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Am I too young?
  • YoungGun
    Posts: 1
    I got my Helix off of ebay about a month ago. I have been trying it every night when I go to bed. I really like the way it makes me feel but I can't seem to wait very long before I come. It is a lot like when I used to jerk off without the helix just stronger.

    Let's just say that I am barely 18 :wink: . Could I be too young to have a Super O?

    I am new to anal stuff and like it but I need help learning how to get there.
  • newguy8762
    Posts: 198
    I don't think you're too young to have a Super O but what probably is happening is that you're inexperienced in enjoying sexual stimulation without quickly cuming...a problem all of us who have been 18 can relate to. It wasn't until I was in my later 20's that I could slow down and learn to enjoy the feelings. I discovered by edging (masturbating with just my hand, no lube and slowly moving the skin on my penis slowly up and down with my hand that I could bring myself to the point of ejaculation and then back off, squeezing my PC muscles or just not letting myself get too close to cuming, that I could have multiple orgasms. I'm circumcised, so I wasn't using my foreskin. Just moving the skin slightly back and forth. This was, of course, a lot more fun than jerking off and blowing all at once. I could go for hours this way and I leaked lots of pre-cum, just like with the Aneros. The Super O that results from Aneros prostate stimulation is the same type of process. Like edging, it takes practice and patience. You can't be rushing to the finish line. You have to calm down and enjoy the journey. If you can train your body to do this (and you can...it's really a matter of if you are willing) you will experience incredible pleasure beyond what's available through normal masturbation or quickie sex (which is what masturbation becomes for most guys). So, focus on the journey (the good feelings your body gives you all along the way), not the destination (an orgasm or ejaculation) and you'll discover a lot of pleasure and the Super O.
  • You know it is not that uncommon for women to not be G-Spot orgasmic till latter in life... I wounder if there is something similar with the prostate.
  • lynn2694lynn2694
    Posts: 96

    I don't think you're too young to have a Super O but what probably is happening is that you're inexperienced in enjoying sexual stimulation without quickly cuming...a problem all of us who have been 18 can relate to. It wasn't until I was in my later 20's that I could slow down and learn to enjoy the feelings. I discovered by edging (masturbating with just my hand, no lube and slowly moving the skin on my penis slowly up and down with my hand that I could bring myself to the point of ejaculation and then back off, squeezing my PC muscles or just not letting myself get too close to cuming, that I could have multiple orgasms. I'm circumcised, so I wasn't using my foreskin. Just moving the skin slightly back and forth. This was, of course, a lot more fun than jerking off and blowing all at once. I could go for hours this way and I leaked lots of pre-cum, just like with the Aneros. The Super O that results from Aneros prostate stimulation is the same type of process. Like edging, it takes practice and patience. You can't be rushing to the finish line. You have to calm down and enjoy the journey. If you can train your body to do this (and you can...it's really a matter of if you are willing) you will experience incredible pleasure beyond what's available through normal masturbation or quickie sex (which is what masturbation becomes for most guys). So, focus on the journey (the good feelings your body gives you all along the way), not the destination (an orgasm or ejaculation) and you'll discover a lot of pleasure and the Super O.



    This is really good advice. Just be patient darlin, you'll get there. Take some time to get to know yourself. You are young, but not too young to find what your body needs and wants. Most (not all) younger men who are just finding themselves sexually are all about stimulating their penis, super O's don't involve the penis at all. Honestly, I have found that men who are just starting their sexual adventures tend to just jump in with both feet, are quick to make sure they get their pleasure and then call it quits (especially with a partner). Using the aneros is a journey...a long process, and well worth the wait. It takes time to learn to slow down and enjoy a partner, I'm sure its the same with the aneros. Your excited and wanting that instant gratification...allow yourself time to explore. Again, you'll get there! Just imagine, your starting out young, you have a lifetime of pleasure ahead of you. :wink:
    May I ask, have you been sexually active with a partner? (I understand if that's too personal)

    Enjoy!
  • helixbill
    Posts: 148
    Ahhh, to be 18 again and know what I know now!

    First, stop thinking "how to get there."

    I had to disassociate orgasm from ejaculation. Since our first sexual experiences normally involve ejaculation it is natural that we equate 'orgasm' with 'ejaculation'. It takes some retraining to learn that they are 2 different (but often closely associated) feelings.

    Go into a few sessions with the idea that you are NOT going to ejaculate, that you are merely going to see what the prostate stimulation feels like. Do not touch your penis at all during these sessions. Even avoid the temptation to 'finish off' by masturbating.

    Be prepared mentally to spend at least an hour on each session. If you know you are going to be there for at least an hour you won't be trying to rush to the 'finish line'. Just lay back and see where your body takes you instead of telling your body where it is supposed to go (ejaculation).