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I have a confession
  • ConvellConvell
    Posts: 7
    Brothers & Sisters,

    Talking to you all this past  week has really inspired me. So  im making a vow to my self and totally giving up viewing porn and and solo penile stimulation. I feel this will help me rewire and   increase my all ready high sexual energy. 

    ( ill start blogging on a weekly basis  and share my exp. of my journey )

  • BunkBunk
    Posts: 171
    Good luck with that. It's very tempting to 'slap your granny' at the end of a session though..!
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 804
    In my early journey months, I abstained for up to seven days, which I believe was helpful toward my rewiring. And, I found it didn't matter, once I rewired enough, that shooting a load once or twice a week seemed to help keep me balanced! I am now wired in a way that I obtain awesome satisfaction from both my prostate orgasms and my ejaculation orgasms, and my ejaculation orgasms are much deeper and my body feels much more alive! There's a nice symbiosis occurring among my systems that has elevated both experiences...and for a 52 year old, that's pretty awesome! I know I'm not the oldest here, but I started to feel like I was on the downside of my sexuality until I started this journey! Now, I'm on the upside...with a kicker!

  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008

    Fear not brother!

    You have a long way to go yet. I'm still well into this at the age of 75!

    I just wish for you that you have a loving partner with whom you can share your experiences with you along the way.

  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 804
    @Pommie --- I'm working on that part!
  • ConvellConvell
    Posts: 7
    I'm 29 so I have a lonng way to go !
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008
    Most of a lifetime I'd say. You Lucky Bastard!
  • BigOluverBigOluver
    Posts: 255
    Great man for me i'm coming up on a full year with aneros this march and trust me when you start eliminating your regular sexual stradegies and start new ones it makes the orgasm and experience that much better. I went 14 days with out cuming or jerking and rode almost every day, The cum shot was huge but s fullfilling. So enjoy and try to stay off the porn sites.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,782
    @Convell  - Confession not necessary, but thank you for informing us. I don't know that stopping looking at porn is an issue, if it helps you get aroused, that would be helpful. But it is worth while exploring to see what works for you. I will say that starting an ejaculation abstinence routine was the most difficult thing for me to decide to do in addition to the initial trial periods. But it has sparked the most progress in my Aneros sessions over the years because of it. I hope this works well for you. :)
  • You should read some stuff on this site, it helped me hold off for a while (until I got a girlfriend, cause now we have such awesome sex, that I just have to jerk off to it when she leaves the house, lol!)

    Pretty good community, but it is Reddit, so there are some douchebags that chime in every once in a while
  • JspadJspad
    Posts: 172
    I'm quitting porn too. Not masturbation, but without porn I ought to know when I'm naturally ready to masturbate without external overstimulation. It often seems easy at first, but then it feels like it's been forever since you've seen that one picture you have in your head... Last night, after 10 days without porn, I looked at some sexy pictures last night that I don't consider to be porn cuz they don't show naughty bits. I deleted them though, because it's still fueling the addiction. I find that it's usually after not viewing porn for a week or so that I get back to being able to feel pleasure in various areas of my body. When I tried abstaining from masturbation though, it didn't seem to do anything besides make me a little frustrated. Anyway, I wish you luck in what you're striving for!