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Aneros and vibrators
  • Owl
    Posts: 2
    This is sort of a two-part question:

    First, I've owned my Aneros for several months now, but I haven't used it much because I'm somewhat of the impatient type. Today, I tried something different. After liberally lubing the Aneros, it slipped right in very nicely. I tried keeping it in place with an elastic, but that doesn't seem to work too well. Next, I lay on my back and tried rocking forward & back with the 'handle' on the bed. That was a little better, but it still wasn't what I was hoping for. Lastly, I remained on my back, but I lifted my butt up this time & grabbed ahold of the handle. In this 'position,' I then slowly began moving the Aneros in and out, much like a woman would use a dildo or vibrator, holdin the 'tab' end against my prostate (from the outside) as best I could. After a short while of thus massaging my prostate internally, I felt that familiar 'tingly' sensation come over me. Was this the beginning of the type of orgasm the Aneros is supposed to produce? I should note that at no time did I get an erection. Is that normal when using the Aneros? Is an erection necessary for Aneros orgasms?

    As to my second question, here it is: Would external stimulation of the prostate with a vibrator help in producing or enhance the Aneros orgasm? I recently found a website (whose address escapes me) that said a female G-spot/clitoral vibrator can be quite effective in producing prostate orgasms. Is this possible? If so, regardless of whether guys would use such vibrators, I'm seriously considering purchasing one for myself.

    Owl

  • tbone
    Posts: 2
    Yep, I think the 'tingle' is the right spot, just work with it and experiment. As for vibrators, I have an 'egg' shaped vibrator that clips perfectly inside the hooked handle of the Aneros, and the sensation is unbelievable. Highly recommended!
  • Edit
    Posts: 0
    I have a vibrating cock ring that I've attached to the tab and that feels nice. But it is better when I put it around my cock and balls. When laying on my side contracting the Aneros, the ring vibrates through my balls and loins, and you get a powerful orgasm.
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    Originally Posted By: tbone
    Yep, I think the 'tingle' is the right spot, just work with it and experiment. As for vibrators, I have an 'egg' shaped vibrator that clips perfectly inside the hooked handle of the Aneros, and the sensation is unbelievable. Highly recommended!




    Thanks, tbone. It seems I'm on the right track. Your response helps.
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    Originally Posted By: tbone
    Yep, I think the 'tingle' is the right spot, just work with it and experiment. As for vibrators, I have an 'egg' shaped vibrator that clips perfectly inside the hooked handle of the Aneros, and the sensation is unbelievable. Highly recommended!




    Thanks, tbone. It seems I'm on the right track. However, using the Aneros as I've done in the past, I notice a few things: 1.) lying on my back (my preferred position) doesn't work too well. I wish it could be done, as I'm not fond of semen dripping al over the mattress; 2.)the best position I've found is kneeling on my knees, but...see #1. Yes, I could put a towel under me, but I'd prefer not to if at all possible (I prefer to ejaculate onto my abdomen...dry sheet & easier to clean up); 3.) The semen comes out in drips & drops with the Aneros instead of the usual, masturbatory 'stream.' Is that typical?; and 4.) I don't get an erection with the Aneros. Again, is that typical? (I'm also not fond of the lengthy instructions needed to use the Aneros, but that's probably better-suited to another thread. Lastly, how will I know when I've 'finished' one orgasm & 'started' the next? Lastly, I've tried using a rubber band to keep the external prostate tab in place, but there must be an easier, no-cost way, but I haven't found it. Color me frustrated.

    Thank you.
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    Originally Posted By: bigcat
    I have a vibrating cock ring that I've attached to the tab and that feels nice. But it is better when I put it around my cock and balls. When laying on my side contracting the Aneros, the ring vibrates through my balls and loins, and you get a powerful orgasm.


    I have this:

    http://www.libida.com/content/shop/toys/item.php?product_id=1005&id=1385488724

    and the vibrations from it are nice & strong, though it's a pain in the ass to insert. Still, it looks like it should hit the prostate. Since the batteries are in the handle, the 'base' of the vibe has the strongest sensations. Pity that, but it works nicelt if held against my prostate externally.

    I also have this:

    http://www.discreetshoppers.com/calkit4Lpg171.jpg

    and, while the vibrations are quite strong, the T vibe doesn't feel like it hits my prostate, contrary to expectations. As regards the accompanying cockring with mini vibe, is it supposed to go in front of the scrotum or behind? While attached to the T-vibe, the 'open closure ring vibe can be used alone (possibly with the Aneros?)

    Thanks for any insight as to my questions.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Dear Owl,
    Please read my posting to "Am I doing this correctly", that I made today. In a nutshell to answer your last question first.... NO, vibrators and manipulating the Aneros in and out of your anus will simply not work. It may feel good but the best you can expect to have is a good penile orgasm at the end of it (which isn't bad, but it is not the Super Orgasm that you seek). Not to discourage you, but if you are impatient, the Aneros will simply NOT work for you! You must slow down, and open your self up to a whole set of subtle and different sensations first. Be assured when the you do reach the Super Orgasm it itself is anything but subtle. But the process of getting there is, and takes time and practice to achieve.

    With respect to the first part of your question, about the type of tingling sensation you were experiencing, its hard to say, but generally manipulating the Aneros may stimulate the prostate directly, but just doesn't get you where you want to go!

    B Mayfield
  • Please read B Mayfield's replies to my 2 posts. I wouldn't want you to experience the bleeding that occurred when I performed the rocking back and forth and what I thought was gentle maniuplation in and out of my anus with the Aneros. While the bleeding was not painful, not knowing what I caused to bleed is of concern. The anus, rectum and prostate are made of very fragile tissues. PLEASE READ THE INSTRUCTIONS FOR USE, they really work and note my post Cum One, Cum All. I found that with patience, I'm on my way to that Aneros Orgasm that we all have read about.