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It finally happened.
  • drstrangedrstrange
    Posts: 28

    Hi all, Just a quick note on what happened to me last week and hopefully I can help others. I began reading about this subject some months ago and became very interested, especially after viewing several videos of men throwing themselves around in ecstasy. So, this April saw the arrival of my first massager, after a few days reading of 'how to,s' and instructions I decided to give it a go. I'm 51 years old and have been happily married for 22 years by the way. So after douching and lubing, in it went. After about an hour I gave up after feeling nothing. A week later I tried again, this time I tried watching porn hoping it would get me horny and start me off again nothing apart from the odd nice sensation. I had several sessions like this but then last week something happened. I did the usual preparation and then popped it in but this time I walked about and wiggled my hips whist slowly contracting and relaxing my sphincter muscle this helped my locate the nice spot on my prostate. I then tried laying down, kneeling, bending over etc. but not getting the results I expected, I then sat on a hard wooden chair and It felt so different to before. I found that If I leaned to the right and lifted my left buttock it felt good so I then began contracting and relaxing my sphincter muscle really slowly, but at the same time I was contracting my P- Muscle too. So after a bit of practice I managed to keep the P-muscle relaxed and just use the sphincter muscle. This to me was my biggest discovery, so I just sat there for a while doing these slow gentle contractions. It then began, a certain area became super sensitive and I closed my eyes and I started panting and twitching for a few seconds and then it faded away. Feeling like I was getting somewhere I had a walk around and then decided to try again which gave a very similar result. After another rest I had another try, this time when I reached the point where my prostate had an area of sensitivity I slowed right down and gently focused on that spot, the feeling started to grow and with my eyes closed I started seeing what I was doing as an separate entity in itself, stretching and pressing. The sensitive area seemed to move around and I was chasing it with the massager by slightly contracting and relaxing, by this time I was panting, shaking, twitching and moaning, It would then start to subside so I tried to gently contract and held and it began again, I managed to do this over and over again for about five minutes, maybe more, Then gradually they got less and less then as I slowly relaxed, every time my sphincter was almost fully relaxed It started up again but only small, they got less and less and my breathing slowed down, I opened my eyes and looked around and thought what the hell just happened. I felt like I had had a religious experience, definitely euphoric, and very pleased with myself. I have had a few sessions since and each time it begins with small ones and then I get the big one. To me the two big changes that helped me was sitting on a dining chair at a table and just using the sphincter muscle to draw the massager in, I find that using the P-muscle at this point  is too aggressive, when the prostate is ready the P-muscle kicks in on its own anyway. I might add that I didn't get an erection or ejaculate at any time, just precum.

    I hope this may help anyone out who is getting frustrated..........I know I was. do not focus on getting horny.

     

  • key words in that story --> slowly, gently, relaxed, slightly, rest, gradually

    congratulations!
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 981
    Actually.... Be careful this sort of this hurt my prostate I'm the early days. GENTLE.
  • drstrangedrstrange
    Posts: 28
    Always gentle and slow, it is the only way to make things happen.
  • euphemisticeuphemistic
    Posts: 772
    Your description of what you did, drstrange, sounds like your mind discovered where your prostate is bt following the pleasure. And then it learned how to use your muscles to massage it with the device using visualization. Nice trick! BTW Dr. Strange was one of my favorite comic book heros. This is a feat worthy of Dr Strange :)>-
  • drstrangedrstrange
    Posts: 28

    Your description of what you did, drstrange, sounds like your mind discovered where your prostate is bt following the pleasure. And then it learned how to use your muscles to massage it with the device using visualization. Nice trick! BTW Dr. Strange was one of my favorite comic book heros. This is a feat worthy of Dr Strange :)>-



    Thanks for that, Dr. Strange was pretty cool too.
  • drstrangedrstrange
    Posts: 28
    Hi again, I just thought I would add some more to my story.

    After it finally happened for the first time I felt fantastic and wanted tell someone about what I had just experienced but I was home alone, so as soon as I met my wife which was a few hours later I told her all about it (we were actually in Tesco's at the time). She was very intrigued and asked lots of questions as well as constantly asking me too keep my voice down, In my excitement I kept forgetting where we were. Anyway to top it all she asked if I would show her next time, I agreed. A few days passed and nothing was mentioned about it again, I have a teenage daughter at home so we had to wait for the right time. On the Sunday night my daughter went out for the evening and was spending the night at her grandparents, So I got a shower early and had a shave and then went downstairs, as I walked into the room my wife was looking at my hands, 'where is it' she said, 'where's what' came my reply, 'the thingy', she said, 'upstairs' said I, 'go and get it then' she said, so I did.
    I turned around went back upstairs, had a quick douche, grabbed the 'thingy' and some lube and went back downstairs. So I lubed up, bent over and she popped it in for me and we then both sat down opposite each other at the dining table. After having a laugh about it together for a while I then explained that I had only managed to do this alone I didn't know if her presence would have any effect, and that I had only got to the euphoric state twice before, The thing I emphasized most of all was that she must not laugh or talk to me. We had a cigarette and I began to relax leaning to the right again with my left buttock off the chair I began my contractions, slowly and gently concentrating on just my anal muscles, not my p-muscle. I closed my eyes still doing the slow contraction, and after a few minutes I could feel the change, I let out an involuntary MMMMMMMMMMMM and started to shake, twitch and pant, but It peaked and faded within 30 seconds. Knowing that I always have small ones first I got up out of the chair and walked around the room wiggling my hips and doing slow anal contractions at the same time, this kind of gets me warmed up. I then sat down again and did the same as before. After few minutes it started again, I was in ecstasy and because I had my eyes shut I had gone into my other world and forgot that she was sat in font of me. My anal muscles had taken over, placing the device in the places it needed. I was shaking, twitching and panting constantly and then after a few minutes it slowed down and my anal muscles started to relax gradually but not completely and then hold the contraction in one place, I then found that if I increased the contraction ever so slightly it would start again, This happened several times and then the it started to subside but each time my anal muscles were about to relax completely it would start my body twitching again for short periods each time getting less and less till finally I relaxed completely and got my breath back and let out a long slow satisfied sigh and opened my eyes to see my wife sat there with a lovely smile on her face. I asked her what she thought, "that was weird" she replied and we both laughed. She said that it lasted a good five minutes. Again I did not get an erection or ejaculate only precum. Anyway she then laid me on my back, knelt between my legs and gave me a mind blowing blowjob whilst gently rocking the device back and forth until I came, What a night that was, heaven.
    Being new to this I have not used any of the terms associated with this practice such as 'Mini O's', 'super  O's etc because I don't know what I'm actually experiencing here. Can anyone enlighten me, are the small ones before the big one 'mini O's?, and is the big one a 'super O'? I'm not entirely sure, I guess the last one with the blowjob was a 'super T'. Please tell me what you think.

  • Great story @drstrange . check out my AnerosCouple blog for some fun couple ideas. the blowjob came too quick :) she could have teased you into some pretty awesome super-O's for another 30 minutes to an hour before climaxing! so happy for you and your wife! You have many more adventures ahead of you!

    the O's are all waves of pleasure, the mini-o's come in waves and build to a super-o's that leaves you feeling satiated like a traditional O, but leaves you ready for more if you want, instead of leaving you ready for a nap! :)
  • drstrangedrstrange
    Posts: 28

    Great story @drstrange . check out my AnerosCouple blog for some fun couple ideas. the blowjob came too quick :) she could have teased you into some pretty awesome super-O's for another 30 minutes to an hour before climaxing! so happy for you and your wife! You have many more adventures ahead of you!


    the O's are all waves of pleasure, the mini-o's come in waves and build to a super-o's that leaves you feeling satiated like a traditional O, but leaves you ready for more if you want, instead of leaving you ready for a nap! :)


    Thanks for that, there's so much to explore.

    After the big one I never feel like I do after a traditional O. I could rest and start again over and over again.
  • drstrangedrstrange
    Posts: 28
    Hi again, This is my take on this. To me it's like when you have an itch on your back that you can't reach so you ask someone to scratch it for you, they don't know exactly where the itch is so normally they will scratch in the wrong place, then you have to give them verbal directions, when they find the right spot it gives you pleasure but then another part of your back that was okay before starts to itch so you direct them to that one, then another place starts to itch, each time they hit the right spot it gives you pleasure. So, in my mind the prostate is the itching back and the anal muscles are the person doing the itching and the device is their fingers. The prostate knows where the itch is but the anal muscles don't, so the prostate uses the anal muscles to place the device where it needs it most, then when it wants a different area stimulated, like the itch, the anal muscles have to be told where to move the device to next.
  • euphemisticeuphemistic
    Posts: 772
    Brilliant analogy, drstrange!
  • The eupho syn is agile enough for me to request it to switch sides of the prostate, relax, and feel it go without any effort. Now that you have a feeling for what can happen, I suggest you might try just inserting, lying down in a comfortable position, relaxing, and letting it work it's will on you. Maybe listen to some smooth jazz or watch some gentle loving porn. Personally, I start getting involuntary anal twitches fairly soon. Sitting on it seems a bit painful to me and might restrict the movement of the aneros.

    I can usually find something free, sweet, and gentle by searching for lovers on xvideos.com.
  • Congratulations, you have a lot of ecstasy coming your way.


  • Thanks for that, there's so much to explore.

    After the big one I never feel like I do after a traditional O. I could rest and start again over and over again.





    The ejaculation releases a blast of endorphins that zonk you out. The dry orgasms don't do that.
  • None of the Aneros devices work for me if I sit on them, and believe me, I've tried! :) It's when they start moving on their on, "hands free" that miracles start happening!
  • drstrangedrstrange
    Posts: 28
    I'm not actually sitting on it, I lean to my right and raise my left buttock off the chair so that my sphincter is stretched slightly.