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Anyone think the Aneros is a distraction?
  • Firstly thanks for the great posts, I've learn't a lot lurking here and appreciate all the advice you all take the time to help people with.

    Secondly a bit of history:-

    I started with my first Aneros early last year and initial signs were good as I even had the Aneros moving of it's own accord once until I started to concentrate on it then poof, it went away. A few months later I had to go into hospital for an emergency bowel operation so had to stop for a few months while I recovered.

    Since starting again I've noticed that I very rarely get anything good from a session even though I go into it with no expectations and am totally chilled, relaxed and lubed up. I use shea butter as a lube which is quite good but one thing I have noticed is no matter what lube I use the area on the Aneros in the spinchter rapidly dries out and sticks which I think is part of my problem. I've tried shea butter, water based lubes, vaseline, olive oil etc. on this section (I don't want a lot of vaseline etc. in my anus so I only apply it to the stem) but they don't cure the problem as eventually it starts to stick. Does anybody else have this issue/can suggest a solution?

    Another thing that I've noticed is that whenever I do have the Aneros inserted I'm always concious of it being there (I know that sounds daft) but it means I can't switch my brain into auto mode even while listening to Alana and just let it do it's stuff.

    Although the above may sound like a moan the main point of this post was to ask if anybody since starting with the Aneros has better sessions without the device than with it?

    I'm prompted to write this now because this afternoon I had the best session yet even without an Aneros inserted. I was a bit tired and decided to have a bit of a read on the bed and nap if I needed but about twenty minutes into my book I started to get these very pleasurable tingling sensations from my prostate, I half concentrated on them but continued to read my book as I find if I can distract my mind with something else I stop trying to subconciously control things. Anyway after about 15-20 minutes with the feelings spiraling upwards, I put my book down, laid down completely and just concentrated on these feelings. After a while I was so relaxed, my full body was tingling and what I can only describe as energy was moving up and down my body which I was able to direct to specific parts of my body. My prostate felt huge then started pulsing and I was getting intermittent erections and some of the pulses felt fabulous. I can definately say these were the best feelings I've ever felt and when I eventually got up I feel great. There were no orgasms (I don't think I was even close) but after the poor sessions with the Aneros to have this great non-Aneros session I think is definately a step in the right direction.

    Sorry for the long first post but I'm buzzing at the moment and just had to tell you all :D

    Michael
  • ViggenViggen
    Posts: 20
    I sometimes have a session without the aneros just because it's a different feeling. I find I have butt buzz in the car all the time, I also get butt buzz at work too. I would say you are on your way. keep at it and good luck.
  • The_BishopThe_Bishop
    Posts: 810
    Regarding the stickiness problem, the best lube I have ever used for the Aneros is "Natural Jelly". It's natural, stays put on the aneros and last a long time.

    Here is the link to the recipe:

    http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2838
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Microboot,

    And welcome to the Aneros forum. :)

    Thanks for telling us of your experiences!
    I'm not sure I can answer all of your questions. But some of them I can.

    I use shea butter as a lube which is quite good but one thing I have noticed is no matter what lube I use the area on the Aneros in the spinchter rapidly dries out and sticks which I think is part of my problem. I've tried shea butter, water based lubes, vaseline, olive oil etc. on this section (I don't want a lot of vaseline etc. in my anus so I only apply it to the stem) but they don't cure the problem as eventually it starts to stick. Does anybody else have this issue/can suggest a solution?


    I've been using shea butter for almost a year now with Aneros sessions, and have never experienced this problem. I've done four to five hour sessions with it and have never had to re-lube during the session. The only thing that occurs to me is that you are not lubing yourself and the Aneros anywhere near enough. When I lube myself I used two small pieces of shea butter, approximately 1cm in diameter. That get inserted in my anus and pushed into my rectum. The first one I intentionally hold with my finger in the outer and then inner area of my anus to make sure it melts a bit and properly lubes that area. Then it gets pushed into my rectum. The second one I just push right into my rectum. Then a similar amount of shea butter is liberally applied to the whole area of my Aneros that is inserted in me. I recommend you err on the side of too much lube than not enough until you find what works for you. Don't be stingy with it! ;) :D

    Another thing that I've noticed is that whenever I do have the Aneros inserted I'm always concious of it being there (I know that sounds daft) but it means I can't switch my brain into auto mode even while listening to Alana and just let it do it's stuff.


    This implies to me that you have not been able to reach the state of completely relaxing your anal muscles yet, or again. When I first started practicing Aneros sessions seriously and regularly, I to noticed that I was always conscious of it in me and felt discomfort with it until I finally learned how to completely relax my anal muscles while it is inserted.

    Although the above may sound like a moan the main point of this post was to ask if anybody since starting with the Aneros has better sessions without the device than with it?


    Yes! Go read my Blog. I currently have better no-Aneros session than vice versa. Although mine I do sitting in my computer chair while looking at porn on the Internet. I definitely get those energy sensations and the fullness/swelling of the prostate feeling. But I have yet been able to make them go anywhere than my anus, perineum, and prostate. But in addition, I also get fantastic feeling unconscious anal contractions in these sessions. Playing with my nipples really helps everything along and build. If you are not already doing that, I highly recommend you start playing with your nipples during a session so as to wake them up.

    Love_is
  • Thanks for the replies. I've ordered the ingredients for the natural jelly so will mix up a batch when they arrive. I usually melt the Shea Butter and inject it with a syringe and then smear butter onto the Aneros. With this I'm probably not getting enough in the outer area so I'll give this a try.

    I'm a great believer in nipple play and get some great feelings but again I seem to concentrate on this and ignore the feelings from the Aneros which seems to defeat the purpose. I guess I need to concentrate on letting go of all concentration but it's quite difficult for me. I sometimes wonder if I have a mental problem because I can get mentally caught up on the simplest things sometimes until I realise then force myself to stop. Ah well the journey continues.

    Thanks for the advice all
    Michael