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Hello, I'm a newbie and could use some advise
  • saskdudesaskdude
    Posts: 1
    Hello, I am a newbie and have a few questions. First of all I would like to give some information about me. I am totally new with anything to do with my anus other than my wife's finger doing abit of poking around. Just latley we started to do this and it was very interesting to say the least. I would like to continue with this type of play so after doing some reserch I recently purchased the Helix Syn and some anal lube. I am still waiting for it to come in the mail. I guess my question would be is there anything that I should know about this product before I start to use it? Are there any tricks to make the "learning" stage easier or more enjoyable? Basically any advise or suggestions or anything of the sorts would be greatly appreciated. I have played around with my wife's bum so I know the basics about that part ie. going nice and slow, using lots and lots of lube ect. I am new to the whole my bum and prostate thing so any information would be great. Thank you for your time.
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,484

    Welcome to the Aneros Forums,
    Read, read and then read some more. As I mentioned in my introductory PM to you there is a wealth of information available on this site. While it may seem overwhelming, I assure you it will prove invaluable as you learn and progress. Please, take the time to follow through on all the links I provided to you in that PM
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  • slimjmslimjm
    Posts: 576
    You could start by letting your wife help with inserting the Syn and just lie there awhile (on your back with your knees up and relaxed apart some) getting accustomed to what it feels like inside.  After a few minutes when you begin to feel more accustomed to it being inside you, let her caress your body, especially tickling around your chest and nipples, just not touch your penis at all.  You should start feeling some interesting tingling like sensations at your prostate area with doing this, feeling like they're coming from behind your pubic bone and base of your penis area.

    Then you could have just regular sex with your wife and see what your ejaculation feels like with it in.  It should be more powerful and longer lasting than usual.  In time you may want to practice learning how to have dry or prostate orgasms with it.  It takes longer to learn this but it's incredibly fun when you do and can become a fantastic way to "warm up" for sex with your wife.