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lack of aneros movement
  • ede_1943
    Posts: 23
    when i first got my aneros i would squirt some warm water in my ass and prelube every time i had a session--as i got used to the insertion i did away with both--now i only lube the aneros and don't do anything else--i wonder if this has anything to do with the relative lack of movement of my aneros?--i've been on the path for 2 months and have had dozens of sessions--i get buzzing in my asshole, fluttering pulses in my asshole and wham, bam the aneros slams into me every once in awhile(too infrequently) but not a lot else happens--i'd be happier even if these things would come more frequently or last a lot longer, but no, there's not much movement from either my mgx or my helix--think i should pre-cleanse with a small hot water douche and squirt some prelube in before i try again?--i have prelubed every once in a while but haven't water douched in a long time--thanks ede_1943-- i have a blog called ed's journey where i talk more about my progress
  • JayD
    Posts: 38
    I always use a syringe and inject myself with plenty of lube as well as apply lube to the Aneros. I absorb lube fairly quickly and once I go dry the aneros stops moving. The Aneros needs to move freely in order to work.
  • flipflyer
    Posts: 48
    They say the condom method works for some. You may want to try it.
  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    ede_1943 said:

    when i first got my aneros i would squirt some warm water in my ass and prelube every time i had a session--as i got used to the insertion i did away with both--now i only lube the aneros and don't do anything else--i wonder if this has anything to do with the relative lack of movement of my aneros?--i've been on the path for 2 months and have had dozens of sessions--i get buzzing in my asshole, fluttering pulses in my asshole and wham, bam the aneros slams into me every once in awhile(too infrequently) but not a lot else happens--i'd be happier even if these things would come more frequently or last a lot longer, but no, there's not much movement from either my mgx or my helix--think i should pre-cleanse with a small hot water douche and squirt some prelube in before i try again?--i have prelubed every once in a while but haven't water douched in a long time--thanks ede_1943-- i have a blog called ed's journey where i talk more about my progress



    Hiede_1943!

    I agree with JayD here! It IS probably a good idea, for the sake of mobility, to pre-lube until you are re-wired and have some miles on your Aneros!
    (this added movement could be a prime factor in getting that first Super-O???)

    I don't pre-lube at this point, but I used to till I got to the point where I felt I had a handle on this dry orgasm phenomenon . . .

    Never cared for the condom method because of the mess and expense of condoms . . . But different strokes;
    I always try everything at least a couple of times to see if it works for me!

    I do sometimes lube, then re-lube if it doesn't seem to be going properly or seems to be drying out . . .

    Later, Hlaser99
  • luvinaneros
    Posts: 147
    Can't agree more with HL. I always cleanse prelube and relube when I change models.


    la
  • TipherethTiphereth
    Posts: 146
    I had that problem for quite a while...I was clenching too hard.
    I start at the most relaxed state being zero applied anal tension and only then creat the smallest possible contractions and then go from there. But thats just my 2cents.
  • ede_1943
    Posts: 23
    question for tiphereth--go to where?--you say go from there--do you mean harder or softer contractions?
  • TipherethTiphereth
    Posts: 146
    Well when I say from there I mean from the beginning of the session.
    I lube up and then insert the Progasm.
    Then I just relax my anus and rectum completely and I have to concentrate on this cuz Im the type
    to clench without even thinking about it.
    While working on relaxing I may experience a pleasurable involuntary contraction or two and this seems to work well to sort of "seat" the device and get the lube spread around in there.
    Once it settles down a bit and I am completely relaxed, meaning I am not putting any pressure on the device it's just suspended in my ass and I am not manualy contracting and I feel that my anus is totaly relaxed, then I concentrate on "feeling" the device through the "Smallest" voluntary contractions I can make. Realy concentrate on feeling the device touching you inside.
    At this point I begin to get small involuntary contractions and as these occur I will complement them with a slight one of my own but never much stronger than what your body is doing. You will find a kind of rythm in complementing the contractions with your own. As you do this the bodys involuntary
    contractions will begin to grow in strength sometimes very quickly sometimes very slowly.You must allow the involuntary contractions to "Lead" you, you cannot lead it effetively.
    What I have found is..if you try to lead it you end up either clenching incredibly hard which causes the lube to dry quickly and then it can rub you raw or constantly having to drop all tension on the device so that the lube can circulate again which interferes with rythm you are creating.
    So...let it lead , let the involuntaries lead you...and learn to enjoy the sensations.
    Keep in mind also that there are other factors which will affect your session such as energy levels , libido, mental clarity, etc.
  • JayD
    Posts: 38
    hlaser99 said:


    Never cared for the condom method because of the mess and expense of condoms . . . But different strokes;
    I always try everything at least a couple of times to see if it works for me!



    I too have tried the condom method with unsatisfactory results. Since I absorb lube so quickly, I figure that the condom method would be an excellent remed but instead it dulled the sensation.

    Plus may god have mercy on me if my fiance ever found condoms in my drawer! We don't use birth control because I had a vasectomy several years ago so her finding condoms would only lead to other suspicions! :shock:
  • ede_1943
    Posts: 23
    thank you tiphereth--i was hazy about whether the action started because the ass was relaxed or because it was slightly contracted--i noticed that mine was dead with a contraction but alive with complete relaxation--but my problem was that i read all the advice as a contraction was necessary to hold the aneros so it could vibrate, and also the literature talks about the massager being propelled by contractions, so i thought that no contraction meant no movement--so my problem is that when the massager darts into my ass i can't seem to respond with nothing or at least only a slight contraction--it seems to overwhelm me so that my ass clenches violently--anyway this is something i'm working on--if i can reduce my response to the involuntary movement then i can keep it going--i'm confident that this is what i need to do--also it seems that non aneros sessions are as important and and productive as aneros sessions to me now and that a lot of my progress is taking place between sessions
  • TipherethTiphereth
    Posts: 146
    Once it darts in so to speak realy and I mean realy focus on the feeling you are getting.
    Namely the device touching the prostate, you have to focus on that feeling I think someone once said you have to "Go into the feeling" to describe it and I found it to be true.
    Mayfield describes a tickeling sensation in one of his posts.
    I honestly think you need to make sure you are "receiving" the pleasure that is being generated.
    Try sort of labeling the sensations you receive especialy those in the prostate area for now.
    Try naming it or remembering how it feels.
  • ede_1943
    Posts: 23
    i guess i had aneros movement all along but didn't know it, as it doesn't usually feel like movement--i have the first stage, which i name buzzing or tickling, then the second stage, which i call pulsating, which usually feels like small bubbles popping, then there is what i call the movement, which is the darting into me, which doesn't seem to be involved with my prostate but rather with my ass hole--i haven't been able to differentiate where my feelings are located for this action as it happens so fast and is so quickly gone--there is another stage, which feels like the massager is rubbing down the prostate very slowly, kind of like it is slipping out--this feeling is very nice but very subtle and doesn't seem to lead anywhere directly--the feelings i like the most and the ones i try to echo are the pulsating one and the darting one--the pulsating one i can almost control, by that i mean react in such a way that it doesn't overwhelm me and disappear cause of too much contraction, i can keep it going for maybe 15 seconds at a time, but the darting one immediately disappears cause of my immediate response of a tight contraction--this is the reaction i feel i must work on to control more so that i don't chase away the darting movement, but instead reinforce it--does this sound to you as though i am on the right track?--i do try to imagine my prostate and i do see it as engorging and being lightly rubbed, although sometimes it feels like it is in my balls instead of my prostate, which indeed it may be--the buzzing seems to me to be in my ass hole and not my prostate, as does the pulsating
  • TipherethTiphereth
    Posts: 146
    I definitely think you are on the right track...give it more time and dont forget to take some time off from it.
  • ede_1943
    Posts: 23
    wow!--no lack of movement yesterday--i was lying down on my back on a non session day and nodding off after about 1/2 hr when my ass started puckering violently ( i guess it was an anal orgasm)--it felt like my asshole was completely turned inside out very quickly and violently with no gradual buildup or warning--as a consequence i was caught unaware and could not help responding with a very hard contraction, trying to get control of my runaway ass, but i chased it away instead--there were 6 or 7 "volleys", one after the other with no breaks or difference in intensity--they were extremely pleasurable and just what i am looking for but unable to retain when they occur-- if i could just learn to let these things continue so that i could enjoy them i would be a very happy man indeed
  • TipherethTiphereth
    Posts: 146
    Indeed you shall be :P
    It's realy kool when you start to enjoy it more and you will notice this.
    It's like any sensation you get feels awesome and you will learn how to"Let"
    the pleasure continually increase. Occasionally I feel as if I am gonna just "Ignite".
    That is usualy when a super Orgasm occurs for me.
    I found that my frame of mind changed and became very clear after finaly getting so much sexual fullfillment...and all sort of other positive benefits.
    I hope I'v been helpful.
  • ede_1943
    Posts: 23
    OH BABY!!!--wow--what woke me up?--about 2 hours after i went to bed last night i was woken up by wave after wave of p-waves--at first didn't know what i was doing but quickly saw what was happening and tried to prolong the experience--relaxation and letting it take me wherever it wanted was the answer--my prostate was warm then hot!--it stayed hot like that fgor more than 2 hrs as wave after wave of pleasure washed over it--no anal feeling were generated but plenty of prostate pleasure--so far i've had the longest or most intense experiences when awakened from sleep without the aneros inserted--both types of pleasure have come this way--i had those violent asshole convulsions that way too, so i guess it's possible to go all the way without the massager involved--this morning i had small pleasure waves that i could generate with relaxation and breathing by conscious will--this shows a great deal of progress, especially when the previous sessions didn't show much promise--i will still give it a few days off before i use the massager again and i'll bet that things go along without my guidance or help--i seem to get the best results by doing nothing