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A new chapter begins?
  • dtmsmith
    Posts: 219
    Well, I finally decided to clue my wife into some of what's been going on with me over the last year. I decided I wasn't ready to let her know of my aneros use (I'm not sure how she would react), but I did tell her of my ability to have anerosless orgasms. She looked at me like I was from another planet :). After she got over her initial disbelief, she asked me lots of questions on what it feels like and how I do it. I answered as best I could. I have to admit that it feels awesome to have opened up about this with her. At some point, I will probably reveal my aneros use (when the time seems right).

    The main reason for telling her is that I want to share the experience with her. I would not only like her to be with me when I am in my anerosless ecstasy, but I would like to teach her how to experience what I can experience. I'd really like advice on the best way to approach teaching her. Does KSMO work for women? If so, should she start with this? If not, where do I begin?
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    dtmsmith,

    Congratulations! This sounds like a wonderful beginning for the two of you. KSMO does indeed work for women, and it is essentially the same program that men use. Frankly, I think this is an excellent place to begin. First of all Jack Johnston provides a simple explanation in terms that are easy for everbody to comprehend. There is little chance that this will be over her head. Secondly, there are virtually no prerequisites needed for this course... no specialized knowledge required prior to learning the technique. Lastly, this is a non-invasive method that requires no paraphernalia. Chances are this will be a springboard into a whole new world of sensual delights for her!

    BF Mayfield
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,265
    dtmsmith,

    That's great you are opening the lines of communication between you and your wife, as Jack Johnston might say "Good on you!" Yes, the "Key Sound Multiple Orgasm" protocol (KSMO) does work for women too! You may find further information about Jack Johnston's protocol at his website! Given your ability and success with the Anerosless path I would guess this would be a natural technique for you and your wife to share. Just to add to what 'B Mayfield' said, Jack provides excellent coaching and encouragement through his semi-weekly Chat sessions. I think that would be a wonderful way to gently introduce your wife to these enhanced sensual experiences.

    P.S. You may wish to add a few comments into Brian's thread Partnered sex and the Aneros
  • cyrezcyrez
    Posts: 109
    I'm so happy for you dtm, i wish that you will succeed in your goal and that your wife will learn the ability to orgasm with her mind aswell. There was a girl on this forum called zaneblue that had that ability, as i recall she could have as many mind'gasm per day as she liked, and wrote books on how to eat properly, 'the orgasmic diet', perhaps a good place to start to search thru her threads =) That is one subject i have always been curious about, since i also have the ability to orgasm with my mind, the one day i do get a girlfriend, i'd love to teach her how to gain that ability aswell, maybe this thread will be a nice starting point, discussing how we can help our ladies reach heaven with minds alone....
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    dtmsmith, congratulations indeed!!! :D :D :D

    What a wonderful breakthrough for you both. I agree completely with BF Mayfield and rumel that KSMO is the most likely route for you together, and I also agree with cyrez recommendation of zaneblue's book The Orgasmic Diet, if that idea has any resonance for you two.

    While mrs. a has not yet joined the KSMO site, although she fully participates through my practice and use of the Key Sound in our intimate life together, I think that may happen soon. There are several other men on the KSMO site and in chats there whose wives are part of their practice and we chat about that there. There are also wonderful women on the site who discuss their practice and attainments. It is a very relaxed and friendly ambience at KSMO.

    Congratulations again my friend!! I am thrilled for you both.

    artform
  • Well done dtm best move i made was telling my wife from the get go but i kinda figured she'd be ok what changed your mind about things and bring her into the loop as it were . :P
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    Welcome foxhunter to this great community, and to your aneros journey, shared in your journey with your wife!!! :D :D :D

    Congratulations to you and your wife!! Highly admirable! My wife and I talked about what we each would like to explore intimately together, when we became empty-nesters over four years ago. We went together to the special store and we got what we needed: my MGX, her dildo, some books and videos and we have shared wonderful advances over that time and evolved our "mutual prostates(G-spots) practice" and continue exploring beyond.

    I hope that both couples, you and dtmsmith, here will both post about your couples experiences over time as they develop in B Mayfield's great new thread: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/partnered-sex-aneros-15352/

    I invite you to also vote and post in the Couples Polls, as your couples practices develop, at the links in my first post in Mayfield's thread. I look forward as well to being able to chat with you live in the weekend Chats here!

    BTW, my wife, dear mrs. a, has a strong background from Scotland and we celebrate Burns' Day and salute (and eat with gusto!) the hagis here too!!

    all the very best to aneros enhanced couples all

    artform
  • dtmsmith
    Posts: 219
    Thanks to all for the comments and encouragement. FYI, I purchased the KSMO program last year and used it early in my practice. It worked quite well for me although I find I really don't need it anymore. So, I think I can coach my wife in the practice. The challenge will be to get her to believe it's not all BS and to have the patience to go through the process. She's not a naturally patient person :-). Even when I told her that I could have orgasms whenever I wanted and for almost as long as I wanted, she sort of shrugged and said that she might not have the patience to work up to that. I thought it was an offer no one could refuse :-).
  • dtmsmith
    Posts: 219
    An update:
    Subsequent to my revelation, my wife and I had several very open discussions about our sex life. These discussions, in turn, have led to a lot of sex :-). I'm a very happy guy right now :-).
    Last night was the first time she was with me when I was having dry orgasms. The orgasms were glorious as was the feeling of freedom and inclusion. After I'd had several really strong orgasms, we....well, I'm sure you can guess what happened next :-).
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    dtmsmith,

    This is precisely what partnered sex and the Aneros is all about. Sharing passion, sharing orgasms, occupying a space with one another that is dedicated to mutual fulfillment! It is a beautiful thing! Something tells me that this new chapter is going to make for some very interesting reading! Keep us apprised.

    BF Mayfield
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    INDEED dtmsmith!!! INDEED B Mayfield!!! :D :D :D :D

    Onward with your wonderful journey dtm...

    artform