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  • jstrjstr
    Posts: 23
    I'm not having much success with the aneroa. However with a drumstick I was able to get
    Alot more respond. An itchy feeling that needs to be scratch. Extreme anxiety/adrenaline rush, waves of pleasure, racing heart. But I'm not able to get to the super-o.
    Also psychologically something strange happened. I was watching porn and my point of view changed from the man to the women. Feeling like 'a bitch in heat needing a pounding). I'm not gay or bi so this
    Is a very strange feeling for me.

    The sessions just don't give me more than
    2 or 3 sometimes 4 waves and
    it leaves me extremely unsatisfied. Like its

    An almost orgasm and you just need to get off.

    What can I do to progress more? First time was btw with
    Alot of muscle power. Which is not something I can maintain for
    A long time (I.e. Holding the drumstick in the right position and contracting your ass
    Is difficult at bed).

    Is there anything I'm missing. Is this the feeling and how can I progress to a full body wave and freeling satisfied.. Because the is more frustrating than nice
  • jstrjstr
    Posts: 23
    Sorry this is written from a phone.
  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 1,009
    @jstr, you are giving us no information. The following might be helpful.
    How long have you be using an Aneros
    What models do you have.
    How long are your sessions
    Are you able to relax and let go a bit
    How would you assess your expectations
    Have you read the wiki
  • jstrjstr
    Posts: 23
    I have a maximus classic... My sessions are about 1 hour. I've been using it for 4 months now I think. And I've not come even close to the feeling I had with the drumstick.
    I'm able to relax. Almost to the point I can sleep. I feel comfortable with the maxmus In me. My expectation is to feel more than the tingle that I occasionally get. But right now I am trying to
    Go further than the 3 or 4 waves I get with the drumstick, I don't want to end the session with a extreme sense of feeling unsatisfied (like I am feeling now).

    U have read the wiki and the board. And I try to follow the instructions. To no avail. Only thing I was able to achieve is the aneros assisted ejaculatikn. With feels better then a normal one.
  • AneRicoAneRico
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  • brucemarklandbrucemarkland
    Posts: 116
    Patience is all you are read about the path,the journey....we all started where you are... some move fast some move slow, but you are on the path.

    An almost orgasm is the start...I used a lot of muscle power...I thrashed about like a man having a seizure, trying to get over the top...the top is not what you is much more.

    Sooner or later you will realize that all the thrashing and ass clenching and using a lot of muscle power is not the way to achieve your is far more subtle...soon you will find your prostate and learn to work it and to extend those waves... then the pleasure starts....I could feel my prostate...I could work my Aneros to bring me pleasure....and then....

    Everything was more nice than frustrating.


  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,180
    Are you really using a chicken bone? lol.  Thats not good if you are, I would definitely stop using that and follow @anericos advice.
  • PspotsquirterPspotsquirter
    Posts: 467
    @AneRico & @ineverknew
    Perhaps @jtsr needs to consult Ringo Starr and/or Colonel Harlan Sanders (posthumously). A 10 piece bucket Original, 4 biscuits, 2 sides, and some para diddles should solve the problem.
  • jstrjstr
    Posts: 23
    its actually not a drumstick but a vibrator that size... just seemed alot easier to explain like that. before people start to think it's a massive object

  • AneRicoAneRico
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