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How many tries before you wer successful?
  • Got my aneros helix yesterday....

    Lubed it up real well... stuck it in... i layed down flat on my bed for about 20 minutes before doing anything... i was doing the slow and deep breathing aswell..

    Then i started to do the contractions (basically like kegels.. right?!?!)

    I did these kegels very lightlty at first... did maybe about 10 contractions per minute.. didnt feel any pleasure at all..

    After 2 hours of doing contractions i gave up.. didnt feel any pleasure at all .. didnt feel anything out of the ordinary.. just felt like i had a piece of plastic shoved in my ass...

    gonna give it another go today.



    i hope this isnt gonna be a big disappointment for me
  • A question that I usually ask is whether there was any leakage of precum during the session? It's usually an indicator that the massage is working, and that you merely need some time and patience over multiple sessions to start seeing results. Happened to me.
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,254
    Ghettygreen,

    It is obvious you are impatient and expecting big things to happen right away, that is almost certainly a perfect formula for disappointment and failure. Please read the introductory PM I sent you again and follow up on the areas to read I pointed out, by doing so you will begin to understand this is not a process that generally happens first time out. It is a process for you to learn about your body in a new way and as such you have to pay attention to the faint subtle signals your body gives you. They are there, but you have to tune into them.
  • ok. yeah im not giving up im just simply wondering how many times it tork for you =P

    quite a bit of precum came but absolutely no pleasure.. is that normal?

    edit: also am i doing the contractions right? im basically just doin kegels... thats the only way i know how to contract my sphincter
  • Successful in regards to having a Super-O? Haven't gotten there YET. . .

    It took several tries for me to start getting real pleasure out of it. My biggest success was a massive hands-free orgasm in which I shot cum over my shoulder with no penile stimulation and no hard-on....WOW! The big key for me is privacy, when I've got 2 or 3 hours alone with no chance of interruption. Then I can really let myself go and become a slave to the pleasurable sensations. When I find a motion that is working for me, I just keep going with it until it leads to better things or just dies out. Willingness to experiment is a big plus.

    ps. I use the Helix

    NY
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    Hi ghettygreen and welcome to the journey,

    Question one: How long? Weeks: 44. Sessions: Unknown number but well over one hundred. As other have said, patience and relaxation is everything. Smell the flowers along the way and the pleasures will grow.

    Question two: Kegels, right? Not quite. When you trained in Kegels you learned to differentiate your PC muscle from your anal spincter. Kegels then focused on PC muscle contractions. While the PC will be very useful during this journey, the immediate focus is on the Anal Sphincter itself. The first basic contraction is to retract your sphincter upward, into your body.

    As you move forward, you'll find some other muscles you've possibly never thought of. You'll gain strength in those and they will provide further desights.

    hth .... rook
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Ghettygreen,

    You may also want to take a look at a long running poll entitled "How Long Before Your First Super O" in the Polls section of the forum. While this doesn't break it down into number of tries, it gives you some idea of the time factor involved. As you'll see, they are varying results on this.

    BF Mayfield
  • [QUOTE=Ghettygreen;87384]ok. yeah im not giving up im just simply wondering how many times it tork for you =P

    quite a bit of precum came but absolutely no pleasure.. is that normal?

    edit: also am i doing the contractions right? im basically just doin kegels... thats the only way i know how to contract my sphincter

    I view the rewiring as a twofold process - both learning to focus on the early signs of arousal related to prostate stimulation, and applying the proper muscle input to amplify the sensation. I started feeling pleasurable sensations in my second session - light muscle tremors in the pelvic region, soothing warmth around the thighs, and exciting pulsation in the rectum.

    There likely are different views, but I've found that the contractions required for a satisfying session are extremely minute, almost reflexive. So try not to strain yourself - try light and gentle, and probe for positive feedback.
  • i wont give up till i get what im here for :)!!!!!!!!!
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    [QUOTE=Rod of Plastic;87394]I view the rewiring as a twofold process - both learning to focus on the early signs of arousal related to prostate stimulation, and applying the proper muscle input to amplify the sensation. I started feeling pleasurable sensations in my second session - light muscle tremors in the pelvic region, soothing warmth around the thighs, and exciting pulsation in the rectum.

    There likely are different views, but I've found that the contractions required for a satisfying session are extremely minute, almost reflexive. So try not to strain yourself - try light and gentle, and probe for positive feedback.


    ROP,

    This is a good assessment of the rewiring process and the type of contraction used in generating sensations. I disagree however with your previous post about precum as indicator that the massage is working. The production of precum is unique to the individual. If the production of precum is consistent with your cycle of arousal then you would expect to see precum with the Aneros and likely much more of it. If you don't produce precum when you're aroused then you may not with the Aneros either. However, this will not preclude you from having all manners of P-waves and the Super O itself.

    BF Mayfield