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How do I clam the shaking?
  • The_BishopThe_Bishop
    Posts: 810
    When I am building up to an orgasm, my body starts shaking more and more violently until I cannot control it and lose the sensation. How do I calm this shaking so I can get to that powerful Super-O without throwing my screws loose?
    Bishop
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    Hope this makes sense ... Start arousal with a lower level of action and more subtle stim. Search you bod for unlikely stim points and bring those into the game.

    Had similar issues with heavy / rapid arousal build -- mine was massive jaw clench followed by Migraine rather than orgasm.

    Are your mini-Os OK?
  • The_BishopThe_Bishop
    Posts: 810
    Thanks Rook.
    No problem with the mini-Os. Not sure what you mean by "Start arousal with a lower level of action"?
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    [QUOTE=The_Bishop;89104]Thanks Rook.
    No problem with the mini-Os. Not sure what you mean by "Start arousal with a lower level of action"?

    Hey Bish,
    If you are getting mini-Os you should be ready to find some gentle stim (like Cave's, "Quick and Dirty" frenulum stim) to guide them on into a larger O. I am able to build mini-Os with gentle nip, gentle male-deer and artorms tonguing the roof of the mouth. I tried Cave's frenulum stim last night and came very close but missed with a dud-out. No way am I 100%. I do think though that Cave does the best job of describing the mechanics of guiding the mini-O through the maze of the limbic brain and getting a grand slam.

    What I've found is that I "overshoot" by with too heavy-handed a stim (forcing a contraction to elevate a mini-O) I wind up with massive muscle contractions. Mine are all in the head -- jaw clenches, basal membraine (inner ear) contractions and Migraine aura. Someone called it, "beating the prostate into submission."

    For me, that's anything more than just breathing to move the Aneros. I used to do male-deer with the palm of a hand -- too heavy. Now my male-deer is just the edge of a fingernail slowly and lightly travelling the edge of a surgical scar. Simultaneous nip work used to be sort of a massage. My touch is now very light and I try to work it down to the point I can hardly feel it.

    If I start "heavy" it takes "heavy" to keep feeling it. If I start light and work downward to less and less I do better. I've got artform's tongue routine down to just a faint 'tickle' rather than pallet rubbing. That said, a sharp jab of a toenail to the opposite foot's arch has kick-started a dying session.

    Mechanics: I have to avoid pelvic/ano/prostate stim until I'm really relaxed (takes at least 20 minutes) and just breathing will move the Aneros without any voluntary contractions. If I do anal contractions aside from initial lube distribution and getting solid prostate contact, it's too much.

    While I'm waiting to "relax-down" and loosen up I try just meditation. If the brain noise is high I'll gently rub fingertips against one another and focus on my prostate. My prime indicator is how loose I get with the Aneros and how loose I can keep it until I clench.

    hth
  • Badger
    Posts: 648
    I end up with big wet-Os from the shaking, if done long enough. In fact, I just had one the other day with the large Peridise, which produced a very satisfying clear wet-O.
  • calmercalmer
    Posts: 75
    I find that nip stim focuses the mind away from the shaking but I seem to have a direct link between my nips and my prostate. As soon as I start nip stim the tingling starts and my prostate start to pump much pre cum. I concentrate on the tingling which increases. I find it a balancing act too much nip stim and the Aneros device stops moving, too little stim and I start shaking, thrusting and crunching (just like in the gymn).
  • Mogal
    Posts: 13
    [QUOTE=calmer;89130]I find that nip stim focuses the mind away from the shaking but I seem to have a direct link between my nips and my prostate. As soon as I start nip stim the tingling starts and my prostate start to pump much pre cum. I concentrate on the tingling which increases. I find it a balancing act too much nip stim and the Aneros device stops moving, too little stim and I start shaking, thrusting and crunching (just like in the gymn).

    Haha, funny combo of username and thread title :)
  • Badger
    Posts: 648
    [QUOTE=Mogal;89132]Haha, funny combo of username and thread title :)

    Now, was that the singsong, mocking laugh of Nelson Muntz, or just a meanspirited laugh of derision?
  • tallguy
    Posts: 57
    [QUOTE=rook;89106]Hey Bish,

    What I've found is that I "overshoot" by with too heavy-handed a stim (forcing a contraction to elevate a mini-O) I wind up with massive muscle contractions. Mine are all in the head -- jaw clenches, basal membraine (inner ear) contractions and Migraine aura. Someone called it, "beating the prostate into submission."

    hth

    Man, am I glad I read that, Rook! I have been getting more and more mini-Os in recent days (see my reply to "Breakthrough"), and last night I ran through every one of the reactions you named above. I thought I was going a little crazy because I kept hearing this clicking in my head and said to myself, "If feels like my inner ear is contracting" which I thought was really dumb. A little while later, I'm complaining to myself that my jaw was sore and can't figure out why...and this a.m. I awake with a headache (which I never do!) One naproxyn tab settled that.

    I have not gotten beyond the mini-O's yet but I find I sustain them longer if I simply do nothing...and try to be a still as a rabbit hiding from a dog. That stillness, along with a focus on every tiny sensation in my perineum, seems to propel me along further. I may try the tonguing, though.

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  • rookrook
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    This may be more theory than reality but I've seen the following often enough that I think it might be reality.

    A thing I think I'm finding out as one of the old guys here. Two or three intense mini-Os may be wearing me down, depleting the glycogen reserves in my pelvic muscles. Making me feel "dud," When I then try to kick start things I tend to either overshot or go major dud.

    If I take a break for a couple of hours and munch on a Snicker Bar; then, then start a second session, I have much better luck. This may explain why the young guys with more stable glycogen reserves can stand a log of muscle action and still super-O.