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Finishing Question
  • After Aneros sessions, my prostate is so full, it feels like I'm sitting on a tennis ball.  Relief is a simple matter of masturbating, but instead of removing the Aneros tool from my bottom, I'd like to leave it inserted while I masturbate.

    Only problem is, no matter how hard I try, I cannot get an erection.  Only after removing the tool and waiting a minute or so, can I achieve and maintain an erection enabling me to masturbate to ejaculation and that's hit and miss (mostly miss) as well..

    Anybody know any tricks on how to establish and maintain an erection with the Aneros tool left in place in order to finish by masturbating?
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 988
    there are no tricks, i have the opposite problem as well. Count your blessings you can dry orgasm and live with it.
  • I do not understand what you mean by "opposite problem"; would you please expand on that?
  • Eveything for me depends on my  mood when I start. If "I'm horny the mere stimulation my sphinxter for my progasm gets me. I stay hard until ejaculation. Sometimes I start soft remain soft and have a long dry ride
  • euphemisticeuphemistic
    Posts: 773
    You know I wonder if your problem with traditional ejaculation orgasms is responsible for your successes with the aneros dry orgasms! Your body and mind are not distracted by the strong pull to ejaculate so they can focus on what your prostate is experiencing. Just a thought. Why are you interested in going for the super traditional ejaculation orgasm?
  • @ euphemistic:

    It's hard for me to pee after using the Aneros. I suppose it's because I voluntarily engorge my prostate with semen, which goes part and parcel with what I'm up to, but when it's all over, like I said, peeing is a 10-15 minute process.

    Yesterday, at the end of a 3-day session of my not taking the blood pressure drug, lisinopril, which retards erections (says so right on the label) I was able to have two mammoth-volume ejaculations, each one lusciously consumed as stated in a previous thread, and when I went to pee, instead of the usual 10 to 15-minute ordeal, the job was done in a matter of several seconds.

    I thought I'd conquered things, but when I checked my blood pressure, it was quite elevated, so I decided to go back taking the recommended lisinopril dosage. I figure no erections, coupled with no ejaculations and longer-than-life pee times all still beat dying!

    That's why.

    Oh, and your theory makes sense to me.  Maybe going without any sexual outlet for such a long time has changed my penis' thinking habits.  When I did finally get an erection and started masturbating, instead of the "usual" amount of time it used to take (from memory), my penis was throbbing and as long and hard as it has ever been after just several strokes of my hand.  I used a lubricant and maybe that helped things, but before you could spell ejaculation, I was having one and it was a duesey!