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  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    I have a question for those of you who can acheive super O on a regular basis. As far as your sessions go.... does this work for you with a quickie? If you find you have 30 minutes or so of private time, can you have a session and achieve a super O. I am comparing this to what you might do if you were to just masterbate (not using an aneros) Hell, if I had 5 minutes of private time I could jerk off.
    Is this not really the case with the aneros? Do you feel aneros sessions need more planning and preparation, and more time commitment?
    I am still reaching for the super O. It has only be 3 or 4 months, but had my best sessions way back in the beginning, and have struggled to get back to that. At that time, I had the house to myself for a few days with the wife out of town. Since then, I have not had that opportunity. I am wondering if that in itself could be hindering my progress?
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,254
    thhn,

    I don’t know how easy it is for the more experienced guys, but the few Super-O’s I have had (I wouldn’t consider any as being on a regular basis) were all in sessions that were more than 1½ hours in before I got there. For me it can take a long time to get really relaxed enough to “just let go”. I may have mini-O’s 15-20 minutes in but a dry-O or Super-O takes me a long time to get to. If I can’t allow a block of time of two hours to a session, I know there is not much hope of getting to a Super-O, so a “quickie” is out of the question for me.
    Planning is a difficult question to answer as you can plan a session in advance all you want, but if you’re not aroused when that time arrives, you’re SOL and might just as well skip it.
    The preparation aspect is a little easier to deal with because it doesn’t take much to get ready for a session really, just a few minutes is all it takes me.
    The time commitment aspect, coinciding with high arousal levels is very difficult to predict, especially when you also have to work for a living and interact with the family, neighbors and the rest of the unpredictable world around us.
    Your last question about the lack of ‘alone time’, IMHO could certainly hinder your progress. Distractions of any kind, be they time constraint issues or fear of session interruption, will be hindrances.
  • skeeter_gskeeter_g
    Posts: 240
    Hi thhn,

    I don't know that it truly can be called a quickie, but I can achieve a Super-O within probably 5 to 10 minutes, sometimes, even much sooner, but, I usually want more, so I just don't stop the session at that point.

    I don't use much planning to get into using the Aneros, I just say to myself, "do it", I may not even be super horny at that time. Super-O's are addicting, and a quickie usually does not cut it, in terms of what I want to feel.

    I do make sure I have done some preparation before hand, that means; a towel down on the bed, and clean and empty bowels, but that can be relatively fast, it does not take long.

    I can always adjust the time I spend on a session, If I know I have to take care of other business. I have had 1/2 hour sessions for sure, but I do not let the time come to mind, until I have had a few Super-O's already take place.

    I think you may be trying to hard to get some valuable time to yourself, and it is actually inhibiting your progress to get that Super-O. relaxing is very very important, and if you are always thinking of the time, you will more than likely not achieve that elusive Super-O.

    Is your wife open to you using the Aneros? if she is, have her give you a hand, (sorry... had to say it) I believe your wife may really get turned on by you doing something like this.

    I hope this helps.
  • BoPBoP
    Posts: 96
    thhn said:

    I have a question for those of you who can acheive super O on a regular basis. As far as your sessions go.... does this work for you with a quickie? If you find you have 30 minutes or so of private time, can you have a session and achieve a super O. I am comparing this to what you might do if you were to just masterbate (not using an aneros) Hell, if I had 5 minutes of private time I could jerk off.
    Is this not really the case with the aneros? Do you feel aneros sessions need more planning and preparation, and more time commitment?
    I am still reaching for the super O. It has only be 3 or 4 months, but had my best sessions way back in the beginning, and have struggled to get back to that. At that time, I had the house to myself for a few days with the wife out of town. Since then, I have not had that opportunity. I am wondering if that in itself could be hindering my progress?



    Hey thhn.

    Although I can usually have "Super O's" in matter minutes during my session I can not say that every self pleasuring session I have will necessarily include it. I have verity of techniques I practice to have multiple orgasms one of them being aneros and I enjoy them but I also have times when I do not feel the need for long lasting multiple. Sometimes I just orgasm in a "regular" way. I take breaks from extended sessions sometimes they last weeks. I go by my feelings for the most part and if I feel no need to have a long session I will not.
    Taking a break is nothing bad at all but you do not want to force that break by limiting yourself if urge to have a session is there then do not stop it, but it is a bad idea to run a schedule for this. Everything you do should feel good, no force needed.
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    thank you for those quick responses and interesting information.

    I really don't feel like I am forcing myself - somedays having a session is all I can think about. I suppose because I can't seem to get to a super O. it makes me want it all the more. I am finding myself very addicted to this.
    I am a bit surprized to hear that the super O can come very late into a session. I am finding the best feelings for me usually come within a minute or so of inserting the aneros. after the sensations have died down, I will often remove the aneros for a couple of minutes and reinsert it. this usually brings about another wave of nice sensations.
    I have had some long sessions of a few hours, but for me I am finding that the longer I give it, the less that happens. I have dozed off for a few minutes up to an hour, so I feel I am relaxed, but find the longer sessions seem to go nowhere.
    I guess my point is that I seem to be taking advantage of every opportunity to use the aneros, and am not sure if this is helping my progress or not
  • I totally agree with Rumel you need to do Aneros sessions completely alone and knowing full well that there is no chance anyone is coming home to hear you breathe loud or yell out in ecstasy. The only time I got what I believe to be a Super O is when my friend was in the hospital and he lets me hang out over at his place while he's out of town sometimes. So I went there and watched some good porno movies and I was making whatever sounds necessary without fear of interruption or being caught in the act. You probably subconsciously don't want your wife to catch you doing this and you are probably having "stage fright" about it like a guy having erectile difficulties because of performance anxiety (stage fright). I just wish there was a designed building where people could go and have privacy to do their sessions.
  • marmot
    Posts: 80
    thhn,

    Although it takes me about an hour to achieve a Super-O, I can experience less intense dry-orgasms in a few minutes, even without having the Aneros inserted. Initially I learned to do this Aneros-less method through KSMO and meditation. Later I found that if I do anal tightening in the same manner I would do if the Aneros were inside, I tend to get the same results. I often do this just before falling asleep and even sometimes in the night if I'm awake. I've done it while driving but discontinued after I realized it's not a very safe thing to do! "Chair orgasms" are fun and readily available anywhere. My favorites are when I see someone who really turns me on, and the whole process happens spontaneously. I think this type of prostate sensitivity (or re-wiring) develops through regular practice, and if I neglect doing it for a few weeks, a lot of it is lost and has to come back through re-training. I suspect most men have the potential to be multi-orgasmic. The Aneros is a wonderful discovery tool which can lead to fascinating orgasmic realms.

    With respect to your question comparing Super-O's and even mini-O's with Traditional-O's, to me, the dry kind are so much more intensive and pleasurable, they are worth the added preparation, time, and learning.

    Marmot