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  • Puzzling as all of this is, you should take this longing for something new as an opportunity to explore the myriad plugs and prostate massagers/stimulators/vibrators that are out there today. I think there is a widespread misconception here in the Aneros forums that the Aneros is the only device designed to achieve prostate orgasms and that all other devices are somehow inferior or, even worse, dangerous. I own all but one of the Aneros products, and I have found them all to be superb toys, and indeed they are responsible for my forays into the wonderful world of prostate stimulation. The fact that all of the toys operate all so differently from one another, while trying to achieve the same goal is a strong motivator to want something new. It was this feeling exactly that had me going out and trying some other products. Much to my delight, I found that most of these different toys have extended my pleasure immeasurably, and even enhanced my experience with my Aneros products. Don't sit around and wait for the new Aneros to arrive... get something else and continue exploring.
  • Badger
    Posts: 654
    Like what, waverider?
  • Tantus Prostate Health will get your rocks off over anything Aneros has to offer. Closest thing that comes close is the Progasm. As Waverider has said there are a wealth of other products out. Don't feel you have to limit it to just Aneros. Probably will get banned for saying this though.

    I'm sick and tired of when I go to stimulate my nipples the energy gets rewired from my lovely hard cock into the rest of my body taking my erection away from me and going into a deeper energy that I care not about at times. The one thing I don't like about the rewiring is the way it reroutes my sexual energy. As we all know most of these prostate orgasms can be done without a hardon. It's this simple fact that I want a hard-on at times and don't want this energy rerouted all across my body thereby losing my erection. I'm fine if I don't touch my nipples or stimulate myself in a way that gets a response to trigger the energy all around. This is what I dislike most about the rewiring. It's very frustrating at times. Guess I'm just not ready for it yet.
  • HelixerHelixer
    Posts: 566
    What AW is basically what I've been saying in http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/why-aneros-nothing-but-masculine-14686/

    Aneros teaches you feminine/receptive sexuality. This is what the socalled rewiring/refocussing is all about.
    You can either focus on the male sexuality or the female, you can't focus on both at the same time
    And it requires some willpower to choose the lesser of the 2 pleasures.

    Ergo,

    USE IT OR LOOSE IT!;)
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    Wow guys, great thread. Very powerful and timely for me. I think I'm at a critical point on the rewiring cusp with what Helixer describes as my feminine/receptive side battling with my penile/penetrative side. When they are in yin-yang balance I can feel the receptive side throughout my body core and the penetrative urge playing along my ribs. When I super-O, the veneer comes off from my body and I sense a neutral position in which that balance lies. I've gained a greater sense of my yin-yang as this phase of the rewiring process takes place.

    During everyday activities, this 'balanced' situation peaks for a couple of days each week. Then it will fade a bit in intensity and tilt to either yin or yang before troughing out. Then I rise a bit to yin or yang and feel a slight tug of war until I crest again.

    This see-saw seems influenced mostly by my Aneros sessions but on the waning side, the total intensity can be rekindled by ejaculation (unlike six months ago when it was spiked by horniness from semen conservation.) I'm now feeling somewhat more introverted during foreplay and have some concerns about that mental orientation.

    My impulse to deal with this was to shop the local leather shop for Fleshlight sleeves and plan some sophisticated, "high-precision" edging. Something that I've ignored during this journey. Although I idealize good edging after some journey sessions, it's become a fast wank. I'm tending to loose respect for the art of masturbation (perhaps a resurrection of some old teen-age furballs).

    In yearning for a masturbation sleeve I'd felt like an Aneros traitor; however, this thread seems to 'justify' this brief detour in my rewiring process. Again, guys thanks !!! I'm gonna be OK with Fleshlight. (However my spouse will probably ask that it be hidden in the nightstand on days when we expect guests or the housekeeper is coming.)

    Couple of thoughts that might help:

    -- The Peridise (introduced into my toybox last month) hasn't done squat, prostate wise. However, it drives me WILD!! I'd felt a bit out of the club on this since most other guys report a quick whole-body experience from Peridise.

    I started using it low in the canal where my entire focus is anal stim. (I've always liked the pure mechanical/physiological/neuro aspects of anal even though it's not transported me to any whole brain-body experience.)

    From square-one Peridise has been a reliable hardon producer. It's also been a cool tool for foreplay, intercourse, and 'prostate denial.' The denial game yields a total "hollow" feeling in the upper canal and an intense craving for something like Eupho or Helix (my two Super-O tools).

    I'd propose picking the most 'anal' of the Peridise tools then dedicate that to support of intense penile stim, edging and ejaculation. (Perhaps the 'hand of God' guided my purchase of a Fleshlight at this point on my journey. Thank you ma'am! Postulating that 'she' likes 'breeders' -- even when they are snipped.)

    Rekindle the hidden 16yo in your being. And, keep it separate from your whole body desires.

    -- Lips and other joys. Several months ago I was exploring a multitude of body parts in an attempt to increase my repetoire of accessible stim targets. Inserted and already hyped from heavy nips and male deer, I had a whim for something new and decided on some impromptu lip stim. Just some gentle stroking of my lips against the seam of a pillowslip. A few minutes into the lateral rubbing and lip persing ---> POW!, chubby (us old farts seldom go 'sprong'), PONR and an orgasmic release into a pulsing wet-O. Dissappointment. I had failed.

    My first thought was to rewire lip stim from my penis to my prostate. However, I've already lost my chest/belly wiring to my penis. (Drawing my wife's body to my bossom was always a hardon trigger and I'm loosing that.) I've decided to dedicate lips to foreplay and that's holding stable.

    Here's a proposed consideration for guys who want to maintain yin and yang, it might be a good idea to dedicate s set of stim targets to your penis and preserve those as your gateway to penetrative sex or a nice mb session. Then, forget the whole 'ejaculation is inferior' mantra and nourish the 'penis gateway' on a regular basis.

    Many of us have taken masturbation as a given capability (no porn or other arousal needed). It may be time to reconsider it as an Artform (not the guy) unto itself. As a junior moderator in the ASI forum, I can offer that the endothelial tissue in the Cavernosa is better off with frequent use. Going limp/flaccid is not a good thing. Get a pump, use it. Get a sleeve and edge. Enjoy.

    Twisted money making opportunity: The periodic 're-evaluation' of where one is in this yin-yang balance might open up a whole new discipline within the community of analysts and psychotherapists ---> (good grief !)

    Me thinks this is all about balance in life. The pendulum swings back and forth all the time. It's important to do some mental calculus and identify the biases that exist then, make the appropriate adjustments to keep the clockwork in order.
  • Sounds sexy man
  • Thank you rook and sorry to Brian for going off topic. I was asked to elaborate and I have. These are my honest feelings about everything at the given moment. I have lost interest entirely in the Aneros and all my sex toys. Instead I have focused more on getting things working with my erections on command once again the way it used to be. It's been great but it did take some patience to ween myself away from the usual anerosy type of feeling. I'm also with my girl a lot so that may be the reason I don't have the interest as nothing beats being with a real woman (I'm not completely talking about sex ;) ). At least, that's the experience I have had thus far as I hear some other guys couldn't say the same thing. :(

    The one thing I can say that I attribute a lot of credit to the aneros is getting in touch with the feminine side of things. I am able to see and know when my woman has an orgasm because I know the signs to look for because I have experienced something similar that I can easily relate to. So I am thankful in that respect.

    Good Luck to Everyone!
  • Vibrating prostate massage toys are now rather common. A few bring something special to the game but most don't do much more than the original vibrators rolled out 40 years ago.
    Since Aneros has already lost "first" status they need to jump ahead of the competition and develop something totally new and unique to the market,
    I believe they can do so by utilizing a rolling ball on the p-tab and also at the point where the prostate is being rubbed/contacted.
    Perhaps the entire portion that fits inside the anus can be a series of these rolling balls.
    Several posters seem to want a stainless steel version. The rolling balls would be ideal for this tool!
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    [QUOTE=arkfarmbear;91099]Vibrating prostate massage toys are now rather common. A few bring something special to the game but most don't do much more than the original vibrators rolled out 40 years ago.
    Since Aneros has already lost "first" status they need to jump ahead of the competition and develop something totally new and unique to the market,
    I believe they can do so by utilizing a rolling ball on the p-tab and also at the point where the prostate is being rubbed/contacted.
    Perhaps the entire portion that fits inside the anus can be a series of these rolling balls.
    Several posters seem to want a stainless steel version. The rolling balls would be ideal for this tool!

    Assuming the validity of Love_is's suggestion about Progasm difficulties where bph is a factor, the "rolling ball massager head" would be a natural for guys with bph and give rise to a whole new device. I'd take the idea one more step and suggest ceramic ball(s) in stainless steel cavities. that sort of bearing pair (patented I believe by Kaman) is ideally suited to lubrication by solutions like sea water and normal saline. Regerttably the p-tab roller has been "discovered" by another outfit so it would be costly for Aneros to adopt.
  • [QUOTE=rook;91100]Assuming the validity of Love_is's suggestion about Progasm difficulties where bph is a factor, the "rolling ball massager head" would be a natural for guys with bph and give rise to a whole new device. I'd take the idea one more step and suggest ceramic ball(s) in stainless steel cavities. that sort of bearing pair (patented I believe by Kaman) is ideally suited to lubrication by solutions like sea water and normal saline. Regerttably the p-tab roller has been "discovered" by another outfit so it would be costly for Aneros to adopt.[/QUOT E]

    I'm not familiar with the Kaman productc you mention. What is it? Where is it sold?
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    [QUOTE=arkfarmbear;91128] I'm not familiar with the Kaman productc you mention. What is it? Where is it sold?

    Bad on my part. Sorry I led you up an empty path.

    Comment was intended for an Aneros designer. Kaman Bearing Corp has a line of ceramic bearings intended for the industrial market. That type of bearing works well at low velocities and don't need much lube other than water.

    Saint-Gobain Ceramics is another manufacturer of ceramic bearing balls that would run easily in an Aneros. Again, sold mostly to industrial outfits that produce end products.
  • Aneros, you need some marketing help on launching products. What most people would do is put the new product on their website. Then they would have a way you can buy it. Epic fail.