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Masturbation at the end of an Aneros session?
  • 54f2th
    Posts: 6
    I’ve been enjoying my Aneros for over two years now but have been unable to experience that elusive hands free orgasm that so many other fellas have described in their posts. I’ve followed the Aneros instructions and tried to incorporate the many suggestions that other men have included in their postings describing their success in achieving a Super O. Nearly ever session that I’ve had are extremely pleasurable with long lasting involuntary contractions (unbelievable how my own body begins bouncing and throbbing the device inside me) , subtle simple feelings of calming bliss, and times of intense sexual pleasure. I enjoy the feeling of pressure and fullness inside me, and how the Aneros can pull me into a very deep state of sexual arousal. And of course, each session causes me to cycle between flaccid and fully erect, with some incredible rock solid erections with my cock fuller, thicker, and longer than I experience without it, that feel absolutely wonderful. My sessions cause a constant and extremely large volume of pre-cum that are very enjoyable, simply adding to the erotic experience.

    My sessions can go from one to two hours of pure enjoyment, but since I end up not achieving orgasm, I find I cannot resist the temptation of finishing myself off with an “ol fashion” masturbation. Not to say that it’s not good to finish myself off with a nice enjoyable ejaculation, and I must admit it, my masturbation with the Aneros is far more intense then without it, but...................

    My question is…………..since I haven’t yet had a hands free orgasm, does finishing myself off with a simple jerk off interrupt or influence my ability to continue towards a super O?
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello 54f2th, :)

    My question is…………..since I haven’t yet had a hands free orgasm, does finishing myself off with a simple jerk off interrupt or influence my ability to continue towards a super O?

    My feeling is yes that it will either interrupt or lengthen the amount of time it takes you to achieve super-O's . I've found that ejaculation abstinence has been very helpful for me to progress my Aneros journey. I haven't yet achieved super-O yet. But I'm at about three years and four months of use, and from your description, I'm experiencing much the same results as you with my own Aneros sessions. If you don't have a regular sex partner, then it's definitely doable. It's just mind over matter. :D

    Love_is
  • needit_
    Posts: 34
    must admit after reading both,ahh submissions from these gentlmen,i do not feel left out per say ,as have most of the time had to finnish my sessions as the same way (masterbate)
  • mrkpnh
    Posts: 58
    I find that a penile orgasm provides a conclusion to a session with my Aneros. After an hour to an hour and a half with my MGX I start to feel that I've had enough and want something to mark the end of my session. Masturbation to orgasm does that for me.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    This is really about a personal preference. Invariably what works for some, doesn't for others. While some guys have found abstaining from ejaculation helpful, others have found that it creates too much tension, transforming a session into a nervous, frustrating experience. If total abstinence works for you, that's great! Outside of that I've generally recommended that users try to put some time between ejaculations, so that there is some period of abstinence leading up to a hands free session. How long should this be? Again, this depends on the individual. In the past I've advised guys to look at their present schedule of sexual activity, i.e. how many times a day/per week they ejaculate. For instance, if a guy ejaculates several times a day, a one or two day break is substantial...for him. On the other hand, if one ejaculates once or twice a week, it may take an entire week or more of abstinence to build up a well of erotic energy. This is one of those things that you have to adjust to taste.

    Remember the idea here is to build up a cache of energy that you release in a new and different way. Just know that if there is a surfeit of this energy, it may be counterproductive and figure as more of distraction than anything else. That said, if you're good at managing more extended abstinence and you're able to maintain your focus like this, and you find that it makes for more intense sessions... stay with it.

    BF Mayfield