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I think I had an orgasm last night
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    My journey has been a rather long one... it's been over three years as I fumble along. Still waiting for the super O, I have enjoyed many different levels along the way. For the longest time, my steps forward would be rather large (in my opinion) as I felt I was getting ever so close to orgasm. The last six months or so have involved taking more baby steps getting closer and closer.
    I have always had orgasmic feelings and my sessions are generally filled with some sort of pleasure from beginning to end. I don't often have a dud session where I get nothing. I think my sessions take me more to the calm sea orgasm place and I'm not really expecting my orgasm, when they ever come, to be the uncontrolable flopping about kind.
    It had been a week since my last ejaculation and I could feel the energy building within from day to day. During my session last night, I could feel myself being led to orgasm on several occasions. I didn't get there, but would have to say it was the closest ever. then I had a burst of energy that swept across my body. It started from my prostrate area and radiated outward in all directions. It felt almost like a ballon had burst in my groin and the energy released was flowing outward.
    It only lasted a few seconds and didn't cause me to tense up or see colors or moan aloud or anything like that, but none the less it was different and felt great. I feel I had a mild orgasm

    Do any of you get a feeling like that and would you say that was an orgasm?
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello thhn, :)

    Congratulations about your further advances in your Aneros journey!!!

    It felt almost like a ballon had burst in my groin and the energy released was flowing outward.

    Yes! I know that feeling. I had it well over a year ago minus any major pleasure. But I described it as a flower blossoming in energy from around my prostate. I never really saw this event as an orgasm though, as there was not a ton of pleasure associated with the event.

    Do any of you get a feeling like that and would you say that was an orgasm?

    If it was a definite peak or increase in pleasure, then yes. I'd guess a mini-O. My one and only mini-O so far didn't have any of those energetic bursts. But it was a definite short but incredibly good increase in pleasure over anything I've ever felt in my Aneros sessions with absolutely no penile stimulation involved. Matter of fact, I wasn't even doing any contractions of any sort. Just relaxing into the sensations.

    I hope you can repeat this experience soon. It's been a good three months for me since my first mini-O, and it hasn't re-occurred yet. But I've certainly been close many times.

    I'm sending you orgasmic energy to help you over the top! ;)

    Love_is
  • The_BishopThe_Bishop
    Posts: 810
    Hell yeah Thhn! Congrads sir!
    I wish you more pleasure in future sessions.
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    thanks for the comments guys.... I know for many who have had quick success, this milestone is rather bland, but for me it is a huge step.
    I acheived this by holding a rather strong contraction for about a minute or so. In the past, when I have concentrated on holding a contraction, my mind will generally wander and I forget about what I was doing by holding the contraction, this time, I really concentrated on holding as long as I could and it seemed to do the trick.
    I have inched forward ever so slowly and think a full blown orgasm is just around the corner. Like I said, it had been about a week since I had an ejaculation, and I think for me, I need that much time (mid 50's) I think that part is key for me.
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 734
    thhn,

    Great News! I am so pleased for you.

    It seems you are about where I am at present. I would be interested to know whether you have been sticking with the same model throughout or, like me, you mix and match models. I found the thing that seemed to get me going was the advice given by CaveofMystery in his thread http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/quick-dirty-path-super-o-14552/.

    Keep us informed of your progress.

    Pommie
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    Pommie:
    funny you would ask about switching models as I was just thinking about making a thread regarding that. Almost every session I have involves using several models. I generally start small and work up to the progasm. depending on the session, I might only use a certain model for 10 minutes or so. I find that my most intense sessions come within that time frame of insertion. when things quiet down, I switch to another model but always spend the most time with the progasm which is my favorite. the only one I don't own is the maximus which is my next purchase.

    I have read caveomystery's post several times and think about his technique during my sessions. I did find that I was using an spicnter contraction mostly and not using my pc muscle. I now concentrate on flexing the pc muscle and I think that has helped.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Thhn, :)

    Since the whole talk of changing out models during a session has been brought up. It reminded me that sometimes pleasant sensations will be re-awakened by removing or partially removing the Aneros I am using and then re-inserting it while repositioning it with the P-tab closer to my scrotum. I'm not sure why this has an effect. But I noticed quite a while ago that further into the session the Aneros will shift lower down and the sensations change or fade. Something to try. But it occurs to me that perhaps this is a part of what changing models out during a session does is repositions it. What do you think?

    Love_is
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    [QUOTE=Love_is;90655]Hello Thhn, :)

    Since the whole talk of changing out models during a session has been brought up. It reminded me that sometimes pleasant sensations will be re-awakened by removing or partially removing the Aneros I am using and then re-inserting it while repositioning it with the P-tab closer to my scrotum. I'm not sure why this has an effect. But I noticed quite a while ago that further into the session the Aneros will shift lower down and the sensations change or fade. Something to try. But it occurs to me that perhaps this is a part of what changing models out during a session does is repositions it. What do you think?

    Love_is

    Might be worthwhile to 'snug up the p-tab' with a pad or dropper bulb.

    With MGX, Helix or Eupho my session starts with a clear sense of the head of the tool pressing on my prostate and the p-tab pressing upward on my perineum. As my prostate 'trances' into pleasure these two feelings merge together. Even though they are over an inch apart, I can't distinguish between the two points of contact. It's just one 'cradled' orb.

    Should padding help, you might consider getting out the heat gun and making a permanent change.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    Hey thhn -- valuable thread !!

    As one of the 'geriatric' set that tends to run out of energy during a session, I've adopted session splitting.

    Generally this parallels the thoughts of Tremelo and dtmsmith and, for me, seems to maintain arousal while restoring energy reserves for more mini-Os and most times a grand reward.

    I used to start these with a small tool and after 'half-time' I'd step up to a larger one. Now I'm sold on starting large, getting loose and relaxed with that (usually a Maximus) then using a more agile tool (Eupho or Helix) for the 'second half.'

    This takes me into the 'second half' with more arousal and anticipation of something to fill an empty canal. The start-up with Eupho or Helix is faster and there's plenty of energy to support p-wave development.

    Note: These sessions are pretty gentle & free-form with my bod showing me the path. Not like my vocal sessions where I use voice to push the cart down the path.
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    interesting thought Rook... whenever I have tried to start off with the progasm, it hurts like it's too large. I have only tired that a couple of times. I have no problem with the size if I don't start out with that one though.
    Often, after an hour or so into the session with the progasm, I will do a second go around with the models going back to the mgx then the helix the the eupho. If it's a good session, the second go around will be as good or better than the first.
    I have a nice block of time set aside on wednesday morning for a session and have half the day with nothing to do. I have very high hopes for this session. I am finding this to be a good way for me to generate arousal by planning a session a couple days out and building up the excitement in my mind in the days leading up to the session.
  • buttfunbuttfun
    Posts: 60
    [QUOTE=The_Bishop;90614]Hell yeah Thhn! Congrads sir!
    I wish you more pleasure in future sessions.image

    It's really amazing the first time you get it just right. Congratulations and I hope you have many more amazing sessions.