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few months further, few toys more and still no success.
  • jstrjstr
    Posts: 23
    Last time i was busy with the maximus. I got to this climax... or shall i say anti climax (my legs went numb at the "point" of orgasm) and it didn't feel good at all.

    anyway i figured maybe the maximus was to big so i got a helix mgx... which felt a bit strange. Was nice at one point. In any case in the end i'm feeling the nice feelings (waves if you will). But they are just staying there shortly and they jsut don't build up to anything more than that. I'm just missing something entirely i think. I'm not even trying to get an orgasm. I fell a sleep a couple of times. I sit on a couch and relax. Tried pretty much everything, but i just don't get more then those nice arousal waves... which at this point are getting really annoying (like needing to get off rather than pleasurable).


    what am i missing here? (except for enjoying the journey stuff).
  • Maybe the "needing to get off" feeling comes from too much tension building up in the penis. I had my first super-o when I did my session 15-20 minutes after masturbating and having a traditional orgasm. I guess it let me relax more, and dampened the need for release
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 740
    @jstr --- Most folks are either laying on their back or on their sides...read the Wiki for various position recommendations! Are you able to relax enough to focus on the sensations if you are sitting up? I'm typically flat on my bed, quiet, darkened room, and clearing my mind during my sessions! If you find yourself thinking about work or other stresses, you'll likely not be as successful! This is a form of focused meditation and the biggest benefits IMHO are obtained as you become better at relaxing and clearing your mind of daily issues!

    TG
  • jstrjstr
    Posts: 23
    Pandabear said:

    Maybe the "needing to get off" feeling comes from too much tension building up in the penis. I had my first super-o when I did my session 15-20 minutes after masturbating and having a traditional orgasm. I guess it let me relax more, and dampened the need for release



    oh this needing to get off feeling really comes from the prostate not the penis.
  • jstrjstr
    Posts: 23

    @jstr --- Most folks are either laying on their back or on their sides...read the Wiki for various position recommendations! Are you able to relax enough to focus on the sensations if you are sitting up? I'm typically flat on my bed, quiet, darkened room, and clearing my mind during my sessions! If you find yourself thinking about work or other stresses, you'll likely not be as successful! This is a form of focused meditation and the biggest benefits IMHO are obtained as you become better at relaxing and clearing your mind of daily issues!

    TG



    trust me. I tried it all this last half year. Back, bellly, side. Sitting on the chair is just one of the other positions i tried. 

    And I'm very relaxed. I often am so relaxed i wake up the next morning with the aneros still up my bum.
  • You just need some subtle hip movements to tickle your prostate, once that starts, clench like your holding a large BM, works for me just about everytime