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Ejaculation Prior to Use?
  • I've been using the Aneros for awhile now, and I always get to the point of getting so horny that I feel like I have to masturbate.  Which seems to end the session.  If I ejaculate, though, does that mean that I should give up?  I often get frustrated and do.
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,135
    ejaculating before a session may reduce your libido and hence not make it very exciting but you can try and see.  As for abstaining, my advice would be to just tell yourself before a session, no matter what you will not masturbate and just stick to it.  I know its hard, but the rewards will be much greater in the end.  
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 981
    I suffer the same issue, the session makes me very horny and I get so close, so very very close to 'something' but not get there, just left with super hornyness that is too hard not to masturbate
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 741
    FWIW...The only reason I abstained (past tense) from ejaculating during my early rewiring period, was so that I had the extra energy available to support the length of sessions I desired, either shorter or longer.

    I believe it helped me learn faster, as my journey was just starting.

    I'm not bragging, only suggesting how your experience may evolve, using myself as only one example...because, after a three hour blissful orgasmic state yesterday morning, I was soooo horny that I ejaculated twice in 15 minutes starting only 30 minutes after the end of my Aneros session. And, this morning, I had one of my best Aneros sessions, even after yesterday's double ejaculation! My point is, all things being equal, once you reach a certain level of rewiring / skill / awareness it MAY not matter AS MUCH how frequently you ejaculate!

    TG
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,135
    @inhope, spell check again  :P

    @Theme_Gasm, you are bragging lol, but its ok.  I would too if I were having all the success's you were having 
    ;)
  • Alex_xxxAlex_xxx
    Posts: 550
    Only once have I had an superO directly after ejac. Never happened again. SuperOs for me now only come on the third or fourth day after ejac. Aneros sessions before 3./4.th day only tend to be buildips to the super.
  • TreiTrei
    Posts: 246
    @Slipstream In my experience aneros pleasure doesn't seem to be fuelled by libido horniness  even though libido can make you hungry for a session.

    I often ejac 30 min, to an hour before sessions and even though i'm not horny alot of the time the p~waves will flow as it seems p~waves are not powered by libido horniness like the male penis is.

    The p~waves will often make me horny so it can be argued that the p~waves power the libido horniness and "not" vice versa with the horniness powering the p~wave as you suggested.

    The above can be observed by those claiming that aneros use has cured there erectile dysfunction and from normal users that claim aneros use gives them raging boners or super-e's (e=erection).

    Tre' @};-
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 741
    @Trei --- As we're often reminded, our journey's can and do evolve! My p-waves significantly influence my arousal! It didn't start out that way at all! That's one of the most intriguing and exciting things for me is how things evolve!

    TG
  • JaxsunJaxsun
    Posts: 69
    I prefer to reserve my ejaculations for post-session horniness should those feelings be particularly intense after the session. For me ejaculation does not seem to inhibit the pleasure sensations and ability to Super-O when a session follows a few hours later. For example, post Peridise session ejaculation 12:00AM, follow-up MGX session 5AM that progresses wonderfully to Super-O land. Like others have shared, I like to go a couple of days between sessions and avoid ejaculations to help build desire for the next session. :)>-
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008
    @Jaxsun,
    I know I shouldn't express envy but I can't help feeling my age as I read your post.

    You are obviously a lot younger than I am, which makes me a little sad that I wasn't around to learn about all this fifty years ago!

    Good luck to you and enjoy the blessings your body has to offer!
  • JaxsunJaxsun
    Posts: 69
    Pommie, thanks for your kind and caring comments. I've been using Peridise, Tempo and MGX Classic for about 10 months now...I've lurked in the background here till now, benefitting immensely from the wealth of experience and unselfish support that many, like you offer. I guess I recently thought maybe It might be time for me to help others as well with some of my relatively recent successes.

    I am not that young physically, 65 yrs. old, however the mind still thinks in many ways as it has in the past when I was a younger man.(one of the reasons I began the journey in the 1st place).

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience with us all...I always look for your comments because they have helped me along specifically. All the best to you my friend.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 981
    pommie: don't worry i started this journey when i was 24 and the aneros wouldn't work for me back then you needed the widow of age to understand the proper use of the devices. Now at 33 nearly I'm getting somewhere with the devices and its taken me THAT long to get there.
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008
    @Jaxsun,
    Very many thanks, kind Sir!
    It is nice to know that some of my thoughts can be of help to someone.

    @inhope, it is also great to know that you are making progress AT LAST!
  • DarkEngineDarkEngine
    Posts: 173
    Ejaculating beforehand can be beneficial in some cases - it's essentially if and how much sexual energy is blown on it. I'm usually struck with guilt/regret during the following refractory period, but after about 4-6 hours my arousal jumps back to nearly the same height as before.

    I typically end my sessions ejaculating nowadays anyway. It stops me being on edge, and takes me back to reality.
  • Ejaculating beforehand can be beneficial in some cases - it's essentially if and how much sexual energy is blown on it. I'm usually struck with guilt/regret during the following refractory period, but after about 4-6 hours my arousal jumps back to nearly the same height as before.




    That makes alot of sense. get one off, then wait several hours. It should make you more patient in your session and hopefully not be in need of a typical O
  • second orgasm takes longer and better for our partner. My staying time 2nd go is 20-30 minutes enough time for her to get 2-3 orgasms. Even get a hand or more on the first one, someday pegged first but hasn't happened same day, we can all hope
  • HopefulMMOerHopefulMMOer
    Posts: 390
    @DarkEngine - With you but would love more consistency! As in one, yes, I pretty much can't help but to ejac after a successful session. And sometimes I think that if I didn't ejac within a day prior to a session, it won't be as good. That is to say I've sometimes had VERY good sessions having gone wet a day or sometimes only a few hours before. But I can't say for sure doing that is the key to success, for me anyway.

    @MostInteresting1 - That might be the case for myself and many of us, though as I recall a lot of the advice dissuades us from that. Haven't been around the wiki lately but would love more research \ thoughts \ advice on going wet within a few hours to a day before a session and seeing how that does.