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Blue ball syndrome and non-orgasmic ejaculations
  • LinumLinum
    Posts: 227
    I love to edge, and I also practice temporary ejaculatory abstinence.  Even, if I don't edge, I find I can get REALLY excited after a period of days of multi-orgasmic activities, and there is a danger of blue ball syndrome, or "backing up".

    I find that if I let myself go completely flaccid, go and make myself some tea or something, and then come back to masturbation later (say 15 minutes to several hours later) - I try not to get too excited, and just wank myself, breathing deeply, and relaxing.  As I get harder, I get a sense of being about to pee.  If I follow that, and stop masturbating when there appears to be a flow - I can ejaculate (without orgasm) - 2 or 3 long shots.  I shoot further than I usually do for a wet orgasm, and it consists of a LOT of precum or similar.

    This is actually more pleasurable than it might sound, plus there is an instant release from all that pressure, and if you are so inclined you will still be horny and you can have fun eating it - lol  I find that my ability to dry orgasm SUDDENLY increases after such non-orgasmic ejaculations.  I am suspicious that this backing up of fluids can suppress multi-orgasmic responses (not eliminate them entirely).

    Since there is no refractory period, there is no loss of sexual energy.

    Thanks to Canacan for inspiring this thread.
  • TreiTrei
    Posts: 246
    @Linum I may be mistaken but i believe what you are experiencing is called "male squirting" the way you describe it is spot on with the descriptions I’ve heard of it.

    As for the pressure or ejaculate blocking sensations i "completely" agree that this may be the case. Before my abstinence i found that I’d always get bodily p~waves after ejaculations and while on my abstinence my sensations hit a new low, even in my aneros sessions.

    Last week i had a wet dream (which ended my month long no ejaculation spree) and what i experienced boggled my mind. I had my first nipple orgasm, my first throat orgasms, p~waves firing all over the place e.t.c i even had a weird sensation where it felt as if i was sucking energy from the air through my fingertips with each of my breathes. And all of this was "involuntary" as I tried in a futile effort to halt the sensations.

    "But" here is the kicker, I cannot remember if these events took place after my wet dream or before. Also not sure if this phenomena resulted from the act of abstaining.
  • ChiManChiMan
    Posts: 29
    Trei said:

    @Linum I may be mistaken but i believe what you are experiencing is called "male squirting" the way you describe it is spot on with the descriptions I’ve heard of it.

    As for the pressure or ejaculate blocking sensations i "completely" agree that this may be the case. Before my abstinence i found that I’d always get bodily p~waves after ejaculations and while on my abstinence my sensations hit a new low, even in my aneros sessions.

    Last week i had a wet dream (which ended my month long no ejaculation spree) and what i experienced boggled my mind. I had my first nipple orgasm, my first throat orgasms, p~waves firing all over the place e.t.c i even had a weird sensation where it felt as if i was sucking energy from the air through my fingertips with each of my breathes. And all of this was "involuntary" as I tried in a futile effort to halt the sensations.

    "But" here is the kicker, I cannot remember if these events took place after my wet dream or before. Also not sure if this phenomena resulted from the act of abstaining.



    Hi
       I read a lot about wet dreams on this site. I have never had one in my whole life, and would love to I think it may be due to years of viewing Porno which I have stopped as an experiment I am trying to use my imagination instead maybe that will trigger a wet dream. I have also had a lot of issues with erectile dysfunction that seems to be getting better as I view less smut. 

    Kudos to all that have wet dreams I would love to join the club. Any hints or help would be greatly appreciated 

  • MattpMattp
    Posts: 87
    @chiman, how long is your entire life?
  • ChiManChiMan
    Posts: 29
    Mattp said:

    @chiman, how long is your entire life?   Late 40s



  • ChiManChiMan
    Posts: 29
    Never had one came close had some erotic dreams when I was in my teens but nothing wet when I woke up. 

    Not sure if I am alone in this. 
  • LinumLinum
    Posts: 227
    @Trei - thanks for your thoughtful comments.  I had seen a thread on here about male squirting, but to my shame, I didn't look at it.

    I have to say that I quite enjoy them.  I am on day 11 of abstinence, and enjoying that too.  Getting a sense that I am moving towards orgasm without even trying, and had a whole series of dry orgasms as I awoke this morning - I did nothing to promote them, other than enjoying those wonderful sensations.

    I find that "squirting" has made it possible to abstain for longer, but I only resort to it when I feel there is a distinct build up of pressure.  I am not sure I could induce them without that pressure any way?
  • TreiTrei
    Posts: 246
    @ChiMan & @Mattp No disrespect but you guys are off-topic and hijacking Linums thread. It would be good to start your own threads on the topic of wet dreams or read archives. (@ChiMan sent you a pm)
  • jack38jack38
    Posts: 35
    I had a different experience that happened sometime during the first 3 or 4 months of rewiring with Aneros. At the time, I had been making it a point not to masturbate to orgasm in an effort to enhance the Aneros experience.  In the meantime, I was using the Aneros 3-6 times per week for 1-2 hours at a time ... generally enjoying it alot but no Super-Os yet at that point in my journey.  So one evening after a session, I had taken the dogs out, and when we came back inside I noticed that my underwear felt really wet.  I had ejaculated when we were outside and didn't even know it - no hardon or feeling of orgasm at all, but after nearly 3 weeks I guess my body decided I was overdue and spontaneously milked itself.  I haven't had this happen again, but it sure was a big surprise at the time.  

  • LinumLinum
    Posts: 227
    @jack38 - that is fascinating.  That hasn't happened to me as yet.  I suspect there are enough differences in our physiological make up to account for these different experiences.

    Do you ever get blue ball syndrome, or a sensing of fluids backing up?

    @Trei - thanks.