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Scared of underwear n what others think...?
  • newguy8
    Posts: 102
    Yes I'm 23 n still live w/ the folks, they still do the laundry... Should I be hesitant to buy certain ck, n2n, obviously for men styles cause I don't want to be made fun of n ridiculed n called a fag?
  • BigGlansDC
    Posts: 627
    Hi @newguy8, since you are living at home with your parents and they do the laundry, it may best for you not to purchase exotic or sexy men's underwear at this time.

    Thom./BigGlansDC
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,195
    grow up.  do your own laundry.

    darwin
  • TreiTrei
    Posts: 161
    If your parents are not open to the idea of homosexuality, even if you aren't gay per se, then i'd not by the underwear since your in their household and it may incite in them suspicions and stress.

    On another note, it is perfectly ok to live with your parents even you whole life so long as they're ok with it and your holding your own weight and not relying on them.

    That old custom of leaving home at 7 is for the birds it's 2014 now and anything goes! :) .
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    P.S.: Just tell her you want to do your own laundry. I can understand special mother-son relations and that you may not want to break the tradition of her washing your clothes for her sake (or yours?), but sometimes you have to do it and let them know that you're not a kid any-more and can hold your own.

    Acknowledgement of this reality from all party’s will be very beneficial for the whole family and the future of the relationship that you all share and will allow your family bond to grow in a positive light. @};-
  • BigOluverBigOluver
    Posts: 187
    @newguy8 hey bro I know what your going through. I still live with my parents as well but i had to learn how to do my own laundry. One day my mom had a pair of my sheer black thong underwear in her hand looking amazed and i just snatched them and cathered my things and ran to my room. What they don't know wont hurt them. Since i'm paying for my sexy hot underwear she can't  tell me what to do with them so hey. Learn the washing of clothes and just do your laundry when you know she's not gonna be around.
  • I had the same problem growing up. I had some briefs and speedos that I didn't want anyone in my family seeing. Eventually, I just ended up doing my own laundry. My parents finally saw them and never really said anything.

    This past march, my parents and my partner and I went on a cruise. Usually I'll lay out in trunks and or a speedo to get a smaller tan line. We were all on the beach and my partner suggested I take off the board shorts to just layout in my speedo. I looked at my parents, and they both shrugged and didn't mind. I hung out with them the rest of the day on the beach in just the speedo. It was kind of cool that they didn't care. A lot of my hang up was with myself and not them. If you really think they'll have an issue, try to figure out if is really them or it's all in your mind. Don't forget you are who you are, and you should never change that. Every guy deserves to feel sexy and right in their own skin.
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,195
    Here is a hint:  Doing laundry doesn't involve any matronly voodoo.   

    1. take clothes to laundry machine
    2. shove em in
    3. pour a little laundry soap into the place clearly marked for it
    4. select Quick Wash or similar
    5. hit start
    6. come back when the thing beeps or whatever
    7. shove the wet clothes into the dryer
    8. clean the lint filter
    9. choose "medium heat"
    10. turn it on for 45 minutes

    YOU ARE FREE!

  • newguy8762
    Posts: 198
    Darwin,
    LOL!!!!
    You have to be a dad of teens or young adults. I totally agree.

    I have a 28-year-old who lost her job living at home and the kids revert to childish behavior for some reason. I don't get it. When I was 17, I moved out of my parents house and never looked back. I couldn't wait to be free.

    I can't say I really did laundry, however, because I would just go buy new underwear when I ran through my supply!

    In any case, I think the advice to our young friend here is two-fold:
    1. Do your own laundry
    2. Wear whatever sexy underwear you want and quit worrying about whether it's gay or not or what other people think. Underwear can't make you gay any more than going to McDonalds can make you a hamburger.

    We all know men are more sexual than females. If wearing cool skivvies is a part of expressing your sexuality as a man, go for it and screw everyone else.
  • newguy8
    Posts: 102

    Darwin,
    LOL!!!!
    You have to be a dad of teens or young adults. I totally agree.

    I have a 28-year-old who lost her job living at home and the kids revert to childish behavior for some reason. I don't get it. When I was 17, I moved out of my parents house and never looked back. I couldn't wait to be free.

    I can't say I really did laundry, however, because I would just go buy new underwear when I ran through my supply!

    In any case, I think the advice to our young friend here is two-fold:
    1. Do your own laundry
    2. Wear whatever sexy underwear you want and quit worrying about whether it's gay or not or what other people think. Underwear can't make you gay any more than going to McDonalds can make you a hamburger.

    We all know men are more sexual than females. If wearing cool skivvies is a part of expressing your sexuality as a man, go for it and screw everyone else.






    Well I'm deciding to wear my white ripe jock today, may have a piss stain, but I'll deal w/ that.
  • Just throw the thong in with the rest of your washing. Simple. They might be puzed at first but they will get used to it and then you can buy another one and they will get used to that too. pritty soon it will be just normal. If there is a problem they will talk to you because they love you otherwise they would not do your washing now would they.
  • newguy8
    Posts: 102
    They wud call me a fag n my younger bro wud never let me live it down, even if I got a gf n got married, fag fag fag in his eyes... I don't need that.
  • TreiTrei
    Posts: 161
    I agree with @braveneworld. Also you may want to man up a little newguy8, not trying to be rude.
  • HAHA not condoning violence but he is your little brother, If he does give him a reminder >:)
  • newguy8
    Posts: 102
    Reminders dont work with him, he still hard headed n thinks physical for is the only way to get what you want, getting angry. 
  • I shouldn't worry about the underwear, if your so frightened of being thought of as gay (or a 'fag') as you so delicately put it, I would be more worried about them finding your Aneros butt toy in your draw.



  • newguy8
    Posts: 102

    I shouldn't worry about the underwear, if your so frightened of being thought of as gay (or a 'fag') as you so delicately put it, I would be more worried about them finding your Aneros butt toy in your draw.








    That's true... I wud be mortified of both. Can't win.