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Newbie with Progasm and couple of question
  • Phate
    Posts: 3
    Hi all, I'm Phate, 21 aged, eterosexual, not exactly a newbie about anal stimulation.
    I got my Progasm by about 1 week and I used it for three times: what a lovely toy!
    I haven't reached an hands-free orgasm with the Aneros in, but the subtle sensation that it gave to me were very pleasurable.
    The first session I was able to feel some small involuntary contraction, they were like an echo generating by voluntary contraction. Very gentle stimulation but good.
    The second and the third session were little different because I've tried to focus more on mental arousing thing than breathing or voluntary contraction, I've let feelings build by thereselfs (similar to Pan's Fantasy Method explained in "The five minutes leading up to a Super-O"). This metod seems to be more effective on me and causes some P-Waves with a rock hard erection and maybe a mini O's (or a great P-wave, I'm not sure. But it was really good :) ).
    Reading the forum and the Wiki I think that I have to be happy for these results in few sessions.

    Anywhere, I have a couple of question:

    Last night I had the third sessions and this morning while having breakfast I got an orgasm just sitting on the chair :shock: I've enjoyed it but... if something like that happens in office while talking to a customer... :lol:
    Will it be a unique experience or using Aneros I have to avoid sitting-on-chair stimulation? :lol:
    Seriously, have I to expect that will happen again?


    I noticed that relaxation and mental focusing is really really important. During a session sometimes I lost concentration and the feelings go down. What do you usually do to maintain concentration? Silence and darkened room? Meditative music? Porn? Any advice?

    P.S.
    Sorry for my bad English :oops:
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,265
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    Phate,

    Welcome to the Forum,

    Echo effects (see WIKI Glossary), are not an unusual phenomenon with Aneros use. Chair Orgasms, though infrequent, are not unusual. I suspect they will not become a common event or problem for you as you become inured to the Aneros experience. However, with increased experience, you may find it easy and a pleasant daytime diversion to induce such Anerosless orgasms by voluntary thoughts and active encouragement of the process.

    P.S. I sent you a PM with some tips and hints to get you started.
  • MartyB
    Posts: 80
    "...this morning while having breakfast I got an orgasm just sitting on the chair"
    Wow! That is incredible progress, congratulations. I'm curious, did you have to listen to and focus in on what you were feeling for orgasm to happen? Or were you just sitting there reading the paper and it hit you?

    "I noticed that relaxation and mental focusing is really important. During a session sometimes I lost concentration and the feelings go down. What do you usually do to maintain concentration? Silence and darkened room? Meditative music? Porn? Any advice?
    It seems continual mental effort is required for pleasure to build up to any significant level. I'm working on developing a habit of thinking sexy thoughts whenever I feel any sort of pleasure. When I feel pleasure, I acknowledge it and think oh yea that feels good and try to come up with a sexy thought to go with it. If I keep doing this over and over, eventually my mind will automatically be filled with sexy thoughts when I feel pleasure without any mental effort (autopilot), which will result in more pleasure leading to more thoughts, etc... You get the idea.

    Enjoy the journey,
    Marty
  • Phate
    Posts: 3
    Thanks for the answers and for the PM!
    This forum is very usefull, there's a lot of interesting thing to read :)

    MartyB said:


    Wow! That is incredible progress, congratulations. I'm curious, did you have to listen to and focus in on what you were feeling for orgasm to happen? Or were you just sitting there reading the paper and it hit you?


    I sit down as always and after few seconds I began to notice that inside my anus something was twitching. I had focus in for a moment when a P-wave has overwhelmed me, after that other twice P-waves hitted then I had a dry orgasm. That was amazing and unexpected. I had done almost nothing, it happened by itself.


    Today I was alone at home and I had another sessions. I'm slowly learning how to contract the different type of muscle and I have to say that is a nice gymnastics :D
    I had several P-waves and although I haven't reached any exagerated peak of pleasure I felt good feelings. Maybe I can reach better results if I waited more before a session and another, even if I avoid masturbation but I feel the twenties :lol: