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  • big_O
    Posts: 44
    I've had the Aneros for several months (the larger of the 2, but without the \"nodules\" or bumps at the end). It has been rather frustrating to take so long and still not experience the multiple orgasms. I've read most of the instructional material here, but it hasn't led to that elusive bigger-O. I have noticed in the last few sessions an increased amount of pleasure from the contractions, but that's it. It doesn't seem to matter if I do very light contractions, medium ones, or hard ones...or if I hold a contraction or don't. Does anyone know if combining push out & pull in contractions (without manipulating the Aneros with the hands) helps lead to the involuntaries everyone is talking about? Has anyone been able to use penile edging techniques (i.e. keeping yourself very neear but not over the ejaculatory point of no return) in combination with the Aneros to induce multiple non ejaculatory penile orgasms?

    On the positive side, I've definitely found that penile orgasms & ejaculations are much more intense with the Aneros inserted, and I now miss it's added \"bonus\" if I don't take the time to use it.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Big_O

    Combining anal (pulling) and rectal (pushing) contractions can indeed be very effective for generating involuntaries and pushing one over the edge as well. That having been said, one can't use this technique exclusively. As a matter of fact, there really isn't anything that one can use exclusively that will trigger a Super O. It normally takes a variety of techniques applied in a certain combination to do the trick. You must discover your body's own recipe for creating this experience. Exploration and experimentation is what will get you there. Be open to all, have fun and above all have patience.

    Edging techniques can be fun for the traditional (penile) orgasm, but in my experience they do nothing other than masking the pathway to the Super O. Go to BEE LINE and check out CAN'T GET AN ERECTION WITH THE ANEROS posted on 7/1/2004, it's about half the way down the page. This is one of many threads where I covered this issue. Does this mean that the Super O is completely unavailable by this method. No. But only to the Advanced user or the rare Newbie who is specifically wired for this technique. In the two years that I've been contributing to this forum I know of only 1 (newbie) user who found this technique effective. In a nutshell it's just too confusing on a sensory level. The penile response is by far the stronger response in it's early stages, so it completely overwhelms the more subtle build up of the non-ejaculatory orgasm (Super O). Furthermore, for most Newbies it is a struggle as it is recognizing new and really different sensations, their tendency is always to gravitate towards the familiar. Avoid penile contact, (unless your goal is the traditional experience) chances are it will save you a great deal of time.

    Be sure to read through BEE LINE thoroughly there's a great deal of information there to help you.

    B Mayfield
  • big_O
    Posts: 44
    B,

    Thanks for the reply. My most recent session was interesting...not sure I had the involuntaries but during part of the session I did feel I _had_ to contract very hard. Sort of like the stimulation from the Aneros was \"demanding\" these hard contractions. After so many months, it looks like things are perhaps starting to happen in a more intense way.
  • big_O
    Posts: 44
    Well, it's been about a month since my first post and things are still improving but still nothing like the results others have had. I saw the guy that \"made it\" first time out of the box which is amazing considering I've had the Aneros for well over 6 months now and am still sruggling along. I have to wonder if some of us are wired enough differently in the prostate/perineum area that the super-O will always be something just out of reach.

    Anyway, things got a lot more pleasurable when I took advice from here and got one of those medicine droppers for applying lube into the anus. I always thought I had plenty of lube, but apparently not enough since I found a big difference in stimulation from the Aneros when putting lube inside. Last time was the best to date and I would say I experienced a few \"mini-Os\" along the way. They weren't nearly as intense as an ejaculatory orgasm but VERY pleasurable. Almost as nice as penile non ejaculatory orgasms I'm sometimes able to experience (without the Aneros), but with no penile contractions and a little less in intensity. I noticed a couple of times a slight tingling away from the anal region during these pleasure waves, but they were very brief and fleeting. I tired after about an hour, but would've liked to keep going to see if anything else happened.
  • big_O
    Posts: 44
    I'm still chasing the elusive super-O. My latest effort was to purchase the volcano pack. The SGX was very nice but seemed a little tame compared to the classic model. I think I will use the SGX for getting \"warmed up\" before inserting the larger classic. I did not use the virbator at all until I was through with the \"regular\" aneros session. Performing contractions with the vibrator on was a great new sensation and led to a terrific ejaculatory orgasm (via penile stimulation). For what it's worth my evaluation of the volcano pack would be: SGX nice,but too mild stimulation for me. The \"classic\" is great and, in my opinion, is even more stimulating than the MGX. The vibrator is a nice variation when you want an explosive \"traditional\" orgasm.
    Well I've certainly spent enough on these anal toys, so now I feel entitled to finally reach the prize : )
  • big_O
    Posts: 44
    My most recent session with the Aneros was my most pleasurable ever. Contractions produced very intense sensations of pleasure at times. I started with the SGX and was surprised what a nice job it was doing in getting the feelings going compared to the first time I used it. Eventually I switched to the classic and things heated up quite a bit. I found if I arched my back a bit by lifting the pelvic area off the bed, a fairly intense series of whole body contractions would begin...starting in my legs,heading up to my torso region, and reaching clear up to my shoulders. This did not escalate into the cascading pleasure waves that I've seen described here, but it was pretty intense nonetheless. At other times, I felt very, very close to some kind of BIG explosion of something (the Super O ?), but never quite got there. I did experience several near orgasm sensations that were VERY nice and certainly mini O's in their own right. So, this is huge progress for me after so many months of disappointing results. For others that are struggling, I'm now only doing 2 things differently than before #1) applying generous pre-lube into the anus, 2-3 5ml applications seem perfect for me...I think this is the biggest factor in my improved results and also #2) I've found the classic to be the most intense Aneros for me, although this may not be true for everyone.

    Well, I've got to rest a day or two before the next session, but I'm certainly looking forward to what it may bring.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Big_O

    Although I'm successful with all of the models, I'll confess that I'm partial to the Classic as well.
    With regard to resting a day or two inbetween sessions, I STRONGLY recommend it. You've got to recharge! It's necessary for building arousal back up, and arousal is an essential element in generating a Super O. FleshJoe (one of our contributing members here in the forum), has taken to routinely spacing his sessions by 4 to 5 days, to great effect I might add. Yes, it does take some discipline and it seems like it prolongs your search, but in reality it can make your exploration much more effective. It establishes a better foundation for achieving the Super O. Don't be dispirited! This all takes some time to develop. In reading through your posts, you certainly have made progress! Try using some visualization as well, you may find it helpful. Think in terms of generating a virtual sensation, that is a sensation that is not localized in the area that you are contracting or working on. For instance, mentally focus on an area deep inside your pelvis and have all of the sensations that come out of the anal, rectal and abdominal contractions feed into it. Try building it..done successfully you may find that it takes on a life of it's own!

    Above all stay with it,.. this will come together for you.

    B Mayfield
  • FleshJoe
    Posts: 115
    Big_O

    Sounds like you *are* getting a lot closer to the super-O goal. You're where I am, right before the gate opens. And thats a very useful mind image. You're straining against a gate that's nearly completely closed and you don't know what's on the other side, can't quite see, except you can smell the garden and all the roses on the other side. Once you cross over, nirvana :)

    The on-the-back position seems to work best for us newbies. I love that. Recently I unintentionally used an on-the-side position (was preparing porn to view on the laptop, LOL) and it was extremely intense, all of a sudden. So my point is, go back to things that didn't work before, now that your body is partially rewired, they may work after all.

    BMayfield and me discussed last night what to do to help me cross over. I'm like you, getting extremely hot and bothered, yet no release. It's like you're right there, waiting for something, your body is anticipating and expectant in a way that reminds you very much of the feeling before the penile orgasm and point-of-no-return, yet somehow you can't quite get there. WHAT TO DO? BMayfield suggested mixing it up at that point, changing something, anything, so that the equilibrium is broken. As he said, I'm on a break and tonight will be my next session, or on Sunday night if I can abstain one more night, and then I'm going to try that suggestion. We'll see.

    BMayfield also mentions an incredibly important point that's unfortunately very hard to grasp for people who haven't experienced the super-O yet. Visualization of the feeling, and of the Aneros touching your penis root from inside, is key. Look inside yourself and visualize the Aneros head rubbing your prostate, try to see in your mind's eye what its doing there and how good it feels. That visualization will make the feelings much more intense. If you have to close your eyes for that to happen, do it. I frankly find it very distracting to view porn or anything visible or moving at that point. I just listen to the audio at that point.

    Even with all those efforts, I still haven't broken through; but that's OK, the journey is half the reward, I am sure. This is so incredibly exciting, discovering that hidden pleasure place deep inside yourself that you've been carrying around with you for all these years, never knowing that it's there, never aware of the potential and the possibilities. Now you *are* aware of these possibilities, and its thanks to the Aneros! Super exciting :)
  • big_O
    Posts: 44
    B Mayfield & FleshJoe,

    Thanks for the comments and suggestions. I'll report in after the next session. Hopefully, the \"door\" will continue creaking, albeit ever so slowly, open for me : )
  • big_O
    Posts: 44
    My last seesion with the Aneros was pretty awesome. Based on the descriptions I've read here, I don't think I experienced the Super-O but I did have sensations that I would say amounted to multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms. I hope my finally arriving at this point will encourage other long time users that are having trouble reaching orgasm with the Aneros, as I've used the Aneros for at least 10 months or so (first the MGX and now the SGX and Classic). Anyway, It seems as if the \"dam\" between me and the Super-O has started to leak quite a bit, but hasn't totally collapsed yet : ). I repeated my procedure from the last few sessions of starting with the SGX to get things going and then switching to the Classic to finish out the session. My orgasms consisted of increasing pleasurable sensations accopanying whatever strength of contractions I was doing...all were pleasurable whether slight, medium, or strong contractions. These pleasure sensations would peak into whole body contractions and then a definite sense of release would follow. I noted an ever increasing penile sensitivity even though only a partial erection accompained the sensations and I was not using any penile stimulation.

    In my hour long session I was able to experience 4 orgasms, and in different positions which was great...on my back, on my back with pelvis raised, on my side with one leg pulled up sharply (as in the Aneros instructions) and also on my stomach. A technique that worked for me in this session was to clench my buttocks very tightly as orgasm approached which seemed to intensify the orgasm. Crossing my legs in the ankle area allowed me to increase the clenching pressure. I also had a very nice orgasm while lifting one buttock cheek with my hand.

    I was quite tired after about an hour of Aneros stimulation so I finished off with an ejaculation which was super intense and I noticed tremendous penile sensitivity when I began stimulating it. Now, I am only hoping that my next session is at least as intense as this last one and heads me further up the path to the full Super-O experience.
  • big_O
    Posts: 44
    Well, I didn't plan on using the Aneros today since my last session was only a little over a day ago, but am I glad I did! I was bored and a little tired from a long day yesterday so I thought I'd try for a little anal pleasuring. I was planning a sort of quickie session so I didn't even bother to pre-lube, just generously lubed up the SGX and inserted. What followed was an hour of ecstasy. My experience may not be quite the same as other users, but I think I finally reached the Super-O zone. I experienced intense,building pleasure that repeatedly peaked and then resolved to a lower level of arousal. In other words multiple orgasms and these were much more intense than what happened last time. It was SO great to be able to ride the orgasmic wave for so long, and easily orgasm again just by doing contractions. Know I have a better understanding of how a woman feels when she has multiple orgasms. The orgasms varied some in intensity but increased as the length of the session increased. I tried a new position and technique for me that produced my most intense anal orgasm so far. I laid on my side (right side in this case), stretched out my legs straight, and then contracted my buttocks slightly and moved my hips just a few inches back & forth like I was gently thrusting into a woman. The sensations from this were just awesome! Throughout the session I never had an erection (FleshJoe: I envy those rock hard ones you've been getting with the Aneros :). Perhaps that's something that will happen later, but believe me I'm OK with more sessions just like today with or without an erection. Over the course of the hour or so I had at least 5 or 6 orgasms and it was just an incredible experience that I hope every man may sometime experience, or at least every man that has an Aneros : ). Another interesting note is that this all happened with the SGX which I only considered as a warm up device to the Classic. The Classic will get its chance to rival this session next time around.

    So, if you're having struggles with the Aneros just keep at it and you will eventually soar to new orgasmic heights. It took me about 10 months to experience this, so don't get discouraged!
  • big_O
    Posts: 44
    Excuse my typo in the last post...when I mentioned women having multiple orgasms it should,of course, read \"Now, I have a better understanding...\"
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Big_O,

    Congratulations! I'm really happy for you. You've had some terrific results, but like I've said in the past, it only gets better so keep on exploring and fun. Also remember that each session is different so your next session has the potential of being less intense, just as intense or more intense. The measure of it all is how you do and how you feel over the next several months..and frankly, from what you've described I think that you'll be delighted.

    It's funny, in reading your comments and those of others who've made it to this stage, there is always one factor that stands out, it's almost a signature event and strangely it's not the description of this or that sensation but what I'd call (for lack of a better term) an altruistic exhuberance that comes over people with regard to sharing the Super O . Seriously, your comments about wanting every man to experience what you have..is a hallmark of this phenomena..it's just such an intense and profound experience that most people want everyone to share in it in some way. Remember that's what participation in this forum can be about. Not that there's any quota here at all. But if you have something relevant to share as time goes on, I would encourage you to do so every now and then.

    Cheers and have fun,

    B Mayfield
  • big_O
    Posts: 44
    Thank you Mr. Mayfield for your support and all the informative posts here. I would certainly like to be of assistance to others here, but I'm not even sure how I arrived at this point or how, in the last 2 months, things escalated from a few nice sensations to multiple, blissful orgasms. It seems the pre-lubing made me aware of what was possible and then it just got more intense with each session.

    Anyway, I'll keep checking in and If I can offer some encouragement here and there I certainly will.

    Well, after what happened Saturday I couldn't wait my usual 2-3 days to try out the Classic and I wasn't disappointed. It was even more intense than the SGX experience from the day before. I had my first orgasm only about 5 mins into the session, and things just got better from there on. What is so great now is it seems I am able to orgasm in just about every position I try. I have not yet tried kneeling or standing, and will do so in a future session. Not sure about standing, my knees might buckle unexpectedly : ) Turns out my most powerful position last night was almost on my stomach, propped up just a bit by bed sheets and then bending one leg so that the ankle crossed the other leg at about the knee. I had 3 super intense orgasms in this position.

    Enjoy everyone & don't give up!
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Big_O,

    I was reading your comments about being able to now get results in almost every position, and I found myself shouting out loud...YES, YES, YES! You see, that was my experience as well. It took one position in particular to enable me to cross-over but once I did it seemed that everything worked for me. For instance the side-lying position, NEVER worked for me prior to becoming Super Orgasmic, but it has since become one of my favorites. It's great, now you have lots of of old places to revisit and many new place to go as well. Again, congratulations!

    Good Luck,

    B Mayfield