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Dry orgasms feels like cumming
  • Devo
    Posts: 7
    I felt this the first time two days ago. I was really aroused and did some deep breathing concentrating to my prostate which was tingling already. I don't have Aneros, so I have been doing this for some time along with some nipple play.

    I wanted to try if I could move the tingling feelings from my prostate closer to my penis, so it would led to more traditional type of orgasm, like when cumming. Well, somehow I managed to do that and got an orgasm just like the one when cumming and managed to hold that for a while.

    I wanted to try it again as that was very pleasurable, so I sat down to a toilet and started to do some deep breathing to get that tingling feeling to my prostate. I moved these feelings trough my balls to my penis and there we went again, orgasm after orgasm, it felt just like when cumming and even better, as I managed to get it going on and on. Unfortunately I had to stop, because someone else needed to use the bathroom. Still, the best orgasm ever.

    I'm trying to get to that state as I'm writing right now, but seems like you have to be very aroused and relaxed. Things I noticed in the session before were that trying to imagine and simulate the feeling of cumming just grew my arousal. What I'm trying to explain, is that when cumming the penis is pulsing and you can simulate those reactions the same way when for example holding when urinating. What I also tried at the bathroom sitting on a toilet was putting my penis and balls between my thighs and keep them there pretty tight. I think this kept me more aroused as it simulated a bit the feeling of being inside someone. Actually, I have been thinking what it would be like to get to this state and using a fleslight for example, so the penis would stand tight and warm in a comfortable place. Never used a fleshlight before, but just thinking of it sounds awesome.

    Your thoughts or any tips about this?

    Oh, I have one more question. Do any of you using Aneros find it harder to concentrate on the feelings more on the area of your penis than your anal or prostate when Aneros is inserted? I have tried some anal play with different objects, but it seems the anal is somewhat taking the control and all the feelings are gathered there, maybe I haven't really hitted the prostate nicely yet.
  • Anonicos
    Posts: 57
    When you say "cumming and cumming", how long are you saying there was between each orgasm? Back to back? Seconds apart? Or minutes?
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,196
    devo-

    i tried what you suggest and it worked great!!!!

    i was in super-O land, O-ing and O-ing. then i "moved the tingle" up into my dick and thought what it would feel like to cum and i dry cummed and dry cummed and...

    great hint! thanks.

    darwin
  • Edit
    Posts: 0
    Whoa! I tried it too and had dry ejaculations for nearly two minutes!! What a different sensation as the penis pulsed and the perineum spasmed much like a strong regular ejaculation. A couple of times it spread to other parts of the body. Yet another in a series of adventures fueled by forum suggestions. Thanks guys!
  • FleshJoe
    Posts: 115
    How do you "move the feeling around"???!?!?! That's the part I dont get...
  • Devo
    Posts: 7
    FleshJoe said:

    How do you "move the feeling around"???!?!?! That's the part I dont get...



    Well I don't know the right words to describe this, but I'll try. When you have that tingling feeling on your prostate and breath inwards try to contract the muscle that you use when urinating. Simulate those "pulses" which occur on your penis when you ejaculate, you know? It's like breathing from prostate to your penis. Maybe someone else with better english can shed some light to this, if it's not clear enough yet :P

    Last night I got a reminder how effectively this is all about the mind. I tried for some time to get this type of orgasms going doing the contractions and stuff, but couldn't quite get it, just got some pretty nice "pulsing" feelings on my penis. I decided to let go and just relax, but then my mind wandered to think about ejaculating again and I started to imagine about doing contractions, deep breathing, fucking and stuff. And this led me to an orgasm. So for hour or two of "trying" to get somewhere didn't like really me anywhere, but this did. I don't know if I really did some very minor contractions at the time, but didn't honestly even notice doing them, so this was very nice surprise.

    To the question how many orgasm I got the earlier session and on what timeline I really can't tell. I remember two very strong ones, which made me want to yell and felt just like before ejaculating and the time between was just floating in that orgasmic state which felt like after the ejaculation with different variations. The strong ones were very pleasant, but I wouldn't count the other smaller "orgasms" which I got between those two strong ones really an orgasms. But that doesn't really matter as floating in that orgasmic bliss is just enough to keep you happy. For me at least.

    EDIT: Just had another great session on a toilet. This time I kept my penis very hard between my thighs/calfs, so it almost hurt. I have always thought theres a quite thin line in what hurts and what is pleasurable. One of the things I love about this toilet thing is that sitting that way it gives very nice warm and tingling feelings to my thighs. This just seems to work for me. Maybe also because the bathroom is one of the places where I can relax even if there are people in the house.
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Devo's initial post here really had me intrigued! That is just what I was thinking was missing from my sessions. Even though, I am as close as I have ever been, more on that later. But it was in this last post where he said:

    I remember two very strong ones, which made me want to yell and felt just like before ejaculating and the time between was just floating in that orgasmic state which felt like after the ejaculation with different variations.



    I found that to be very descriptive. Devo mentioned that there might a bit of a language issue here, but initially, his post made me think that what he experienced made him felt like he was actually ejaculating not like just before an ejaculation. Dont get me wrong, the feeling just before is pretty intense, so good for him.

    I am just trying to figure this whole thing out. As soon as I turn a corner, there is something else to learn.

    Buster
  • Devo
    Posts: 7
    Buster said:

    Devo mentioned that there might a bit of a language issue here, but initially, his post made me think that what he experienced made him felt like he was actually ejaculating



    Actually I haven't really paid attention when that most intense feeling starts in an orgasm, so what you wrote is correct. It did feel like I was actually ejaculating.
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Hey Devo,

    Keep posting. I am really getting some good information out of it. The whole process of being able to "sway" the orgasmic center from one spot to another is something that I never considered. I am exploring with it and it is really possible. It takes a bit of trial and error, but what the heck. Thanks for the tip.

    Buster
  • Rodem
    Posts: 18
    I have been enjoying such simulation-inducing orgasms for a while.
    But simulating traditional orgasm sometimes causes real traditional one.
    The best visual stimulation for me is female orgasms with contractions, such as...
    http://images.jackmyhog.com/tfo/20041231/3.mpg
    http://images.jackmyhog.com/tfo/20050106/2.mpg
    http://images.jackmyhog.com/tfo/20050211/2.mpg
    Watching & synchronizing with them takes me there! :D