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Receptive Sexuality
  • This is a really important issue. But is there any way a man can just lay back and be ridden or have a woman use her finger to have multiple prostate orgasms/super -o's?

    Like MyTurn said what could be more fun than getting to lay back and have someone bring you to multiple orgasms yet there is no way men can have that.

    It seems like men are more giving in bed anyways. is there even a single relationship where give and take is equal (and there nothing that slightly favors her) or the woman gives more than she gets? Doubt it.

    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/some-serious-questions-11240/
  • Also doesn't it seem that women women initiate sex they do so just by letting the man know she wants it?

    Most women don't actually initiate sex aggressively such as pushing him on the bed, shoulder/back rub, start by nibbling on ears/neckthe way a man would.

    Even if she did it would not be as often as he did it that way. She would be softer and lazier most of the time.

    Guess there really is no relationship where the woman gives more.
  • [QUOTE=newtoforum;95026]This is a really important issue. But is there any way a man can just lay back and be ridden or have a woman use her finger to have multiple prostate orgasms/super -o's?

    Like MyTurn said what could be more fun than getting to lay back and have someone bring you to multiple orgasms yet there is no way men can have that.

    It seems like men are more giving in bed anyways. is there even a single relationship where give and take is equal (and there nothing that slightly favors her) or the woman gives more than she gets? Doubt it.

    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/some-serious-questions-11240/


    Well the first point would be interesting to find a way a partner can get your gears working so fair point. Its comes down to this tbh I have alot of female friends some really do give it there all it only comes done to the partner you have if your not happy that its not equal just say if she aint willing to let you explore your sexual needs or at least try you just have to say is it worth it staying with this woman. You just need to let her know what you like and if she cares she will get you going how you want to, if u dont like something change it when I woman gives signs about wanting sex like subtle ones it's mostly due to the fact thats the way woman are they are still a little sexualiy repressed in how they can express their need for it as its still considered a taboo for woman hense why they throw stuff like sex toy parties ect. you know just relax and have fun with it woman rarly intiate stuff as they think as guys are sex crazy but you also have to think yeah woman need it as well other wise why would they ask for it a power struggle so once in a while make woman beg.

    So you know just have fun with it
  • newtoforum;

    Check out the Japanese videos I linked in my thread, below. All 4 guys orgasm from the strap-on working the prostate.

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • wisdom
    Posts: 38
    newtoforum

    i've read your posts and i feel your pain......i think i was in a state like you once before.....which drove me to countless hours of research, which brought me to this site.......but not only did i research about my body, i researched about a woman's body too.......what i've learned over the years is that the majority of women are not going to achieve the ultimate pleasure that their bodies can achieve.......for 2 reasons......#1) they don't know their own bodies well enough......#2) they don't know how to let go to achieve ultimate pleasure because they are worried what the other person will think

    so now my mind set is "if you want something done, you have to do it yourself".........i'm fairly new to Aneros as i've been using it for about 8 months now and just recently started having really good results (due to practicing and not giving up)........right now it's a solo thing for me but i plan on breaking the news to my wife about my success and what i've been doing in my free time (she knows i was interested in it, but doesn't know i acted on it).......will she be interested in participating in sessions with me? doubt it.......but that's ok with me because i know what my body likes

    as for having sex with my wife......i love it and i can say "yes"....i do cater more to her than she does to me and i'm ok with that.......for the simple fact, i think i know her body better than she does, plus i love pleasing her......

    with recent discoveries with my Aneros, my mindset is starting to act like as if it was her in my situation......meaning that now i'm thinking of my earth-shaking orgasms as how my wife has her earth-shaking orgasms.......the more and more i have an Aneros session, the more similar it is for me to compare my orgasms to the way my wife has hers.......all the way down to the internal feelings, the more sensitive my body becomes, the prep work it takes to get there, to the length in time my orgasms last........quite frankly, i think i'm at her level of ecstasy and possibly moving ahead of the game

    check my post on page 3 of the thread below about one of my recent Aneros sessions......i may not be as experienced as some on this site, but i can say that i see everything different
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/off-topic-male-version-female-ejaculation-squirting-13579/index3.html
  • [QUOTE=wisdom;95070]

    as for having sex with my wife......i love it and i can say "yes"....i do cater more to her than she does to me and i'm ok with that.......for the simple fact, i think i know her body better than she does, plus i love pleasing her......



    How does that help me? just validates my point and makes me feel more depressed.

    Thanks for trying.

    I wonder if the woman caters more to the man in any relationship. Men cater to women more than vice versa in almost all aspects of a relationship.
  • wisdom
    Posts: 38
    [QUOTE=newtoforum;95087]How does that help me? just validates my point and makes me feel more depressed.

    Thanks for trying.

    I wonder if the woman caters more to the man in any relationship. Men cater to women more than vice versa in almost all aspects of a relationship.

    women cater more to men in other aspects outside of sex.......sex isn't suppose to be a selfish act.......and as for me, i get pleasure out of satisfying her, which to me is far greater than her getting her rocks off.......and it really shows cause after it's all said and done, the things that she will do for me day in and day out is worth it.......and that time of the month, that's when she really caters to me......just to make sure that i'm satisfied while she's not able to have sex (well she is but she doesn't like having sex on her period because of the after effects, cramps and all)

    on another note, i think you have a psychological problem.......no one i know gets as depressed over something like this as you do......while you're so worried about someone else's well-being, you're missing out on your own........life will pass you by tripping over something like this