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  • View Poll Results: Pegging? Voters: 98

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    Never. No way. Forget it 4 4.08%

    Maybe, maybe not 6 6.12%

    I would if she asked me to 35 35.71%

    We did it - don't anymore 7 7.14%

    Yes, we do it regularly 21 21.43%

    I've asked, and she won't 8 8.16%

    I'm afraid to ask 17 17.35%

  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Big Jimbo, I hope you don't mind me responding, even though the previous post was directed at you. I'll keep it short.

    Hello midnitebelle51, :)

    And welcome to the Aneros forum. We, as in us men here, very much appreciate women posting their experiences here. So thank you! :D Not to get us too far off topic from this thread... But you might want to think about directing your partner, and also any MD's you mention this to, to the parent company of Aneros, which is called High Island Health. Their focus is on the health properties of these prostate massager's, versus the pleasure aspect on the Aneros side. The information and presentation there may be more acceptable to certain types of people. See the following link:

    Prostate Massage, Prostate Massagers, Prostatitis BPH Treatment

    Love_is
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Folks, :)


    I just received my Feeldoe more double dildo with vibrator bullet today.
    http://www.feeldoe.com/new_member.html


    They ship fast! I ordered on Friday, and they attempted to deliver on Monday early in the morning while I was sound asleep. So I had to go pick it up at the post office today. Thank god for nondescript packaging and no company name on it, just the “From” address. Although it gave me a secret delight to know that I'm standing at the post office counter with people all around me, a pretty post office lady serving me, with a sex toy in a box on the counter that I'd soon be going home with, and nobody knows! :D LOL So anyways... For those of you that remember that horrified feeling upon opening the Progasm you ordered because of its shear size... Well that's what I got opening the box for the Feeldoe more. It's not the length that scared me, it's the girth on this monster! This thing is bigger than my own erect cock in both length and girth, and I'm going to take this in my ass??? LOL All I can say is that I'm glad I did NOT order the stout model, and perhaps I should have ordered the slim model! LMAO!!! This is where going to your local sex toy shop to see it in person is helpful to get an idea of size that numbers can't necessarily give you. Unfortunately, my local sex toy shop only sells the cheap imitation that is obviously a patent violation. So that was not an option, assuming I could get past the embarrassment of telling the sales clerk I would like to look at double dildos. That's what ordering anonymously from the Internet is for! LOL And much like Aneros, I want to support the company that created it.


    Well you've heard the shocking part already. Now here's some other observations without having actually put it in my ass yet. (Maybe tonight?) It's quite heavy, particularly in the horse end. In contrast, the pony end is quite flexible. Meaning the thin shaft that connects to the bulb of the pony end flexes very easily. Where as the horse end is a lot more rigid but still has some give. So I can see now why when inserted in a standing female that the horse end would hang down horizontally. I'm not sure if a females PC muscles could make it “stand up” so to speak in the standing position. I'm guessing now that the position the two people are in will dictate whether the ridges are in the right spot for clitoral stimulation. I certainly can see how a harness would help a woman who does not have strong PC muscles to keep it in. But also to keep it right up against the clitoris. It seems it's angle between the horse and pony end was designed for a face to face position, or face to back position for the ridges to be up against the clitoris. Even though they claim it has no smell, I smell a slight chemically odor from it. Nothing terrible though. I just have a really sensitive sense of smell. Never having had an all silicone toy before, I find the material is quite sticky in it's clean state. But I experimented with rubbing some water based liquid lube on it, and it smooths out immediately. You definitely don't want your lube to go dry on you with something like this. Yikes! Shea butter to the rescue! :D The vibrator seems really strong. Although it makes sense seeing that it has to get through all that silicone. I can't imagine a woman putting this bare vibrator against her clit! LOL


    Unfortunately, Erogenics, Inc., the company that makes the Feeldoe does not have their own quality forum on their web site like Aneros does here. So they use a yahoo group to serve that purpose. It's not great, but it is better than nothing, and answered a lot of questions for me as I laboriously sifted through the message posts. You'd think it would be simple enough to enable a way for all replies of a thread to be within the thread like is done here and in many other forums. But there, each reply is a separate thread, which makes for a mess, and is a pain to read an entire thread. Anyways, I can't remember if the link was posted earlier in this thread, so here it is:

    Yahoo! Groups

    That's all I can think of for now. I'll post more information as I practice with it by myself. And hopefully someday have a pretty lady to peg me with it. Friday my Spareparts Joque harness comes in and I should be able to comment about its build quality. In hind sight, it's hard to believe I'm writing about this and Aneros usage in a public area for people to read. I guess I've made some positive progress in how I feel about sex and sexuality in general. :D


    Love_is
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello again, :)

    So last night I tried the Feeldoe more on myself. Sadly no nice gal to try it on me. And that was probably a good thing considering the difficulty I had. Basically this double dildo is a beast to get in! It's quite large in diameter, and the head is larger in diameter than the shaft. I got myself good and aroused before hand looking at porn, rubbing my nipples, and not touching my penis, just like I would before an Aneros session. Then I pre-lube with two small chunks of shea butter, and then rubbed some shea butter all along the head and shaft of the Feeldoe more. Then I tried to insert it in me. Errr... Houston, we have a problem... LOL

    Either I've got a really tight end, or this dildo is just really large. Perhaps a bit of both? It took many many tries to get this inserted. I kept getting stuck on the inner anus ring muscle that just didn't want to let this monster of a dildo in. LOL So I figured I'd try and stretch myself out with my Progasm which inserted very easily with out any problems. Left it in for a bit, then removed it and tried the Feeldoe more again. Still no luck. I kept trying different positions, and adding more lube. What it finally came down to was laying on my side much like I insert my Aneros, one leg over the over so they both were on the bed. A lot of deep breathing and consciously relaxing my anus and body as much as possible. Mind you at this point I've been doing the insertion with the pony side towards my penis as if it was being used in a face to face position. Finally I slowly and somewhat uncomfortably got it past that last anal ring muscle, and jolted in surprise as that muscles snapped back down on the smaller diameter shaft after the head went in. LOL I was able to get it pretty deep in, not all the way, but found that it went in deeper when inserted the other way around with the pony side facing my buttocks. I think I may have taken it in enough for use with a woman on the other end. Subsequent insertions were easier, but still required a fair amount of focus and breathing to relax enough to get it in.

    Now the interesting thing is that I did not find much pleasure in this act. I don't know if having a woman do the insertion and pegging part would have changed that, or if it was just because it was my first time and it was difficult to insert and somewhat uncomfortable because I was so tight around it. Perhaps learning to find pleasure out of pegging for the man requires practice and persistence much like the Aneros journey. I found that even though the Feeldoe, my anus, and rectum were very well lubed. My anus, and I'd assume my rectum had a very tight grip on the Feeldoe. It was not easy to move in and out. So I can see where a dildo harness for a woman would be very helpful to overcome that "death grip" so it stays in her vagina. I do know that with my Aneros toys they move very easily in and out of my anus with shea butter lube. So it has to be my tight anal grip on the toy. I'm guessing that over time with practice I'll learn to relax more and likely loosen up with this. Moving it in and out felt like it was making a suction as I was so tight. A strange sensation to say the least. I found the vibrator helpful to help relax the muscles on insertion, and sometimes during pumping. But unfortunately there was not much pleasure so far. And has ruined all those wonderful fantasies I had of being pegged. :( Needless to say my anus is a bit sore today from all the stretching it took! LOL I probably need to take a day off from any anal play.

    So here's some questions that occurs to me:

    As a man, does finding pleasure in being pegged, or inserting dildos anally take practice much like the Aneros toys? I had thought that this toy would rub and stimulate my prostate, particularly because it is so large. But nothing of the sort seemed to happen that I could tell no matter which direction it was inserted. I didn't even feel any increased arousal.

    Can a man experience pleasure and have super-O's from anal dildo penetration? Is this a different process of learning than from the Aneros prostate massager's?

    Also, I get the feeling that anal dildo insertion and Aneros usage are at two opposite ends as far as their effect and what they do. The former loosens up your anal muscles, and the latter strengthens them. Particularly if you are like me and have graduated to the smaller Helix and MGX models, I seem to have some mighty strong anus muscles. Does anyone think these two things are incompatible practices? Or do I just need to separate them in their own sessions and practice both? Thanks.

    I'd appreciate any thoughts based on experience.
    And feel free to ask questions if you have any. I'll do my best to answer.

    Love_is
  • Ah ha Love_is, A new toy, the Feeldoe more is not for the beginner you "size queen" as you were described on the Feldoe Yahoo group to your very good question about male pleasure! LOL size queen!
    Looking forward to hearing about your new journey. Unfortunately I cannot offer much wisdom as I've only enjoyed a few sessions of pegging, all I can say is each one is better than the last and just like my fist time of using an Aneros I was left wondering if it was a good idea. Good luck with your quest for an open minded female to indulge your fantasy with.
    Oh, the feeldoe more, you were warned!
    [CENTER]
    CAUTION:
    Feeldoe® MORE are
    Not for beginners!
    If you already "feeldoe",
    then you know what you're
    getting in to
    (or what's getting into you...
    hehehe)
    with a horse of this magnitude!
    [/CENTER]
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Sky_Walker, :)

    Thank you for your response. Yes I was warned. And actually I don't consider myself a size queen. The recommendation came from members of the "peggingisforeveryone" group at tribes.net that felt there was some length lost between the man and woman pegging so that the classic was a bit short. So I assumed these were experienced people that knew what they were talking about. But perhaps they are too experienced! LOL The other thing being that I didn't think the 1/8 of inch larger in diameter, and 3/4 of an inch longer than the classic model would have been that much difference. Maybe it is though, but I guess I'll learn to live with it. And perhaps once I actually try it with a woman after "more" practice it will turn out to be alright. LOL
    Love_is
  • Hey Love_is,
    The following text is written by a woman as an instruction to other women interested in pegging and femdom. You may want to print it out and laminate it for your sexy friend!:)

    To a lot of us Aneros users this is common knowledge, but here goes..


    [CENTER] How to strap on
    A Strap-On
    a users guide for women [/CENTER]
    Okay, before the lesson begins, lots of women are going to be wondering – ‘So what’s in it for me exactly?’
    Using a strap on is a very aggressive and dominant act. Almost the entire history of female physical sexuality is one of passivity and submissiveness. So when women first consider the idea of using a strap-on they generally come to it with no precedent or understanding. I suppose the best way to explain it is that using a strap on is an acquired taste. At first you are not sure if you really want to try and even when you do you’re not really sure if you like it or not – yet afterward you start to crave it and within a short time you can’t get enough of it! So why not keep an open mind - you might really enjoy it. By strapping on a huge cock you may discover a whole new erotic personality that is just waiting to come out and play.
    Firstly, there are physical reasons as a woman you can enjoy using a strap-on such as the rubbing of your genitals, which can be very stimulating. However, one of the most arousing and unexpected pleasures of using a strap-on will be the psychological power and control both wearing and using one brings.
    For a woman it is a powerful, aggressive, taking, dominating act. You are breaking open, entering, overtaking and existing inside someone else’s body. A man becomes vulnerable both physically and emotionally. It is an ultimate act of submission and complete surrender where he is sexually overpowered and penetrated. Basically, he is being fucked - a sensation alien to men and the whole precedent of male and female sexual relations. So with this in mind girls, with every thrust, remember it's history you’re changing - that women can enjoy and relish in all the emotions and power associated in fucking.
    I personally just adore strutting round wearing a huge phallus it feels so horny and powerful. For me a big turn on is having a man handcuffed and bent over the kitchen table, his trousers down round his ankles. He so wonderfully vulnerable. I’m going to fuck him to give me pleasure. Let me assure you girls your sex life can take on a whole new dynamic.
    So, are all the men reading this hurriedly crossing their legs or running off to hide - all under the apprehension that having a silicon cock shoved up their bottoms is really going to hurt? There certainly seems to be a lot of fear and apprehension associated with any kind of anal play. So is it painful for the recipient? Well, with relaxation, desire, patience, communication, and lubrication – it shouldn’t hurt you at all. In fact the anus and rectum are full of sensitive, responsive nerve endings which when stimulated through penetration can be immensely pleasurable and even orgasmic.
    The physiology
    Our back passages, or to be more precise our arses can be one of our most sensual erogenous zones, but it is one too often feared, forgotten or left unexplored. All right, yes, the arse was not designed for shagging. So it’s important to remember that it’s very delicate and easy to tear. The arse has no natural lubrication, as unlike the vagina there are no lubrication glands, so it’s very easy to rub off the protective mucus membrane and damage the underlining tissue.
    The anus is the small, puckered opening controlled by two rings of muscle, an external and internal sphincter. This opening leads to the anal canal and rectum. The walls of the anal canal comprise of tissue similar to that of the clitoris and penis, it becomes engorged from increased blood flow during arousal. Rich in blood vessels and nerve endings the tissue of the anal canal is incredibly sensitive and responsive to touch and stimulation. If it’s relaxed it will stretch, if tense it can tear.
    When you anally penetrate a man, the dildo will inadvertently simulate his prostate gland. The prostate gland can be found beyond the anal canal and toward the navel. This is the gland that produces seminal fluid that carries sperm into the penis at ejaculation. The prostate contracts to release the fluid, which may explain why many men find it an amazingly pleasurable sensation to have it stimulated. You can also stimulate it with a finger, I can usually only find it when a man is really turned on or before he is about to come. Just place one or two fingers in his anus while he is wanking. Move them up towards his penis until you find a largish soft fleshy ball, which you can partly touch only, this is the prostate gland, which you should rub gently with circular motions. (Just in case your wondering women don’t have prostate glands so don’t bother hunting round for it.)
    [CENTER] What you will need:
    Latex gloves
    A good quality Lubricant (and lots of it)
    A Strap On
    Condoms
    Staying power![/CENTER]
    Practicalities
    Dealing with a tight or virgin anus – If you’re really having problems with a tight little hole that just can’t seem to take your cock I would suggest putting it into a training program. Instruct your partner to wear a small plug for a set period each week. Gradually increase both the size of the plug and the period of time it is worn until you have gently persuade the anal muscle to relax. I went shopping with one of my slaves and together bought a beautiful pink silicon butt-plug from BabesHorny. I placed him on a regime of 4 hours a week, after three months I reduced this to 2 hours. He now has a lovely willing little bottom always ready to service my needs. Although I am not a great lover of Amyl Nitrate, a small amount administered to the recipient immediately before penetration dilates the blood vessels and thus relaxes the muscles helping the anus to open up. You can also buy a number of other anal toys that will all help both eroticize and relax your anal passage. Such as anal beads that can be pulled from the anus at the point of orgasm and vibrators that are excellent for stimulating a prostate gland.
    Some men are very apprehensive about having their arses fucked as they think it won’t stretch or will remain open, leaving them incontinent. Be confident with lubrication and patience the anus easily stretches open, it’s quite amazing what it can take. And be assured that afterwards it will always close properly.
    Obviously with such a potentially messy part of the body it’s essential that the submissive try to ensure that they empty their bowels before engaging in anal sex. Firstly having a nice clean back passage is much more appealing to your partner and will make the whole process less messy but it will also make the experience feel more comfortable once the dildo is inside you. To be really confident you can suggest that your partner has an enema or give them one yourself an hour or so before your session.
    How to actually get started:

    [LIST=1]
    [*]Get yourself ready. Put on your Strap on. I prefer to wear it over a skirt or panties as I like the sensation of it rubbing on my pubic mound through them, otherwise it can be too chaffing. I suggest practicing wearing your cock before you intend to actually use it to find out how it’s most comfortable. I also like to pad the whole of my groin with kitchen towels. Okay, it’s not very sexy, but it gives me the confidence to thrust away without feeling like I might get messy. When you put on your strap-on leave it a bit loose to begin with as you will need to adjust it’s positioning to get it inside and get the angle right. Only once it’s inside tighten up the harness.
    [*]Get the bottom ready. Wearing a glove, stroke the opening. Slowly insert your finger into the anus, it will probably open and contract or tighten around your finger. Once your finger is inside wait until you feel all the sphincter muscle relax, at first they may tighten. It feels very hot and wet for the giver. Slowly insert another finger and get the whole anal canal well lubricated, relaxed and open.
    [*]Getting the cock in. Put a condom onto the cock and lubricate it well. Wearing a glove again push one of your finger inside the arse hole find the angle of the opening and push the cock inside slowly as you withdraw your finger. The submissive partner has to completely accept and want what is about to happen to them. This is because it is essential that they try to relax and open their anal sphincter, the muscle at the opening of the anal passage. As they feel the dildo pushing against this muscle they should try to open it and push down and back on to it.
    [*]Getting going. Go carefully and slowly allow the cock to completely fill the anus let the slave relax for a few moments once it is inside, then eventually continue slowly and gently with small movements. Remember this area is so sensitive that even simple motions feel magnified. Never force the cock inside and if it hurts excessively stop immediately. Gradually build up to harder and faster strokes Basically work out a rhythm that comfortable for you. (This is where you begin to have to give men their dues when you realise just how exhausting fucking is – on the bright side it good exercise for your leg muscles.)
    [*]Finishing. Withdraw slowly, when you have finished. A little trick to prevent mess is to put on a glove and pull the condom off the strap-on inside out. Then pull the glove off inside out, ensuring any mess is well insulated - wrap in tissue and put it straight into a bin. The recipient may want to go to the lavatory afterwards, this is normal.
    [/LIST]
    Angle of entry – finding the angle of entry into the anus varies from person to person and depends upon the position you are fucking in. Physiologically speaking, the rectum and anal canal tilts forward slightly towards the navel then back again towards the tailbone.
    Remember a bad experience will spoil further exploration, so always take it slowly to begin with. Be aware it may take some time to fully penetrate your partner. Aim to achieve this over a number of sessions starting with smaller attachments. Don’t expect to push a huge 9-inch phallus up a virgin bottom on the first session. Once your cock is inside keep in mind you have access to you partner’s genitals, which you can simultaneously wank or play with while you fuck them.While I’m fucking a guy from behind I love to grab his cock and squeeze it hard or even wank it until he comes while I’m fucking him.
    Positions


    [LIST=1]
    [*]Doggie. For beginners or anyone without elaborate equipment, I would suggest starting with the doggie position. Place your partner on all fours with you either kneeling behind or lying over their backs to fuck them. Remember to put something soft down on the floor to protect your knees.
    [*]Standing. Another good and simple position. Just bend your partner over a table etc and fuck them while you are standing.
    [*]Girlie Style. (Missionary) More difficult, especially getting the dildo into the right spot. Lay your partner on their backs and kneel between their open legs, lift up their legs with your arms. I personally love to put guys on their backs as I can watch their faces while I fuck them. I also feel it’s a real reversal of roles. It has an intimacy that you can’t achieve when you fuck from behind.
    [*]Comfortable Girlie Style. Buy a sling! Put your partner on their back and rock them back and forth onto your cock - hours of effortless fun guaranteed.
    [*]Guys on Top. Here you lie on your back and make them do all the work squatting over you.
    [*]Spooning. Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction. Gives excellent access to you partner’s genitals.
    [/LIST]
    Shopping tips
    Buying a Strap On This article is basically written for women who want to use strap-ons anally on male partners. This advice is therefore with this in mind. The back passage, unlike vaginas, can be pretty messy even with lots of preparation. So I would only consider using a completely rubber harness so that it can be properly washed afterwards. Strap-ons usually comprise of a harness that straps round the groin with some kind of O-ring where different sized dildos may be fitted. They are also available as a one piece where the harness is permanently attached to the harness. For beginners I would recommend buying a strap on that has interchangeable dildos so that you can start with a small size and work up to a full cock size. You can also obtain hand held dildos for fucking and strap-ons that attach to the knee, which allow for more vigorous fucking.
    Lubricants For anal play you really need to invest in a good quality water based silicon lubricant. KY Jelly is absolutely rubbish as after about a minute it dries up. To test a lubricant just rub a small amount between your fingers for a minute or two and see how slippy it stays. One of the best lubes is Wet Platinum, which is the slipperiest and longest lasting lube I have ever come across. Its only draw back is that it’s so good it takes ages to wash off anything it come into contact with so be warned. So for practicality I recommend Elbow Grease Gel, which has all the slipperiness without the mess. Also excellent are Probe, Body Glide and Liquid Silk.
    Gloves I recommend buying a box of latex gloves, as you get through loads. Once they’re all yucky just take them off by pulling them inside out and throw them straight into a bin, this way no mess gets anywhere. Don’t try and reuse or wash them, once your hands have made them wet from sweat they’re almost impossible to get on again. They are obtainable from any large chemist at about £9 for 100 and available in small, medium or large. To be effective gloves really should be the correct size and tight on your hands. I’m allergic to the powder in latex gloves and some people are allergic to latex itself, so you can also buy vinyl or powder free gloves. Safety considerations for anal play.

    Both faeces and the back passage contain bacteria that can lead to stomach upsets, yeast and bladder infections, conjunctivitis, many other complaints and more seriously Hepatitis A and B. Therefore it is essential that you protect yourself from these bugs. Always use gloves and never touch your mouth or rub your eyes accidentally. Always use a condom on every dildo or butt plug (unless it’s for your personal use only.) Absolutely never put anything used anally into a vagina. Keep all your toys absolutely clean.
    Okay so using a strap-on probably isn’t going to change your life… but it is a whole new exciting and erotic area for you to explore and maybe even discover something new about yourself. So lets go girls.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Love_is,

    I've owned the standard (purple) Feeldoe for many years. Ironically I haven't had an occasion (yet) to use it with a partner. For me it's always been another erotic tool in my kit. I've used both ends of the device, and have found it satisfying in different ways. The pony end delivers a deep filled sensation in the rectum, coupled with delightful anal sensations. I've also been able to cash in on an acupressure point on the back wall of my rectum that has been responsible for some VERY intense orgasms. As you have pointed out, the pony end does not engage ones prostate very much. This is to be expected of course, given that it's fairly straight and conical. As with most dildos and vibrators, they generally miss the prostate. This is one of the things that makes the Aneros unique, in that it is anatomical designed...canted forward to easily engage the prostate. Let's face it though, you wouldn't want to be slamming yourself with something as large as the Feeldoe if it made direct contact with your prostate anyway....it wouldn't be safe! That's where a turnaround can be quite helpful.

    Yes, the bulb end of the Feeldoe does indeed engage ones prostate quite nicely and can be used to generate some amazing orgasms. With the bulb end inserted one can take the pony in hand. Pushing forward (away from your body) brings the bulb end in contact with your prostate. Pulling back towards your body takes the pressure off of your prostate and brings the ribs on the base of the Feeldoe in contact with your anus externally. Moving from side to side varies the anal sensations. Once you get rolling you'll find yourself working this thing like it was a stick shift on a Ferrari! Soon enough you'll be downshifting yourself into some really nice Super O's. Since the Feeldoe is made of silicone, there is some give to it, but still and all one should be careful with the amount of pressure that is applied and not overdo this.

    With respect to the article that Sky_Walker posted, it is a decent primer on pegging, although it lays the dominance aspects of it on pretty thick for my tastes, i.e. the "slave" bit. I will grant that there is some dominance in the act but I have to believe that it's possible to be pegged and not feel abjectly subjugated by it. Certainly most women don't feel this way about being penetrated by a man. Anyway that's just my take on it, each to his own.

    Love_is,

    To answer your question it is absolutely possible to have Super O's from dildo penetration. That said, I don't believe that it's the best way to cross-over to the Super O. The fact is, I played with dildos and vibrators for many years and never had a Super O from it. It was only when I discovered the Aneros and awakened myself that I was able to have Super O's with dils.

    BF Mayfield
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Sky_Walker, :)

    Thank you for the how to. I'll keep that in mind when ever I get a woman to try this with me. Yes, a little on the dominant side. But it doesn't offend my senses. I think to a certain extent women that try this are certainly going to feel that exchange of power in the role reversal.

    Hello Brian, :)

    Thank you ever so much for your response! You basically confirmed what I suspected about anal dildo penetration not being conducive to learning to super-O. As last night I had an Aneros session first with my MGX, which was quite pleasurable. Then afterwards, inserted the horse end of the Feeldoe more in me. Fortunately I had a much easier time inserting it and moving it in and out. I guess I had to break my anal cherry on it so to speak for the first time! LOL But anyways, I was able to loosen up and relax more by doing small and quick in and out movements. This caused my anus to relax, which then allowed easier and greater thrusting movements with it. It also made the rubbing of my prostate noticable. But when I was done, I did not have any of those leftover twinges and good feelings from my prostate and anus that I would normally have after an Aneros session for that day and into the next. I was just left with a somewhat sore prostate.

    So I think that I will heed your advice and my gut instinct, and stick with Aneros prostate massager practice until I can achieve super-O's. (Unless the right lady happens to show up in my life.) Then go back to experimenting with the Feeldoe. Although, I appreciate you passing along the idea about using the bulb end anally. It was on my list of things to try, but hadn't gotten there yet. It's good to know that it is effective for prostate massaging. As I just might like to experiment with it solo that way, but also with a woman to double penetrate her. :D I think you may have your terms mixed up though. It's my understanding that the bulb end that the woman typically wears is called the "pony", and the cock end that the receiver (wide? LOL) takes is the "horse" end.

    Anyways, thanks for taking the time to answer my questions. :)

    Love_is
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Love_is,

    Right you are...Pony/Bulb, Horse/Cock...lol. No matter what you call it, it's quite a ride!

    BF Mayfield
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Folks, :)

    So just recently I started experimenting with using and practicing with my Feeldoe More again after a long hiatus. And I am happy to say that so far, I have had two very pleasurable sessions with it, and I'm no longer unhappy with this purchase. It very much appears that there is a practice to being penetrated with a dildo just as there is with using Aneros prostate massager's in terms of getting used to it, being comfortable with it, and finding pleasure in the practice.

    Both times I started with an Aneros session using my Helix. And initially the first time was craving something larger in me anally. What I did differently, was to gently take my time slowly working just the head of the Feeldoe More barely in and out of me. As the issue for me was comfortably getting it past the inner anal sphincter muscle. So rather than just try and slowly push it in all in one go, I would push it in up to the inner anal sphincter muscle and gently press and/or rub the head all around inside by rocking the pony end all around, pull out and try again. Just this act alone was quite pleasurable after just a few tries. Something happened where it went from, “Eh, it doesn't do much for me.” To “Oh my god! This feels amazingly good!” And from there I would just keep repeating this and pressing just a little harder against my inner anal sphincter muscle each time while trying to understand what I needed to do to consciously relax that muscle. When I would experience discomfort as it would stretch open. I would pull it completely out and slowly try again. It took me quite some time to actually get the More completely in me. But it was like foreplay. Very pleasurable, and very teasing at the same time. So that by the time the head finally slipped past my inner anal sphincter muscle, it was an extremely pleasurable sensation with no pain when it did! Weeeeeeeee!!!

    There seems to be a similar observation of all the subtle internal sensations that being penetrated creates much like having an Aneros session. And as I practiced I realized that using the bullet vibrator in the More interfered with feeling those sensations. There are so many different points of pleasure I found. From the sensations on my inner anal sphincter muscle, to the pressure against my prostate, to the movement of the head going going back and forth within me. And today I also discovered that twisting the More within me creates a very pleasurable and teasing/itch like sensation on my inner anal sphincter muscles. I enjoyed that very much. And it reminded me of two different threads here that I can't find to reference. One was a recent one where a man who it turns out is not an Aneros user, described the pleasurable sensations and I think dry orgasms he gets from being penetrated with a dildo. The other is an older one where a user talked about something similar, except he used a crystal wand toy to explore all the different pleasurable areas in his anus and rectum.

    On top of all this is the wonderful prostate sensations created from a number of techniques. One is pulling the pony end back a bit to put pressure on my prostate. Another is gently shaking the More in and out in very small amounts quite quickly. Kind of like manual vibration. And the other is, for a lack of a better word, fucking myself with it. And the wonderful sensations both prostate and anal that come from having to completely relax all those anal and rectal muscles to allow it to move freely in and out of me. Wow!!! This is going to be a lot of fun to continue to explore. And I'm glad I tried it again and have the sense to practice and get comfortable with this toy before actually using it in a pegging session. Which I totally can't wait to do at this point! :D

    As far as positions go. What worked best for me was laying on my left side with both legs equally pulled up like in a sitting position. This position seemed to allow me to relax the most, but also allowed easier access to somewhat comfortably reach the pony end of the Feeldoe More to manipulate it. Ideally in a pegging session I'd like to be on my back so the woman and I can be face to face. But I'm not sure how feasible and practical this will be. But it may be entirely different circumstances when I'm not the one that has to manipulate the More. It was harder to both relax and comfortably grasp the pony end in this position and when on hands and knees. Hopefully I can practice being comfortable in other positions so as to allow some flexibility in positions so to speak. It's interesting that even though there is prostate massage happening from being penetrated, the pleasure sensations feel different than what the Aneros does. So it's a real nice change of pace to feel something different.

    At this point I highly recommend that Aneros users practice penetrating themselves anally with a dildo of some sort as an additional different practice. Although I don't think you necessarily need as large a model as the Feeldoe More. Particularly since Aneros sessions strengthen the anal muscles. So a slimmer model may work just as well, but I can't confirm that not having a slimmer dildo at this point.

    That's all I can think of for now. Feel free launch any questions if you have any.

    Love_is
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hey People, :)

    I just wanted to add some interesting posts on pegging that I found on tribes.net.

    What's Involved in an Anal Orgasm? - Pegging Is For Everyone - tribe.net

    What she is talking about is I believe what we call the super-O here in the Aneros forums. Looks like there is more than one way to get there. But I suspect it is a lot easier to learn this with Aneros prostate massager's. But I could be biased since that is the way I started.

    And then there is this thread that is about non-dominant pegging which is so refreshing to read about!

    Non-Dominant Pegging - Pegging Is For Everyone - tribe.net

    Love_is
  • mikeyg
    Posts: 14
    i am sort of in the same situation. i have gotten my wife to use a strapon on me twice and she saw how much i enjoyed it but the second time ended with her in tears and the toy going into the trash. now i have to hide everything and if i talk to her about it, it ends in a fight, her favorite saying is "maybe your next wife will be more kinky" it is very frustrating, especially since we only have "regualr sex" about one to three times a month. i wish there was something i could do it makes me feel like a creep for liking this stuff and it makes her feel bad for not liking it. lol sorry for the rambling
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Mikeyg, :)

    No worries. That's a real bummer about your experiences of including your wife in your anal play. When you can't have peaceful discussions about problems and unfulfilled needs/desires in your relationship, then that's where couples counseling often becomes useful. Although both parties have to go into it willingly and be open minded to learn, understand, change, and grow for it to really work. Communicating effectively, particularly with the opposite gender is not an inherited trait. So it never hurts to get a little help if you find yourself at a standoff with your wife and the two of you are open to the idea and want to work on your marriage.

    As far as having to hide your anal play pursuits from your wife...
    You wouldn't be the first guy here to have to do that. For myself I never like the idea of hiding anything within a relationship. It's a bad habit that is destructive. But each person has to do what works for them. I hope things work out with all this.

    Love_is
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    mikeyg,

    It was nice talking with you in the Chat room yesterday. From that conversation, I get the impression there is a certain lack of open communication between the two of you. You mentioned she got "freaked' from the experience, experiencing some form of emotional trauma resulting in tears and now has withdrawn from any discussion of this topic. This is not a healthy situation for either of you. Honest communication is an important foundation for a lasting relationship. This Forum is not the proper venue for dealing with such issues. I would suggest you two seek some professional counseling to develop your communication skills before animosity sets in and starts to erode what level of trust now exists. Please see the Getting Help section of the Aneros WIKI for a valuable information link, it could be the best step you take at this point in time.
  • Badger
    Posts: 654
    midnitebelle51;

    Have you sent him to the medical site, High Island Health (HIH)? They're the company that developed these products for prostate and hemorrhoid massage. So, yes, it IS a medical device with a BIG perk side-effect. Oh, and here's the website:

    Prostate Massage, Prostate Massagers, Prostatitis BPH Treatment

    Good luck with your husband. He's a very fortunate man.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Folks, :)

    A quick update and some info...

    After some more solo practice with my Feeldoe More (although to a much lesser extent than my Aneros proactice), I actually have gotten to a point where I have gotten the same pleasurable prostate sensations (non-orgasmic at this point) as in my Aneros sessions. Two sessions back I got two peaks in pleasure where I felt my prostate swell, and my testicles and penis retract inwards. This was from slowly moving the More in and out of me for a lot of it's length. But I think the big change in this happening was I've just started to be able to relax on the large size of this dildo to allow it to move much more freely in me. I suspect this played a big part in these two prostate pleasure peaks happening. In addition, I think it is really important for the man who wants to get pegged to have this solo practice with the dildo he will be using. I've found this to be so helpful for me to learn how to take it without hurting myself and to slowly learn to find pleasure from it.


    Also, there is another resource for pegging that was passed along to me from Sky_Walker (thank you).
    http://www.socialpegging.com


    My understanding is that this is kind of like Facebook, but just for pegging interests and information. (You can use and link your Facebook account to it, but I don't advise doing so unless you want all your friends to know what you like to do in the bedroom! LOL) It appears to have a lot more activity than the tribes.net group. But it's only downfall is that you cannot view the information without creating a free account and logging in. Otherwise I've enjoyed the information, blogs, photo's, and stories there.


    Love_is
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Folks, :)

    I just wanted to mention that I've somewhat recently discovered that I find using one of the Peridise models after being anally penetrated with a dildo, or pegged is very useful to alleviate any anal soreness that sometimes occurs afterwards. This has so far worked pretty consistently with me in my solo explorations with my Feeldoe More. Yet another great use for this Aneros model! :D

    Love_is
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    [QUOTE=Love_is;95129]Hello Folks, :)

    I just wanted to mention that I've somewhat recently discovered that I find using one of the Peridise models after being anally penetrated with a dildo, or pegged is very useful to alleviate any anal soreness that sometimes occurs afterwards. This has so far worked pretty consistently with me in my solo explorations with my Feeldoe More. Yet another great use for this Aneros model! :D


    Love_is

    Love_is,

    Very interesting application of the Peridise! I'm thinking cooling the Tempo down with a little chilled water and inserting it might be soothing as well.

    I'm curious, have you explored the pony end (bulb end) of the Feeldoe at all yet?

    BF Mayfield
  • [QUOTE=big jimbo;76888]I am very interested in learning more about pegging. Are there any websites where more info can be found and maybe even some photos or videos?

    I am a straight male and curious.

    me and my gf were pegging for awhile and i have to say the whole act of pegging is hot but you will never get the orgasms like u do with aneros
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    jerdan45,

    Were you able to get to a level with pegging that you ejaculated (without penile stimulation) as seen in the Japanese Anal Video You Might like thread?


    BF Mayfield
  • Badger
    Posts: 654
    [QUOTE=B Mayfield;95132]I'm thinking cooling the Tempo down with a little chilled water and inserting it might be soothing as well.

    Mine came Christmas day, and was sitting outside all afternoon, so it was very cold. I cleaned it and stuck it in the deep freeze. I tried it out later, and discovered the cold doesn't last very long; it adjusts to body heat quite rapidly. My Hemorr-Ice works best for that.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Brian, :)

    I'm curious, have you explored the pony end (bulb end) of the Feeldoe at all yet?

    I did try it once a while back. But it was prior to me developing Aneros session like sensations from being penetrated by the More. And even then it is not consistent yet at all with my limited practice. So at the time I didn't think much of it. I'm sure I'll try this again at some point. But for now I'm more interested in practicing with and being on the horse end.

    --------------------------

    Hello Jerdan45, :)

    me and my gf were pegging for awhile and i have to say the whole act of pegging is hot but you will never get the orgasms like u do with aneros

    That's a shame that that is the case for you. There are a number of men who receive a pegging and claim to have amazing hands free orgasms, whether wet or dry. I have no idea though whether or how they compare to Aneros induced dry super orgasms. I'd imagine once a guy is able to reliably achieve super-O's that it can happen with any type of sexual stim. That's speculation on my part though.

    Love_is
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    Love_is,

    I'd imagine once a guy is able to reliably achieve super-O's that it can happen with any type of sexual stim. That's speculation on my part though

    .
    I'll be able to respond to your speculation within a week. I just took delivery of a new Fun Factory Share (the middle-size model of the series). My wife and I intend to give it a workout. My first impression of this silicone device is that it is softer than a good erection and much softer than Aneros Vice. The circumference can be compared favorably with Vice or Progasm, but it is a few inches longer.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Dave, :)

    Please do keep us informed of your results and how you like the Fun Factory Share and the results. Indeed you are not the first to mention that it is a softer silicone than other types of silicone toys including the Feeldoe models, with the possible exception of the Realdoe. User comments seems to be split on whether this is a good or bad feature of the Share. Did you opt for a harness to use with it, or not? But I'll be much curious to see how another Aneros trained super-O'r is effected by being pegged.

    Love_is
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    Love_is,

    No harness. We'll see if wife can handle it without one, at least for starters. Should be an interesting weekend. :)

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • tokertoker
    Posts: 128
    me and the wife have just started peggiing i have been having great success with aneros and wanted to share with my wife but found erections difficult with device in so i bought a seduex corset harness and tantus acute dildo its six iches long and feels great i find it more comfortable than the progasm or eupho to insert i guess because its silicone and has some give when getting fucked by it the feeling is awesome i come many times dry and have even had a super o and shot lots of cum everywhere i would recomend to anyone game for a go
  • Badger
    Posts: 654
    [QUOTE=toker;98196]me and the wife have just started peggiing i have been having great success with aneros and wanted to share with my wife but found erections difficult with device in so i bought a seduex corset harness and tantus acute dildo its six iches long and feels great i find it more comfortable than the progasm or eupho to insert i guess because its silicone and has some give when getting fucked by it the feeling is awesome i come many times dry and have even had a super o and shot lots of cum everywhere i would recomend to anyone game for a go

    Yeah, but first and foremost, your wife has to be on board with this. If she's squicked out by it all, well then, you're just SOL.
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    toker;

    Agreed!!!

    Last night, My wife and I tried pegging for the first time using a Fun Factory Share (standard model). Will take some practice to get it so wife enjoys it as much as I did.

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • tokertoker
    Posts: 128
    my wife is a christian i am not i have had a tough time bringing up the subject she was understanding but it was kind of a disaster i wanted to convey that she had toys and enjoyed multiple orgasms and the pressure was on me to preform in the dominant role i just wanted to experience pleasure without the need to preform just recieve and be passive she kind of freaked but she was ok with aneros but after 2 years she must have got used to anal play as recently when having sex she asked my dirtiest fantasy and i told her it was to be fucked by her wearing a strap on her reply shocked me she said ill get the credit card you find one you like awesome
  • RipTheJacker
    Posts: 240
    [QUOTE=ten_s_nut;98228]toker;

    Agreed!!!

    Last night, My wife and I tried pegging for the first time using a Fun Factory Share (standard model). Will take some practice to get it so wife enjoys it as much as I did.

    Cheers,

    Dave

    [I]hey congratulations how did it feel and did ya get any O's outta it? ...

    also what's in it pleasure-wise for the wife?

    ... other than mebbe dominating her husband - or really turning him on 'n gettin' him off

    - rip
    [/I]
    :D
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    rip;

    Orgasm from pegging? Hell, yes. Dry-Os followed by huge ejac when wife gave me a hand. I was on top, cowboy style. Wife did not get off because the giver end of the Share is too big for her -- not pleasurable. She wants to shop with me on the Web for something that will work better for her.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • RipTheJacker
    Posts: 240
    [QUOTE=ten_s_nut;98240]rip;

    Orgasm from pegging? Hell, yes. Dry-Os followed by huge ejac when wife gave me a hand. I was on top, cowboy style. Wife did not get off because the giver end of the Share is too big for her -- not pleasurable. She wants to shop with me on the Web for something that will work better for her.

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    dave happy for ya mate - wish you'da filmed the session ...

    might help me get over my hesitancy to submit to bottoming for my phallus-enabled wife - assuming i could talk her into it

    ... seein' a level headed dude like u gettin' off to a domestic buttfuckin'!

    - rip
    :D
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    rip;

    Sex videos are out of the question for us. There's no way to ensure that they will remain anonymous.

    If you and your wife are open w/ each other about toys, the double dildo is just one more. No need to talk anybody into anything.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • cyrezcyrez
    Posts: 109
    After some searching i did find a video with the feeldoe strapless in action (not pegging though)

    lesbian STRAPLESS STRAP-ON - Watch Cinema
  • Badger
    Posts: 654
    [QUOTE=ten_s_nut;98240]rip;

    Orgasm from pegging? Hell, yes. Dry-Os followed by huge ejac when wife gave me a hand. I was on top, cowboy style. Wife did not get off because the giver end of the Share is too big for her -- not pleasurable. She wants to shop with me on the Web for something that will work better for her.

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    How about the Feeldoe Thin? It has a smaller bulb that might be more comfortable for the missus, but it is a stiffer dildo, meaning it is not as forgiving on your end. If you shop hard enough, you should be able to get one for not much more than your Share.

    Good luck, and keep us no-chancers posted so we may experience it vicariously.
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    Hello, Badger.

    I think you mean the Feeldoe Slim, which is 1.25 inches in diameter. The Feeldoe is harder silicone than the Share and that could be a problem for me. If my wife decides we should buy the Feeldoe, I'll ask her to be careful not to poke me too hard.

    Meanwhile, it was suggested that I take the Share into my garage workshop and reshape the giver end to be smaller. I'll also weaken the bridge between the two parts so it will put less pressure on my wife due to lever action. Those mods may "save" the Share. We'll see.

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    Update:
    I used a box cutter razor knife to shave 0.5 inches off the diameter of the wife's end of the Share. Silicone is tough stuff to carve. The belt sander didn't like silicone at all. Last night we tried out the mods. Successful in terms of comfort for wife. Amazing sensations for me. Problem remains that she can't orgasm from G-spot massage without lots of clitoral stimulation. The Share doesn't engage the clit directly so we're still shopping for a better device.
  • RJT
    Posts: 41
    Any chance you could slip a "clit ticker" type cockring onto the Share?
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    RJT;

    That's an excellent idea!

    I'll look for a cock ring w/ tickler that fits the 3/4-inch "neck" of the Share and has enough reach (3 inches?) to make her happy. If you know of one, please PM me.

    Cheers,

    Dave

    Update:
    I ordered this one: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00187RBHY It may not be long enough to reach the "spot."
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Ten_s_nut, :)

    Yeah, the Share is not a great model for the women driver if she requires clit stimulation to orgasm. Although I've read that she can get some clitoral stimulation by hard thrusting, assuming the man can take it. That's where the Feeldoe models likely work better with their clitoral ridges on the saddle. Keep in mind though that the bulb, which is called the pony end, as far as I'm aware of is no different in size between the different models. It's just the dildo end which is called the horse end that changes size between models. I'm kind of surprised you opted to mod your Share. I didn't think 100% silicone toys were easily modified and made smooth again.

    Love_is
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    Love_is;

    As for modifying silicone toys, a very sharp razor blade will carve the material nicely. The ridges and dings left on the surface by "whittling" can be smoothed over with silicone sealant (GE or Dow), though it will never be as smooth as the original molded parts. Actually, my wife prefers texture on her toys as long as the silicone is soft.

    I'm hoping the cock ring "rabbit" will do the clit job. Stay tuned for updates.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    Hello, all.

    So, while my wife and I had a good holiday weekend of Aneros and non-Aneros sex, the most recent try at pegging was a failure. The cock ring rabbit died almost immediately. Even if it hadn't, the geometry of the Share plus cock ring was a mismatch to wife's anatomy. She has also rejected the Share's "bulb" as too hard, despite being the right size. That fact rules out the Feeldoe as a replacement, since it is an even harder silicone material.

    With the goal of making pegging enjoyable for my wife, I'll further modify the Share by amputating the bulb, reshaping the giver side of the pubic abutment.and drilling or carving a hole for the same Doc Johnson mini-bullet vibe I use with the Vice. Those mods plus a Spare Parts Joque harness to hold the thing may be a winner. With any luck, the rig should be ready by Saturday.

    Cheers,

    Dave

    Update:
    I received the Joque harness yesterday and immediately modified the Share. A razor saw and wood-carving tools made it a 20-minute job. As usual, I went to bed at 10 PM with Aneros inserted. Had a great session and went to sleep. My wife surprised me at 1 AM wanting to have anal sex; me in her. So, I guess pegging will have to wait a day or two.
  • Korkelz
    Posts: 294
    I have a hunch that pegging is an alternative method to milking the prostate in that both partners experience pleasure. Any of you have videos or personal experiences to shed light on this? The point being to keep arousal after sex but enjoy dry orgasms or lots of pleasure in the process.
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    Korkelz;

    You're correct in that pegging milks the prostate, generates dry Os, and if ended before ejac leaves arousal intact. I've experienced that. Many guys who are into pegging also like their partner to "give them a hand" to finish with a big wet O, which is what my wife and I have done a few times.

    As for the "giver" getting pleasure from pegging, my wife hasn't had any luck due to lack of clitoral stim. I'm hoping our current pegging hardware will fix that. We'll see.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • Korkelz
    Posts: 294
    Ten_s_nut that is exactly my hang-up about pegging! I feel like I might spend $300 or some crazy amount before I find something the feels good for my wife. Yeah, I think my wife needs clitoral stim. Please share what you are doing, buying, etc.
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    Korkelz;

    Please see my previous posts, above in this thread. I will update the thread when we have a solution that works for both of us, or not.

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    Hello, all.

    Wife and I tried out the highly modified Share I described above last night. Before my wife got into bed, I'd warmed myself up for an hour using the Vice with Vice bullet and spent at least 15 minutes in Super-O land before falling asleep.

    Wife woke me up around 4 AM, feeling frisky. After I licked her for a good long time, we pegged using a spooning position so my wife's hand was over my waist and holding my penis. The bullet vibe really got her going. She had a series of mini-Os while I had more dry-Os than I cared to count. I'm not sure how long we went at it -- probably around 30 minutes. She never had a big-O, but enjoyed the session. My last wet O and all the previous "dry" Os left a huge wet spot on the bed. I'll remember the towel next time.

    Now, it's about 4 hours later and I'm still having P-wave after-effects.

    It seems to me that the ideal pegging rig would be similar to what we have with the addition of "rabbit ears" inside the vaginal abutment for more direct clitoral stimulation and a very soft silicone mini-dildo that would go inside her.

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • gilbertgilbert
    Posts: 10
    I suggest trying the Realdoe - check it here . We bought this some time ago and it is perfect. A good method is having an Aneros session, and then use the Realdoe dildo... We enjoy this very much. :)

    PS: You can accompany it with some harness (this one fits perfectly), or use it just bare

    Peter & Jenny
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Ten_s_nut, :)

    I wonder if your wife's impression of the Share on her end was not necessarily the size, but more the shape? If so, then a Feeldoe might work as the shape is really different on the pony end, or perhaps a *** double dildo with a bullet vibe placed in the pocket of the Spareparts Joque above the dildo.

    Also another possibility is that exercising of weakened pelvic muscles can give a sore feeling, is this perhaps a possibility of what she was feeling?

    Love_is
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    Love_is,

    My wife's PC muscles are incredibly well-developed. She could juice a lemon in there if she felt like it.:)

    The problems for her were three-fold: pony material too hard, pony too big, and not enough clitoral stimulation. I carved the pony down until she liked the size of it. Since there was nothing I could do about the pony's hardness, I cut it off. Solved the clitoral stim problem by carving a hole in the Share near her clit and placing a bullet vibe there.

    At this point, we have a workable solution that she's comfortable with and gives her pleasure. I'll let her do the shopping for something she thinks might be better.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • big jimbo
    Posts: 72
    Dave,

    I guess you are aware that you a very lucky to have a wife who is willing to participate in your adventures. My wife seems to have lost all interest in any type of sexual activity. I am starting to shop for toys I can use for masturbation on myself, discretely of course.

    Enjoy what you are doing, and keep us posted. It makes for very interesting reading.