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Seeking Progasm Results
  • Hi Guys,

    I picked up a Progasm after reading you get both the "fill" and the prostate action with it.

    Unfortunately, I have been unsuccessful to any measure with this device. My ass is well open enough to take it with no issues. I have read the boards, and tried laying on my back, laying on my tummy with pillows, laying on my side, sleeping with it in, etc.

    I am 6'2, 220 in pretty good shape. I have invested hours at a time with this thing, and would like to see some of the wornderful results I read of here on the site.

    The last time it was in for a while I got up and walked, feeling it rubbing inside. As I lay back in bed, my heart start to race as though my body was "gearing up" for something, but nothing happened.

    Any advise on how a big boy is to use this toy? I would rather not repurchase another toy (Helix) for my needs. I would like to make this one work.

    Thanks for any advise given. I believe in this toy, and want to see it through...
  • bonerownerbonerowner
    Posts: 121
    I think you are on the right track - don't worry about feeling good and then chasing off a mini or super o - that is pretty normal. Now that you know what the good feeling is then relax and try to focus on what made you feel good and the Aneros should take over. Also, make sure you are well-lubed (Boy Butter H2O is great for the Progasm, IMO).
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Hi skyscanning,

    I could not tell how long you have been at this, but as bonerowner said, you are on the right track with the rapid heart beating. I remember when that happened to me for the first time, it kind of freaked me out. It was not pleasurable in the least so I could not figure out why it was happening since nothing else followed. I believe it to be part of the re-wiring process. You will eventually feel other sensations that will be further proof that you are headed in the right direction.

    Everybody is different. I dont know that the Progasm would have been the best model for me to start with, but there are many here that have had nice success with the Progasm. I certainly understand that you dont want to go out at this point and spend a bunch more money on other models. You will eventually, but stick it out with the Progasm because it has shown you signs that you are on track.
  • I appreciate the feedback thus far. I am very patient, and feel that if I am on the right track, I will stay on the right track.

    I believe this is a wonderous and beautiful product, and am excited about joining the Aneros Community...

    Jim
  • evil-zombieevil-zombie
    Posts: 172
    i too started with the progasm...thinking bigger will be better...as the wife likes doing me with one of her toys occasionallly while giving me a blow...and i enjoy that full feeling there...but...i think you'll wanna try others to..as i have the helix now for awhile ....for a lil variety and a change of pace....
  • Thanks for the tips. I will certainly use each and every one of them...

    I was wondering.... I drive a couple of hours at a time n weekly trips, and I sit at my desk as well for hours at a time in my home office. I hae tried (and liked) simply "wearing" the Progasm for long periods at a time, simply to get my body used to it.

    Is this an OK practice? After about two hours or so the little handles start pushing in a bit too firmly, so I take it out for a while. but other than that, I can go about my daily business "wearing" it for log periods of time.

    I notice that when I put it in, my body acknowledges that it is there, and then seems to ignore it. But I thought any Prograsm acclimation time would be good time.

    Might I have your opinion please?
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    skyscanning,

    You asked for an opinion on the extended Aneros usage, so here is my viewpoint on it. I know that it feels really good to have your little toy gently massaging you into a blissful state but I believe the practice of wearing the Aneros for extended periods of time may be counterproductive. We human beings are, psychologically, very adaptable creatures and can quickly become inured to various stimuli. Too frequent and/or extended usage of your massager may lead to a desensitization of your prostate, anus and perineum, which in turn will make it even more difficult for you to achieve the results you desire.
    The good feelings we get from these sessions are largely the result of the release of various hormones in the body, but the body can only manufacture and store a finite amount of those compounds at any one time. If you are constantly stimulating the body to release them, they eventually become depleted and no good feelings will be generated until such time that the body can manufacture a new supply.
    Your body will become acclimated to the presence of the Progasm quite rapidly if it is receiving pleasure, this will usually happen within minutes, not hours. You are already aware of the drawbacks of desensitization when you stated “I notice that when I put it in, my body acknowledges that it is there, and then seems to ignore it.” If you want to get the most enjoyment from your device, the last thing in the world you want to occur is for your mind and body to “… ignore it” !
    The nature of the subtle feelings generated by your Progasm necessitate a certain level of mental focus to aid the amplification of those feelings to orgasmic levels, while we are living in a ‘multi-tasking’ world there are some activities that require singular attention for maximum benefit, making love to ourselves or a partner is one of those.
    It should be understood, because we are each unique individuals, determining the time period wherein desensitization begins to occur is also subject to individual variations. Only you can determine for yourself the hormone depletion allowance to be applied.
  • Sometimes this is not the best medium for communication.

    The question was not to reference a prolonged use of the Progasm during my daily walk, moreso the question of leaving it in for a while for acclimation purposes. I have read much about the body simply having to get used to the device. I was wondering if any time was better than on time.

    I liked your answer regarding multitasking and dedicated time. Thank you very much for the input.

    Jim
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    skyscanning,

    I’m sorry if I misinterpreted your question and responded in an alternate direction. If you are asking if the acclimatization process can be accomplished outside of a dedicated Aneros session, I think it can be, but need not be done that way. I mentioned in my previous post, with pleasurable sensations being generated, it does not take long for your body “to get used to the device.” Pleasure-reward conditioning occurs rapidly with humans, so whatever time you wish to employ to feel physically comfortable with your new toy is OK. However, if it becomes painful or otherwise uncomfortable, I would recommend you immediately remove it to avoid a negative conditioning response.
  • Both of your answers were perfect. Thank you very much for investing the time into reading and replying to my queries...

    Jim