'm fleeing for privacy to take care of business!!)

    At any rate, that gets me good and 'charged-up' for my session. Hard to keep the hands off, tho :) It does jack up the intensity, generally, but not to the point of "jackpot" thus far. Another approach I use for prepwork is to go to one of the erotic literature sites, such as Literotica - 100% free sex stories, erotic audio, adult fiction with wifeslut, bdsm, etc! or Free Sex Stories, Erotic Stories and Adult Social Network, although you do have to look at a lot of mediocre stuff before you hit a gem. In particular, the lush stories site tags the stories with reader votes; bigger the number, ususally, the better the story. Only place this falls down is with new stories, which haven't had enough time to accumulate votes. Literotica tags the titles with a red "Hot", which is usually accurate.

    Last several sessions, I've been using Rumel's Hypnaerosession CD, to great effect. Such a sexy voice! Well worth the price of admission!!

    kharrisma - i'm with you on the turn-on of a squeaky bed it's the best background sound for any kind of sex partnered or solo ...

    and female gratification sounds - or male gratification sounds for that matter if you can identify with the blissful dude - are extremely arousing butt only if authentic

    ... visual porn may be a turn on and the written word is superior butt they are a distraction to the meditative masturbative processs

    if anyone has a good source for aural sounds as described please post them

    - rip
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    RipTheJacker,
    You can download a loopable female orgasm recording here for free.
  • wontquit
    Posts: 32
    [QUOTE=rumel;96967]RipTheJacker,
    You can download a loopable female orgasm recording here for free.


    These kind of sounds of female orgasms are great if they sound authentic. Does anyone have anymore of these?
  • kharrisma
    Posts: 29
    Well, this one's a video, but the audio gives me weak knees every time!

    Husband cheers his wife with a black cock
  • [QUOTE=rumel;96967]RipTheJacker,
    You can download a loopable female orgasm recording here for free.


    rumel - thanks for the link to yer uploads really appreciate 'em

    ... still would like aural download of a lengthy fuck on a squeaky bed if anyone has a link

    thanks again

    - rip
  • [QUOTE=kharrisma;96978]Well, this one's a video, but the audio gives me weak knees every time!

    Husband cheers his wife with a black cock

    kharrisma - thanks ya nasty fuck ...

    i enjoyed it also

    ... after watching it a couple times the video gives you a flashback

    damned if i'd turn my wife over ot another dude however ...

    although it might be fun to share her (that is if she was that kinda girl LOL)

    - rip
  • [QUOTE=Turnrow;96878]So, Ten S Nut and others:

    You seem to be saying that you reach a point in physical pleasure when that pleasure overpowers any thinking and brain noise; and thoughts are eradicated and/or subjected to that pleasure? Correct?


    I find this to be the case as well. This process happened to me one time; it happened almost immediately. It caught me off guard, which is when this usually happen for me.