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  • newguy8newguy8
    Posts: 182
    If one is living in a dorm or an apartment with a roommate, how does he keep his rides a secret? If his ride items are found, what to do then? Open up the conversation or just play it off?
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 765
    Share the knowledge and let them decide!

    TG
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,162
    you can buy a small lock box from staples for under $20.  
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,395
    newguy8 said:

    If one is living in a dorm or an apartment with a roommate, how does he keep his rides a secret?

    Unless you are very vocal or sleeping in the same bed, your actual usage is not likely to be discovered. Even if it is, you can just be honest and say you were masturbating and leave it at that. Trying to keep Aneros use a secret seems to imply some guilt or shame associated with its use. If this is the case then you may have difficulty obtaining satisfaction from its use anyway, so just restrict your use to when you are alone.
    newguy8 said:

    If his ride items are found, what to do then? Open up the conversation or just play it off?


    If you're are just concerned about modesty/privacy aspects then you'll be quite able to use these devices as long as you take reasonable care to not make your activities obvious. In the event a roommate should discover one of your massagers and asks you what it is used for, just be honest and straight forward. Tell him/her you've read about the benefits of prostate massage and you were curious to see if the information was correct. Simply tell them you feel you are not constrained by foolish social taboos and false notions of inappropriate behavior, hence, your desire to experiment for yourself. This will most likely suffice but it also may open up an opportunity for a rich, educative dialogue with your roommate. Such dialogues can greatly strengthen the bonds of friendship and/or break down illusory barriers between people.
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  • newguy8newguy8
    Posts: 182
    Im hoping for the latter rumel.
  • If the roommate would be the correct guy (I presume it is a guy) I would introduce him to aneros in the hope he would be interested in getting one (or borrowing one of mine) and we could do it in tandem. His groaning would urge me on. (I would put a smiley here now if i could figure out how to do it.)
  • newguy8newguy8
    Posts: 182
    It wud be cool to share the info ive learned.
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 765
    newguy8 said:

    It wud be cool to share the info ive learned.


    Depending on how adventurous and open minded your roomies are, they might appreciate your advice for the rest of their life! I sure wish I'd had an Aneros when I was in my 20's!

    TG
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008
    @newguy8,

    newguy8 said:

    It wud be cool to share the info ive learned.



    IMHO, @rumel's response is spot on.  I would just add that it seems to me that you have here a perfect opportunity to spread the word. Go for it!
  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 868
    I totally agree with @rumel's post.
  • muscleman65muscleman65
    Posts: 96
    You could break the ice and leave your Aneros out and start the conversation there. Didn't have an aneros 40 years ago in college but left a cock pump out and most were quiet interested, even pumped with some roomates
  • newguy8newguy8
    Posts: 182

    You could break the ice and leave your Aneros out and start the conversation there. Didn't have an aneros 40 years ago in college but left a cock pump out and most were quiet interested, even pumped with some roomates



    Dang... went from talking to doing.
  • muscleman65muscleman65
    Posts: 96
    J-O'd with all my roommates in school and sometimes more. Good Old truth and Dare
  • newguy8newguy8
    Posts: 182

    J-O'd with all my roommates in school and sometimes more. Good Old truth and Dare



    So how far did e/ of u take it?