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Being Startled During Session Actually Feels Good
  • mdad
    Posts: 90
    I've noticed something funny when I have sessions. Usually I try to have them when things are as quiet as possible. I try to get in a calm, meditative state, and focus on breathing and sensations. Invariably, one of my cats will knock something over, make a loud noise, and it will startle me. Funny thing is, each time that happens, I get a rush of pleasure to my genitals. I can achieve a similar effect by exhaling and rolling my abdominal muscles. But it's not nearly as powerful as when something scares me. Sometimes it's a car horn, or noise from the heater, but each time, what at first starts as an annoying jolt turns into a cool little pleasure rush. Plus, it keeps me from falling asleep if I'm doing a session late at night. :)
  • I'm assuming this is also the reason women find such pleasure in being spanked during sex. It's such a state of trance and relaxation that sudden stimulus sends a rocket of pleasure through you.
  • I've noticed this too.  

    Have often wondered what was at work mechanically/mentally so I could try to enhance my sessions with a similar response.
  • Theme_Gasm
    Posts: 308
    mdad said:

    I've noticed something funny when I have sessions. Usually I try to have them when things are as quiet as possible. I try to get in a calm, meditative state, and focus on breathing and sensations. Invariably, one of my cats will knock something over, make a loud noise, and it will startle me. Funny thing is, each time that happens, I get a rush of pleasure to my genitals. I can achieve a similar effect by exhaling and rolling my abdominal muscles. But it's not nearly as powerful as when something scares me. Sometimes it's a car horn, or noise from the heater, but each time, what at first starts as an annoying jolt turns into a cool little pleasure rush. Plus, it keeps me from falling asleep if I'm doing a session late at night. :)



    I've wondered the similarly, since I've noticed the same thing...My take on it is that being startled takes your "control" away from concentrating on your pleasure, which is exactly what your sub-conscious needs to release some pleasure your way! Just my opinion!

    TG
  • mdad
    Posts: 90

    I'm assuming this is also the reason women find such pleasure in being spanked during sex. It's such a state of trance and relaxation that sudden stimulus sends a rocket of pleasure through you.



    Wow, I never thought of spanking that way. I always thought it was silly and somewhat degrading. That makes perfect sense.
  • mdad
    Posts: 90

    I've noticed this too.  


    Have often wondered what was at work mechanically/mentally so I could try to enhance my sessions with a similar response.


    As mentioned in my post, I can achieve a similar effect by exhaling sharply through my lips and rolling my abdominal muscles downward with the breath. I try to direct the energy directly to my pelvic region. It's sort of a modified KSMO approach that is a lot quieter. :) When I do it right, I get a jolt of pleasure similar to being startled.

    I always assumed it was due to a blood rush, but perhaps it is due to energy transfer. When being startled, there is a jolt of energy that surges throughout the body and hits all the nerves at once.