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  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,117
    for those that are married and saying that they are now 'curious' what are you saying, that you guys might be wanting to try it with other guys? is this ruining your current relationships because its somehow changing your sexuality perhaps?
  • awired50awired50
    Posts: 130
    @inhope . No and no. I think it gives a straight guy a different perspective on why a guy could be gay. I did not have that perspective before discovering the Aneros and prostate pleasures and I'm glad that I now do. I was always accepting of someones choice, but feel I understand it better now. I have many gay friends and I'm happily married. If you have read any of my blogging you know that she is on the journey with me.Hope that makes sense :)
  • awired50 said:

    No and no. I think it gives a straight guy a different perspective on why a guy could be gay. I did not have that perspective before discovering the Aneros and prostate pleasures and I'm glad that I now do. I was always accepting of someones choice, but feel I understand it better now. I have many gay friends and I'm happily married. If you have read any of my blogging you know that she is on the journey with me.Hope that makes sense :)



    Well said @awired50
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,117
    Look at varmints post, see what I'm saying? Has anyone felt that the aneors experience has turned them off to traditional sex or finding women less attractive as a result?
  • Aneros use is not going to change a man's sexual orientation. Are the homosexual Aneros users suddenly wanting to try an order of vagina? Some are using Aneros to justify their pre-Aneros-existing desire to be with men.
  • If the OP chooses not to remain anonymous, that is his choice. It is actually somewhat admireable. What about the posters that want to tell the whole world (family, friends, strangers) about their Aneros usage? What about people that leave their Aneros lying about for people to see? They choose to remain in anonymity. Yet they condemn the OP. This guy has intestinal fortitude. =D>



    Just letting him know he HAS a choice, whether he decides to exercise it is certainly his choice. Huevos es grande for sure....

    Wow, you sure read into peoples post a lot more than they typically mean.... How much does Aneros pay you to be the thread police anyway?
  • awired50awired50
    Posts: 130
    @inhope No for me. Varmint may be the exception. Ask him. And if it is , I'm kewl with that :) @Pspotsquirter Spot on !

    It is the most euphoric thing I have ever experienced, especially when the wife is with me, so I understand wanting to shout it from the rooftops! Also the new fascination with it.

    I'm pissed with myself that I waited 50 years to try this. I have always been a very sexual / experimenting person fortunate enough to have a very sexual open minded wife.

    I feel nothing but positive vibes from this experience.

  • @MostIntersting1
    Must you be so sensitive? You are out of balance. I'm far from the thread police. Nonetheless, enjoy your day, and limit your Aneros sessions. This will lessen your sensitivity, and cause your suna to stop expelling your anal devices.
  • awired50awired50
    Posts: 130
    @MostInteresting1 Thanks man. I was carefully wording that one :)

    @inhope No for me. Varmint may be the exception. Ask him. And if it is , I'm kewl with that @Pspotsquirter Spot on !

    It is the most euphoric thing I have ever experienced, especially when the wife is with me, so I understand wanting to shout it from the rooftops! Also the new fascination with it.

    I'm pissed with myself that I waited 50 years to try this. I have always been a very sexual / experimenting person fortunate enough to have a very sexual open minded wife.

    I feel nothing but positive vibes from this experience.
  • Alex_xxxAlex_xxx
    Posts: 563
    @MostInteresting1 :
    Not the first time @potsquirter over exaggerates other posters "sensitivity". And certainly not the first time he lets his own mind wander flawful while claiming that it's other posters truth.

    @potsquirter, I admire you coming forth about how you love to fumble in the dark. Some people, like you, have a bigger immagination than you do facts. Good for you @potsquirter! Kindergarten all over again! Sounds fun..
  • I think all my future posts will just be. "What @awired50 said!"

    Enjoying what makes you feel good doesn't make us gay, it makes us human
  • @Alex_xxx
    You have a good day as well. I thought the forum was done with you, after @inhope DISMISSED you. I will now do the same. Have fun arguing with yourself.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,117
    I was only asking, not insinuating! I've just seen a few say this over the years and it had me thinking what it does to those in relationships. No worries.
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 546
    @GForce
    This is a nice subject. I like your title and comments.

    One thing I am wondering though is your will to describe to others what to follow. Is it really possible to convey it (too subtle and influenced by each mind's inner workings)? Can you know what wil be good for another (we are all different and always different in this area)? Why would it be your comcern?

    I think interacting is interesting. I find there are some obvious errors or blocades we can advice against. But except for that, isn't everyone's journey his own? I think eventually things happen on their own. If people like what I say about my experience, fine. But I don't want to mess with others experience. It would feel akward to me.
  • devajonesdevajones
    Posts: 157

    @euphemistic  you asked where the females that want to guide are...here i am.  I've been here.  You might need to understand that a balance of both male and female connection inside ones self (regardless of gender or sexual attraction) helps you get to a point of orgasm.  I connect both with the female in myself as well as the masculine aspects as well...its called balance.  You saying you have heard enough of the female things is totally a sign of a lot of things.  You continually shed your layers and show who you truly are all the time.  There is NEVER enough open dialogue on any topic.  There is always something one can learn regardless of the topic.

    With that being said, had you consulted me prior...i could have had you super o'ing probably over a year ago (and i dont mean by sexual interaction i mean by pure knowledge).  Please try to remain open.  You keep referring to this as a brotherhood...concentrating on solely men and mens ideas alone have proven to have not gotten you far.  Youre thought process is often very neandratholic. I want to urge you to not look at this site as a place to come when you want to get your jollies off.  This is a community for both male and female...and i'm sorry if i interupt your cyber sex sessions in chat...but thats not what i come here for...try not to complain next time.  If you would take half a second and stop subtly bashing me and other women....maybe your world would open up to something you never knew extisted.

    I also want to thank you for finally giving me something to chime in on.

  • And I take perverse delight in Aneros Support relocating one of @inhope's post after him scolding me for butting into of his public discussion...

    sorry could not resist! :)
  • @G-Force
    One should seek nothing . Then one will find what one is not seeking.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,117
    The post is still there dude, hasn't been relocated. I wasn't scolding you I was however asking a question to someone else was all and defending the reason when someone questioned it. Perverse delight eh? Naughty. No hard feelings meant.
  • G-ForceG-Force
    Posts: 65
    Ok, ok, ok....your right I should have said nothing.
    I am a big believer in this journey being unique and that everyone has to discover what works for them. Was just trying to help others, not tell them what to do. I am usually very careful not to suggest that everyone do what I do. Sometime it may come out this way by accident if asked a direct question.
    I guess I will leave it at "don't ask me, go figure it out for yourself" or "seek absolutely nothing" even the do nothing approach is giving people advice that should not be given. Telling someone to seek nothing, is giving advice.

    And, right again.....Why do I, feel this is my concern?
  • awired50awired50
    Posts: 130
    "What @awired50 said!"

    Enjoying what makes you feel good doesn't make us gay, it makes us human

    Exactly !
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 546
    @GForce
    I think sharing your thoughts and experience is more than fine. No need to apologies.
  • inhope said:

    The post is still there dude, hasn't been relocated. I wasn't scolding you I was however asking a question to someone else was all and defending the reason when someone questioned it. Perverse delight eh? Naughty. No hard feelings meant.



    It's all good, we are all here for the same reason
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 756
    brine said:

    Oh, PLENTY of climaxes, Pspot. I just don't focus on that point. I open myself to all that being a MMO man is. 


    brine



    Exactly! It's a wonderful place to BE!

    TG
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008
    @awired50,

    I'm having a bit of difficulty following your last post, above!

    Neither @inhope nor @Pspotsquirter have yet posted in this thread so I'm not sure what your'e referring to!

    Did you mean this one to go somewhere else?
  • euphemisticeuphemistic
    Posts: 822
    @GForce, In that case I've had plenty of orgasmic zone sessions. It IS confusing. I was used to expecting a build up of muscle tension and arousal tension with release and resolution before with ejaculation orgasms. Now it's more the involuntary contractions that keep repeating in undulating pattern of pleasure that keep me in the zone. I get discouraged and frustrated when my experience doesn't match other men's as they describe it. But you have described my experience better and given me encouragement NOT to be chasing after other's experiences. I've coached several men successfully so know some of the variety of experiences that are possible. Very different. But the orgasmic zone is a good way to describe it for many of them at different stages. IMO it's very important for more experienced guys to coach newbies if only to be present and concerned, but also to share and be there to answer questions. I'm eternally grateful to those who have coached me. They got me out of the nest so I could begin my own journey.

    BTW @gforce, thank you see much for your words of encouragement the other day. They meant a lot to me.

    @pspot and @canacan I actually like the hive ass phenomenon as it's a very intimate bonding with another man on a transpersonal level. I think we still have something to learn from our brothers :)
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008
    @AnerosTeam,
    Thanks for that!
    Now I understand.
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 546
    @euphemistic
    I have no idea why you associate me with Pspotsquirter's comments. LOL
  • Alex_xxxAlex_xxx
    Posts: 563
    devajones said:

    I'm so very tired of one track minded people saying the same thing over and over.  I  do not suggest you leave him to it for a few months.  My suggestion is to travel this road with him.  That is not to say that he shouldnt have solo sessions.  Many people who have no spouse or significant other are quick to give suggestions to those who are in relationships.  They do not have the correct perspective to even be doing so.  This is why you never see me post in topics that I have no perspective on.  With that being said...





    @devajones, I am in a relationship and have been throughout my journey with aneros. I can tell you first hand that "her" in the picture will feel good, but to achieve the super-O I need a deeper focus. She can`t be in the room, it`s as simple as that. I see that you`re tired of "one track minded people giving advice, now let me tell you what I`m tired of.

    I`m tired of people never having had a super-O giving advice, and at the same time saying what`s wrong, as tough they know what`s best. You are not a man, and you have never had a super-O. You do not know firsthand what the journey entails. You don`t even know 100% if your boyfriend has had a real super O.

    You pass hasty judgement @devajones, and from a somewhat weak standpoint I might add.

    What might work for some, might not work for others. So my take on it still is to leave him alone with it and get to know it before she joins in.
  • Alex_xxxAlex_xxx
    Posts: 563

    @Alex_xxx
    You have a good day as well. I thought the forum was done with you, after @inhope DISMISSED you. I will now do the same. Have fun arguing with yourself.



    Pretty shallow of you thinking you are speaking on both one and multiple persons behalf. All you are really doing is dishing out lies about other forum members. Really makes it hard to trust ANYTHING you write. Personally I call BS on everything you say :)
  • euphemisticeuphemistic
    Posts: 822
    Canacan said:

    @euphemistic
    I have no idea why you associate me with Pspotsquirter's comments. LOL



    You 2 often agree. I was referring more to your comments about not trusting men to guide newbies in our journeys but instead to trust women.
  • @Alex_xxx
    I have Super Os whilst I am inside of my girlfriend. It's odd that you can't Super O, while your woman is present. Perhaps you really don't have a solid bond with her. You really don't know what you're missing. You are cheating your woman out of the process. This will eventually cause problems in your relationship. In a sense, you are violating your relationship
    with her; because you have Super Os with your other girlfriend (M-A-R-Y J-A-N-E).
    JMO [-(
    P.S.
    Perhaps you are not having Super Os. If you were, you would be able to have them whilst your woman is present. You probably ride with other dudes on the chat, and supposedly Super O, but not with your woman. As Marvin Gaye would say,
    "A'int That Peculiar?"
  • @Canacan
    I was thinking the same. He would have been correct, had he mentioned the 'Syndrome'. Oh well Sifu, this shows that most are not paying attention to the lesson(s) being taught !

    @euphemistic
    'Hive Ass'-when most have the EXACT SAME EXPERIENCE . This is due to lack of individuality on the journey. The grafting of others ' experience(s), often for ill, is a major cause of this malady. Another contributor of the 'Hive Ass' is heeding advice from those in stagnation . How can one guide another to the mountain top, when one has not climbed it himself . I'm sure all the feel gooders will chime in, "We are all going to make this climb together! Blah blah baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaàaaaaaaaaaaaaah , ad nauseum !"

    Not true! Most will stay mired in the bog of stagnation , because of lack of courage! The lack of courage to embrace their own journey. One, essentially, can only help one's self. If one is in stagnation , any advice that one gives will only birth more stagnation .
  • Alex_xxxAlex_xxx
    Posts: 563
    @pot-squirter

    I think I answered why I can`t super-O with her involved in the other post. If you could keep concentrated enough to read an entire post, you might be able to pick up on it.

    As for the rest of the complete rubbish you`re pouring into this thread and a lot of other threads - I don`t really care. I think everyone on this forum have already understood that you`re mentally unstable and shouldn`t be allowed within 5 feet of a computer. Sadly to say, nobody has institutionalized you yet.
  • @euphemistic
    Why must a man be the guide? Is that not a bit homocentric? The Super O is homologous to the female orgasm is it not? Ergo, a woman knows more than you are willing to acknowledge . Your jealousy of women will prove to be a stumbling block in your journey .

  • @Kotex_xxx
    I'm sure you have always been this sensitive since your menarche.
    I stated an opinion, just as you stated an opinion, just as everyone states an opinion on the forum. There is no need for you to get upset. You seem to be getting perturbed, for no reason. Your delicate starfish needs to go into drug rehab, as well as go into couple's therapy. Then you would Super O with your woman present. You make too many excuses. JMO
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 756
    @Pspotsquirter --- I see the importance of the points you make about how we should each seek our own journey rather than rely on the descriptions of others to define our journey! Having courage to explore on our own is supposed to be what this journey is about! Otherwise, it's not really a journey!

    TG
  • devajonesdevajones
    Posts: 157
    @Alex_xxx well I'm so sorry to inform you that woman can super o, a super o is a prostate orgasm which is analogous to a gspot orgasm in women.  I thought I explained that before...but I guess you were unable to comprehend it.  I think maybe men could learn to super o more regularly with the help of women as we have gspot orgasms regularly (not all woman but quite a few).  I'm also sorry that you cant focus with your "woman" around.  I would suggest whole heartedly that you work on your concentration skills.  Also a stronger emotional bond should create a wonderful environment for you to super o.  I argue since prostate orgasms and gspot orgasms are the same and lots of women who are capable of having gspot orgasms really only experience the best orgasms when they are emotionally connected to the other person the same goes for men.  However in one of your posts to me you stated that Aneros lowers your desire for women. Does your girlfriend know this???  Its odd how you contradict yourself.  Also not boyfriend, its husband.  I also know as much about the journey as a newbie who has never inserted an Aneros.  I read the wiki and this forum which is what most men do when they start out.  I'd also like to inform you that I also use Aneros products and the journey for a woman is pretty much the same.  The only difference is I lack a prostate...however I have a gspot...so I dont need one.  I wish you would just learn a little more before you try to insult my intelligence.  The lack of knowledge you have about women tells me a lot frankly.  The concept that you refuse to learn anything new about how much the same women and men are tells me even more.  

    Dont you find it odd that in the original thread and in this one so many men who have women agree with what I said? Now if it is not or will not be the case for you (as you seem to not want to evolve and grow) then just leave it alone and chalk it up to you are weird.

    Also I'd like to add you requested that another member stay concentrated and read.  Funny how the OP in this thread said if you'd like to address something off topic start a new thread...NOT post here.  Now I wonder who is concentrating and reading?
  • euphemisticeuphemistic
    Posts: 822

    @euphemistic
    Why must a man be the guide? Is that not a bit homocentric? The Super O is homologous to the female orgasm is it not? Ergo, a woman knows more than you are willing to acknowledge . Your jealousy of women will prove to be a stumbling block in your journey .





    Why shouldn't men be guides? We have prostates and some have more experience than others and are willing to guide. Where are the women volunteering to be guides? Homologous is not identical so differences would be common and maybe magnified. I don't intend to get into another discussion about the similarities between men and women, I've heard enough about that.

    This IS a homocentric endeavour IMO. You have your opinion and I respect that. Just don't present it as established fact! Like your assumption that I am jealous of women. That's not so. I'm proud to be a man and don't mind saying so. Don't say things like that.

    I don't know if you know what I'm talking about with 'hive ass'. Ask @Artform or @Brine about it. I haven't noticed any stagnation here. Men are just doing their best. Why complicate it or instill isolation and fear? It's not as exalted as you make out. We are NOT alone!

    Part of my journey is examining how I present myself, how I regard myself, assert myself without putting others down, how I interact with others, how I express my manhood as well as many other spiritual matters. It's not just about pleasure or energy but a lot of things. Some of that can be shared. Why not? The forum of men here is part of that process. Otherwise we're all on our own in solipsistic isolation. BTW no one is saying that women have nothing to offer.
  • What the World.......needs now..........is LOVE, Sweet LOVE..(to music)...
  • DarkEngineDarkEngine
    Posts: 180
    I had roughly the same idea last month when abstaining from nipples. Basically avoiding a forced climax of sorts as it…short circuits the energy, in a sense. Creates a release.

    Granted, I think there's a case for when the mind and body are individually in heat. For example there are times when my body (out of no where) does the usual involuntary contractions for orgasms and I don't care. It's just muscle movements.

    On the other hand, my mind could be totally aroused and I don't need to do anything. Fantasising does all the work. This is a case where it would be 'orgasmic' rather than directly an 'orgasm', for me.

    The issue here is that either of these can then prod me into wanting both* — leading to frustration and demand to know what's going wrong when, in reality, nothing's the matter. To put it another way, mind and body are similar to partners. If one wants sex and other doesn't, it leads to sexual frustration.

    It's arousal naturally flaring up at different times.
    *I don't complain when mind and body are in the mood, of course.
  • euphemisticeuphemistic
    Posts: 822
    :x

    What the World.......needs now..........is LOVE, Sweet LOVE..(to music)...



    :x
  • BunkBunk
    Posts: 158
    Gentlemen, a most provocative and engaging discussion. If I may interject at this point by stating that I also like shoving specially shaped bits of plastic up my bum because it feels nice.
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 134

    @Kotex_xxx
    I'm sure you have always been this sensitive since your menarche.
    I stated an opinion, just as you stated an opinion, just as everyone states an opinion on the forum. There is no need for you to get upset. You seem to be getting perturbed, for no reason. Your delicate starfish needs to go into drug rehab, as well as go into couple's therapy. Then you would Super O with your woman present. You make too many excuses. JMO



    It's funny how you mentioned menstruation it would tie in with my theory that men have both a masculine and a feminine side, masculine side gets stimulated using the penis and the balls and the feminine side using the asshole. I've already seen quite a few members leave coz they couldn't stand the bitchy behaviour on the Aneros forum anymore, so perhaps using the Aneros too much tilts the balans to the feminine side? So if men can become bitches what's to stop us from getting assmenstruations? ('Are you bleeding out of your asshole or are you just happy to see me?')

    And yes marijuana is a female drug and that explains the synergy with the Aneros... it also leads to moodswings, lack of focus and makes one susceptible to 'woo-peddlers'....
    Needless to say I've been limiting both my intake of mj and my use of the Aneros ;)
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 546

    Canacan said:

    @euphemistic
    I have no idea why you associate me with Pspotsquirter's comments. LOL



    You 2 often agree. I was referring more to your comments about not trusting men to guide newbies in our journeys but instead to trust women.


    Sorry, I never meant that. Either I wasn't clear or you read me wrong.

    And as for agreeing, I hope I am free to agree with whatever argument that convince me and not be tied forever to the person who made the comment. I happen to agree with you too in many cases. I even sometimes agree here with some people I think outright insane (and I know most here, including you, agree in that). Please leave me the benefit of having my own free mind.
  • @Ehm
    You present an extremely valid point. Perhaps certain ones Yin/Yang are not balanced. Which could be from over use of the Aneros. Or weed use, coupled with the over Aneros use.
  • DarkEngineDarkEngine
    Posts: 180
    Bunk said:

    Gentlemen, a most provocative and engaging discussion. If I may interject at this point by stating that I also like shoving specially shaped bits of plastic up my bum because it feels nice.



    This man knows what's up.
  • The question that I asked in the weed thread, was a legitimate question. Perhaps the guys that use weed for sessions, have to use it in order to be with their signifigant other. Their behaviour lends quite a bit of credence to @Ehm's theory. They are an extremely sensitive lot! However, I would appreciate if they could use proper spelling, whilst they are attempting to berate me. @Alex_xxx, you left out the e in douchebag. and @Gilman(TWA), you really butchered the spelling of juvenile.
  • euphemisticeuphemistic
    Posts: 822
    Canacan said:

    Canacan said:

    @euphemistic
    I have no idea why you associate me with Pspotsquirter's comments. LOL



    You 2 often agree. I was referring more to your comments about not trusting men to guide newbies in our journeys but instead to trust women.


    Sorry, I never meant that. Either I wasn't clear or you read me wrong.

    And as for agreeing, I hope I am free to agree with whatever argument that convince me and not be tied forever to the person who made the comment. I happen to agree with you too in many cases. I even sometimes agree here with some people I think outright insane (and I know most here, including you, agree in that). Please leave me the benefit of having my own free mind.



    You're right. I was trying to reply to both of you at the same time because you seemed to have similar points. I should have separated my comments to the individual.

    However I stand by what I said. You refer men to women's experiences as important all the time but then disparage men's experience in discussions like this, which discourages men from sharing our experiences. Why are you doing that? I'm not disputing that women may have something to teach us but you and pspot have effectively stopped this discussion. That's the real shame.
  • GilmanGilman
    Posts: 98
    Pspot, you spelled "ain't" incorrectly when quoting Marvin Gaye, so what's your point? Does a typo invalidate an opinion?
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 546
    @euphemistic
    I don't disparage men's experience. Nor am I discouraging people from sharing experience. Once again no idea where you get that from. It is very contrary to what I think.

    Women experience is important because the inside orgasms are female. People keep painfully reinventing information readily and widely available for a long time... I mean, really: arriving at the exact same words and suggestions. I am serious: down to the very use of words.

    Blame me for wanting to help and sharing my experience.
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