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The Pleasure Quest
  • I've owned the Aneros "Helix" model now for almost a year. Prior to receiving the Helix, I had been experimenting with anal pleasure, on and off, for about 4 years. When I first received it, after my first few sessions, I didn't get it and could not figure out what all the hype was about. I took other users advice and I held in there... Now I know for sure what it's all about! It's the key to total sexual bliss! And in more ways than one!

    First of all I had to learn one thing... You have to free yourself of yourself. By this I mean, you have to come to a place within where you are totally comfortable being naked and pleasuring yourself. You have to come to a place where you feel comfortable taking out your nastiest, naughtiest sexual cravings out on yourself. If you feel uptight and or embarrassed, it will not work. You have to let yourself go completely and enjoy every single wave of pleasure. I've often observed my wife's responses to pleasure during sex. When she is in the heat of pleasure, it's like she dives right in, forgets about herself and becomes very expressive verbally and with her body At this height of pleasure she could care less about how she looks or what she sounds like... Which is Extremely SEXY btw! I have finally learned how to do this with myself and have adopted, from my wife, this "letting go" as a response to pleasure... for pleasures sake! I've found that you can be The MAN and still enjoy every "down & dirty" aspect of self gratifying sexual pleasure... Really, It's ok to moan, talk dirty, rub your nipples, drag your fingers across your sack and play with your lubed up ass while using the aneros... It's a personal thing and only You really know about it!

    This might not be for everyone but my wife talked me into shaving all the hair starting from the top of my pelvis, down to and all around/underneath my balls and ass. After shaving I put a very generous amount of baby powder on the shaven areas. Believe it or not, the feeling during sexual intercourse and masturbation is heavenly! It is so soft, your new bare skin feels so good it will blow your mind! And during intercourse you can feel every soft, wet and silky inch of that slippery, not to mention, delicious pussy! Especially if she shaves too!

    If your Man enough to handle it, there are many things you can do to kick up the heat... You might try adding a little "Herb --~ " into the equation. For me personally, It has a aphrodisiac type effect on my body. I know it's not this way for everyone... but for those who are like me know exactly what I am talking about!

    The combination of everything above, the Aneros and your hottest sexual fantasy... horny visuals... It's a very orgasmic place indeed!
  • VoyagerVoyager
    Posts: 200
    Well said that man.
    I enjoyed reading that.
    There are some things that I can relate to.

    I have used some herb in the past and found that it makes me "horny".

    Also my wife shaves me below a couple of times a month.
    We both enjoy the experience.
    Be careful, as the surgeon said "One slip of the blade and Bob's your aunt".
  • Hey, Vanakin41,

    You are SO right when you say, "You have to free yourself of yourself." We all have our pre-conceived notions and expectations. When we intentionally step away from those we can enjoy the rewards that enhance our lives beyond any possible destination - because the destination is NOT the goal. We need to let go and let the trip take the turns and hills where it wants to go. We need to trust what seems like chaos, but, in my opinion, is more of a destiny. Your journey is not mine, but the concept is the same. I have moved through and among places I never knew existed. And, man, am I glad I did. So is my wife!

    Keep up the good work. Continue to share your story.

    Brian
  • Oops, also. TOTALLY agree with the shaving thing. I had to start shaving my scrotum on the advise of my doctor. I needed to apply a prescription creme there for my hormone therapy, hairless promotes better absorption. It felt so good, I just kept going...the sensation is fantastic. Soft and sensitive! Actually I shave a lot of my body. I was "blessed" with quite a lot of forest on my body. Smooth is so very sensual. I shave at least once a week, my wife helps out too, Voyager. Love it! I'll have to try the baby powder. Keep the reflections coming!
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Vanakin41, :)

    Thank you for such a well written post.

    First of all I had to learn one thing... You have to free yourself of yourself. By this I mean, you have to come to a place within where you are totally comfortable being naked and pleasuring yourself. You have to come to a place where you feel comfortable taking out your nastiest, naughtiest sexual cravings out on yourself. If you feel uptight and or embarrassed, it will not work. You have to let yourself go completely and enjoy every single wave of pleasure.

    I totally agree with this! Unfortunately, there is no real clear path or instructions that get a new user there. It's just practice, practice, practice, and time.

    Believe it or not, the feeling during sexual intercourse and masturbation is heavenly! It is so soft, your new bare skin feels so good it will blow your mind! And during intercourse you can feel every soft, wet and silky inch of that slippery, not to mention, delicious pussy! Especially if she shaves too!

    Agreed! I've certainly also enjoyed that aspect of shaved sex with ex-girlfriends. Although I can't say I care for the amount maintenance involved to keep it smooth. When some one finally invents the hands free automatic genital shaver I may be able to be more regular with that when in a relationship! LOL

    Love_is
  • And I Agree with you...image:D
  • I totally agree too. What herb do you use?
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,484
    Welcome to this great Forum community Vanakin41!! :D :D

    And thanks for your outstanding, big-tent, joyous introduction and personal history/philosophy!

    Looking forward to your further thoughts here and in the Chat Room. This would be a good introductory post in your own blog here should you find yourself so inclined. (Hint, hint!)

    all the best self abandonment to deeply receptive open desire in all dimensions all

    artform
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    Hey Vanakin41, Right on target and inclusive of the nicest things one can do for himself. Artform beat me to the punch on you opening a blog with a dupe of your first post. Shame to have this just drop down into the archive.
  • Wow... What a unexpected awesome welcome! Greetings to the forum :) First off, I appreciate all the quality responses... took me by surprise... wasn't expecting a lot really... but you fucking rock \m/ :)

    There's something I meant to add to my post... I can honestly tell you that the Aneros, once I learned to use it properly, has taken my sex drive to the top level... My wife would like to thank you Dr. Aneros! Whomever and wherever you are? ;)

    Also, Something I should clarify for the forum... When I say "Herb" I am referring to
    (I hope this statement is not against forum policy?) I am referring to Marijuana ---~On a occasion! With the right buzz, I find it makes me more sensitive to touch and more focused on the pleasure.
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    Vanakin41,

    I am pleased to hear the tip I gave you when you first joined back in January about "Letting Go" has finally paid off in such a pleasurable way. Your attitude plays a huge role in this process and learning to not over think the process is a major accomplishment. Our ego consciousness is often the biggest stumbling block to progress. Your statement "You have to free yourself of yourself." is exactly right. We can not get 'there' from 'here' using logic and reasoning or following a 'step by step' tutorial. You have gotten back in touch with the primal creative energy of your being, the sensuous creature within us all that knows not of words and logic but swims in the world of feelings and emotions.

    Cheers to you and your wife for openly embracing the sensual beings within.
  • [QUOTE=calmer;90742]I totally agree too. What herb do you use?

    Marijuana, the key to unlock Super-O.