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A better understanding of the aneros experience
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,081
    This thread goes out to all those stuck for years getting nowhere like myself. Don't give up hope.

    I've come to realise that there is a two fold process in this experience/journey that i hadn't realised. I think 'rewiring' is the wrong term to describe the experience of this journey, it is far too broad it is only half of the process, for me there are two things happening:

    1. Rewiring - Mental. Happens in the brain
    2. Awakening - Physical. Happens the body

    Rewiring is the process that the mind can accept and possibly manipulate the aneros device and feedback in the prostate that it produces.

    Awakening is the process of the nerves in the prostate becoming more aware through stimulation. This may explain why i wasn't satisfied with the explanation of why one person would have the same sort of session as i would but would get orgasms and i would not. What i believe is different is that the nerves being more receptive to stimulation and sensitivity in the person experiencing orgasms.

    The nerves are gradually awoken, which then goes in tandem with mental rewiring as well. I still have yet to experience a dry o or super o but each session is different and I'm feeling something more each time.

    I also have found something interesting. My Super erections are NOT mentally controlled, no matter what i am doing, or where my focus is, its a PHYSICAL reaction, like i said it was all along. There is stimulation and then there is reaction, i then become MENTALLY aware of this and my attention is drawn away from the true path. I have, i think, found a solution! if when this happens i begin to become super erect if i push out, i think 'reverse legal' might be correct it stops the erection, or rather stops me noticing the nerves/sensation building and in most case the erection subsides.

    I will keep going with this no matter what, though i still feel some disdain at not experiencing even a small dry O, yet i feel so much already in my sessions. The way my mind works is that I need a frame of reference, once i know what I'm going for it becomes clear to me and i can achieve what i need to achieve.

    All that being said there should be a venting thread to bitch and moan when frustration gets the better of you, where else can you do that? nowhere, so i think it should have its own sticky somewhere, were only human afterall!


  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 832
    @inhope, that is really good and I think you are helping me (and hopefully others) clarify the process. My key nerves have not really responded yet, and I can easily feel frustrated. I also think that those who have got near the top of the mountain somehow forget the process as they bask in the bliss. So it is good to be in company with others on the way.
  • forum_jediforum_jedi
    Posts: 66
    It's been over four years for me and no dry or super o; my nerves must really be asleep.

    I still love my sessions though. The feelings are amazing even if the don't create orgasms.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,081
    What do you feel in your sessions @forum_Jedi? Can you describe what you experience?

    My sessions it get good feelings and it's lovely but I feel there is a wall of some kind I cannot get beyond to orgasm. I wonder if this is the maximum I can ever feel, just on the 'edge' of orgasm...

    I am experiencing really intense pleasurable sessions with lots of prostate throbbing and warmth to the point where I almost cannot bear it but still no orgasm which I am puzzled at? Nerves are very responsive .....hmm
  • inhope said:

    What do you feel in your sessions forum Jedi? Can you describe what you experience?

    My sessions it get good feelings and it's lovely but I feel there is a wall of some kind I cannot get beyond to orgasm. I wonder if this is the maximum I can ever feel, just on the 'edge' of orgasm...



    The initial sensations are not unlike what you feel when experiencing positive g's on a roller coaster. Kind of a tickle behind your stomach, that is your prostate saying hello! My heart then starts beating faster and my breathing starts to increase. Try to concentrate on that tickle feeling and attempt the move the Aneros up and down that area with some small slow contractions, my ears may start ringing by this point. At this point, just about all the muscles in your body will start to tense up, they will build, then you are on your way to a super-o. At this point sometimes you can do nothing, and just the head of the Aneros sitting on your prostate will take care of business, or continue with very small slow contractions...

    I was feeling on the edge with the Helix Syn, got a Progasm Jr with plenty of lube, and wham-o! The Tempo also worked for me!
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,081
    Your experience does not reflect mine (or many others) mostintersting, you need to be careful when posting your experiences as if I or others 'should' feel thus or 'expect' that. I was asking @forum_jedi because his are closer to my experiences and his information will reflect mine better! more progress can be understood.

    For example I have a session yesterday where I immediately felt a wonderful baseline level of pleasure however this baseline level of pleasure continued for maybe two hours but did not increase or go beyond what it was, I did not orgasm, though it constantly felt like I was going to, sometimes it would spike but it felt like my prostate would explode physically it was that engorged, it felt like it hit a limit It cannot get over.

    I'm finding it hard to realise how it can orgasm, the wat my prostate swells and for Throbs and is amazing yet it is still just not there, it's orgasmic but not an 'orgasm' I'm ready for it but it won't cum? I've hit a wall of sorts.

    The pleasure was lovely last session but I got bored eventually after hours of it, like I'm 'used' to it
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008
    @inhope,
    With the greatest respect, I do believe that @MostInteresting1 still does have the right to describe his experiences exactly as he feels them.

    I think this just goes to show how widely the spectrum of people's individual experiences can vary, his on one hand and yours on the other.
  • AneRicoAneRico
    Posts: 309
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  • forum_jediforum_jedi
    Posts: 66
    inhope said:

    What do you feel in your sessions @forum_Jedi? Can you describe what you experience?

    My sessions it get good feelings and it's lovely but I feel there is a wall of some kind I cannot get beyond to orgasm. I wonder if this is the maximum I can ever feel, just on the 'edge' of orgasm...

    I am experiencing really intense pleasurable sessions with lots of prostate throbbing and warmth to the point where I almost cannot bear it but still no orgasm which I am puzzled at? Nerves are very responsive .....hmm



    Your description is pretty close to what I feel. I definitely feel like I am on the edge of orgasm, even though some people on the forum insist there is no edge. I have described this feeling in the past as circling the drain.

    I can feel the device pressing on the prostate, sometimes softly and sometimes the auto contractions will pull hard and lock it into place. Other times the "auto-fuck" action will take over.

    I've had sessions with muscle shakes, spasms, and whole body contractions. I've felt the heat burning in the prostate and moving up and out of my penis.

    I've basically felt everything that is described in the wiki except orgasm (although I have had a few HFWO in the past when going through the violent shakes phase).

  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,081
    Interesting, seems were at the same impasse here!

    'Circling the drain' I've heard many times before here, how did those that are at this point progress? thats what we need some input from those that have been here before. Will it just happen one day for us? or is there something active we need to be doing?

    Anyone?
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,147
    @inhope, I know this seems like an oxymoron because we all use the aneros to gain prostate orgasms, but you will only truly reach the devices full potential when you drop the expectations during your sessions.  I read your posts and they are full of expectations!!  Just enjoy what you are getting and do not worry so much about hitting a wall or going over the wall or going down the drain.  Your trying to exert control over the situation and only when you have none(control) will things progress.  You need to fully submit to the device and where it will take you!
  • forum_jediforum_jedi
    Posts: 66
    This seems like great advice, and t is how I approach my sessions for the most part. However, there are many posters who reach the legendary super O through conscious contractions, so there seems to be multiple paths to the promised land.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,081
    @pommie @anerico of course he does but i wasn't asking him! I was asking forum_jedi. If the oth guy wants to detail his experience, not what my thread was intended for, then yet could be posted in a different theread.

    @ineverknew while i agree in some small way i have to disagree as well, a good deal more. The only expectation in any session i now have is that i relax and feel something, which i achieve in nearly all my sessions now. I ask no more than this.

    The last session i had i felt really lovely warm, orgasmic feelings for 2 hours straight, but to be honest... i got bored! Its also strange to say this as well but being in that state for prolonged periods is almost tortuous, knowing that there IS something more beyond this but can't quite get to it makes it difficult and while not frustrating anymore,i am thankful now for what i feel though i would like to progress.

    'Circling the drain' is a really, really accurate way to describe where I and forum_jedi are. The only thing i really need to ask anyone that has been 'here' is this; do i just carry on as i am doing, in the hope that it will suddenly convert to orgasm? if so... fair enough!

    So i say again, expectation is removed (as is all control, i just do nothing and let the device(s) find their way and see what it brings), relaxing is achieved (whilst i have soothing music on) and feelings are felt. My mind, my body and my soul are ready for the next level.

    @forum_jedi i only contract when things start to go...meh or when I'm feeling lots of things and i want to increase such feelings, but yes lots of ways there but you and i seem to be at a crossroads of sorts, or a barrier or a wall, whatever you want to call it.
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,147
    @inhope, good plan!
  • TickleTickle
    Posts: 31
    Everybody's mind/nerves/body is different, everyone's experience is different. I don't think you can ask others to say what will happen at a certain period for you as they can't possibly know as is also true for themselves. The process is different for everyone, there is no blueprint, I wish there was and we could all follow a set path. The path to the Super O can have many variations and not necessarily as that laid out in the Wiki, some might experience later stages as earlier stages or even lucky enough to reach a Super O on the first go. The Super O to me still does not exist as I havn't experienced anything that even gets close to some of the descriptions of it on this forum. If I ever experience what I believe to be one then I will believe that the phenomenon can be reached and achieved, not that I'm trying to achieve it as this makes it a goal orientated thing which I believe personally to be detrimental to the whole experience.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,081
    I agree @tickle that everyone is different but I'm convinced that there are a few types of individual that I've noticed, perhaps three distinct ones I've noticed over the years. Forum_jedi is one type that is like me! as is Mattp and others too.

    @ineverknew what's a good plan sorry?
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,147
    inhope said:



    So i say again, expectation is removed (as is all control, i just do nothing and let the device(s) find their way and see what it brings), relaxing is achieved (whilst i have soothing music on) and feelings are felt. My mind, my body and my soul are ready for the next level.


    @inhope, that  ;)
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,081
    Ah right! Though this has been what I've been doing for some time now, but cheers!