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time management and the mrs.
  • atm853
    Posts: 51
    Ok So I posted a while ago that I finally started having super O's and I was also seeing colors when I did get to some really high levels of ecstacy, but All of that has probably almost gone away, The truth is that my boyfriend (the mrs) who is a total bottom is a young 20 yr old who can't get enough, I Dont think I've ever had such good sex before, and I know that the aneros has a lot to do with this and I love pleasing the mrs, we have some pretty hot times and get very intimate, I do believe its making love, regardless of what people think. The only thing is, how do you guys put in the time to have aneros sessions. Im starting to do it less and less, which isnt going to help me since I've started to loose the whole super O thing, I barely get involuntaries. Are there any couples out there? Also I choose not to use my aneros during sex, because Im afraid it will make me cum too quickly and my guy loves to go for a long ride...:)
  • mrkpnh
    Posts: 58
    [QUOTE=atm853;88372]Are there any couples out there? Also I choose not to use my aneros during sex, because Im afraid it will make me cum too quickly and my guy loves to go for a long ride...:)

    I'm in a long term relationship. My husband (the equivalent of your Mrs) is 15 years older than me. I only use my Aneros solo if he's not in the house but I do use it when we're having sex together. It doesn't make me cum more easily but it does enhance the experience for me; I think for him as well because I appear to be getting so much more out of sex.
  • The_BishopThe_Bishop
    Posts: 810
    I practice semen retention, that is, I don't come all the time during sex. Leaves me still motivated for an aneros session.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    [QUOTE=atm853;88372]...snip... Also I choose not to use my aneros during sex, because Im afraid it will make me cum too quickly and my guy loves to go for a long ride...:)

    Scrap the fear and give it a try -- it's an enhancement to straight sex and once you get the hang of shifting mental focus might work great. Important though to fully share, with your mate, what you plan to do.

    And, introducing that mate to the Aneros might expand the relationship -- great gift! ...rook
  • mrkpnh
    Posts: 58
    [QUOTE=rook;88378]And, introducing that mate to the Aneros might expand the relationship

    Remember that gay sex does not have to equal anal sex. I'd love my husband to try an Aneros but he won't :( He knows all about mine though and that I use it :)
  • atm853
    Posts: 51
    Thank you to all who have replied, this certainly is helping me, I have decided to first introduce my bf to the aneros and see what he thinks, I also plan to use this device during our intimate time together, I'll definitely let you know how that works out. Although I dont know how you (the bishop) can practice semen retention Your balls must be really full by the time you get to using your aneros :) haha, any tips on this retention?
  • The_BishopThe_Bishop
    Posts: 810
    [QUOTE=atm853;88421]Thank you to all who have replied, this certainly is helping me, I have decided to first introduce my bf to the aneros and see what he thinks, I also plan to use this device during our intimate time together, I'll definitely let you know how that works out. Although I dont know how you (the bishop) can practice semen retention Your balls must be really full by the time you get to using your aneros :) haha, any tips on this retention?

    Haha! Actually I have a low libido, so it helps to build up the sexual energy.
    For me it's all mental. I tell myself that I will not have an orgasm and not to anticipate the build up to (orgasm) during sex.