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Now and Again
  • bill3763
    Posts: 24
    I have commented now and again on my journey ... and now after a year or so I find that serious pleasure is wonderfully available, as often as I wish ... curiously, I don't think that I have crossed a plateau as far as relaxation is concerned ... but perhaps there is a "western" approach to aneros enjoyment that involves trying (not too hard) just enough
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    Hi bill3763

    Your comment about relaxation is interesting. Could describe this "trying... just enough" in more detail. The detail may reveal very worthwhile clues for others still seeking what you have attained.

    all the best with your advancing journey

    artform
  • bill3763
    Posts: 24
    Artform--
    Given that we are all "wired differently" I found (during a lengthy plateau) that what is described elsewhere as abdominal and or leg muscles contracting and the sense of anal "push outward" when combined seemed to result in "trying" very hard indeed. I found it extremely difficult to relax when these seemingly involuntary reactions were going on ... I would tend to hold my breath and become quite tense ... all while experiencing pleasure indeed: involuntary vocalizations, wave after wave of pleasure ... but certainly not relaxed.
    Anyway, recently I have made three changes (removed most of handle from MGX, adopted a position on my back, and incorporated very slow nipple stimulation with the aneros in place). These really seemed to ratchet up my level of enjoyment (how is it still possible to have even more pleasure?) ... and both yesterday and today I was then able to flip over onto my stomach and found that I was in fact then relaxed ... and just able to let the orgasm continue. It was sort of like having worked through the trying ... and my body saying "ok, now I'm going to relax what are you going to do"?

    Well, I don't know that I have answered your question ...
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    bill3763, you are right, we are all wired differently.

    Thanks for this detail. It may assist some who are struggling. Relaxing as a strategy is intended generally for those with expectations, mind noise and other impediments in opening up and getting there. Once "there", as you obviously are, the muscle spasms of some forms of orgasmic expressions are clearly not "relaxing" and that just cums with the territory! :D

    Your new approach and the relaxed on your stomach experience is a wonderful new variation, and there are many more likely on their way for you when they choose to appear to you as you continue to rewire, ever more richly and complexly. East is meeting West in every way this century and we at Aneros and other male multiples explorers are part of that great planetary adventure, IMHO. Thanks again for your details.

    all the best as you journey onward here

    artform