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Three Billy Goats Gruff
  • There is a troll under the bridge. He has four differently titled threads, yet all of them ask the same questions. He has been given erudite advice countless times, from certain forum participants. Yet he does not heed the advice. This person has blatantly contradicted himself several times, in his various posts. If he were abducted by aliens, given an anal probe, by the aforementioned aliens, and was outfitted with a state of the art Extra-Terrestial anal cavity... He still would not O! Any type of O! Super O, mini O, Capital O, lower case o, wino, and/ or Cheeri-O. Don't fall into the trap anymore, stop replying to his posts and threads. I find this to be very insulting, to the guys that are trying to help him. He is also putting a damper on the forum with his nonsense. I declare shenanigans on @inhope! X(
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,086
    Dude! Seriously!? I was low before, now I'm floored! Thanks for being a douche in this wonderfully eloquent open attack. Nice work dude, nice work.

    If you have something against me then private message me, don't do it this way, it's pretty low.

    I've followed all advice given to me, of which some it has worked. A fair bit has not of course, but as I'm told, everyone is different. I AM trying and i am making very small progress, i was very upset yesterday because i thought it all paid off, the 4 years of struggle I'm sure you've never been through yourself. It's an emotional ride this aneros journey, so is a little anger and frustration not to be expected now and then?

    From now on if you see a post made by me just don't reply them, or even read them. Go have several  Super-O's instead! (I'm sure you find that a much better activity than attacking people on the internet, yes?)

    Thank you for your thoughts.
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,149
    Can we please refrain from personal attacks on here.  I love this forum and would hate to see it turn into an uncomfortable place.  If you have nothing nice to say, then dont say anything.  If your angry and upset, leave your baggage at home and don't place it here.  Can we please keep things on topic so we ALL can learn and not turn things into a elementary school yard name calling session?????  We are all here to enjoy ourselves, learn a little bit, and hopefully help each other.
  • BunkBunk
    Posts: 157
    @inevernew. Good call. Let's mention the elephant in the room here though, @inhope has completely the wrong mindset to achieve success in this practice, for now... But he shows a passion and a determination to succeed. The last thing he needs is to be ridiculed in this manner. Some of us have been lucky enough to experience what this practice has to offer, and it's our duty as members of this forum to encourage others, who want to be where we are, to get there, just as we've had the privilege of learning from the veterans of this forum. This is a place for mature, open minded people, with a common goal.
  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 820
    I have noticed that the Aneros in its various models causes me to be a dynamo of healthy, male energy emanating from my awakened prostate and well-toned anal musculature. I have noticed that both Aneros Forum and Chat are receptacles of this powerful energy from guys and even gals. This powerful energy is irrepressible. Hence we should uphold and support each other through encouragement and helpful sharing of information and our experiences. This is so necessary for the uplift of Aneros newbies and those of us encountering challenges in their Aneros journey.

    Thom./BigGlansDC

    P.S. In the wake of all this, I wish @inhope every success and blessing with Aneros! Ad astera per aspera! = To the stars through difficulties!
  • didymusdidymus
    Posts: 101
     I am writing this a fair bit of mental health/counseling experience. 
    I am sympathetic to @inhope and his struggles - most of us have had them.  What concerns me more, as evidenced by the multiple threads and appeals for help that he has initiated, @inhope appears to be getting caught up in an obsessive downward spiral which will only increase performance anxiety. 
    It might be helpful if he go on a conscious abstention program - both of Aneros use and masturbation- for an extended period - say a month and then start back cautiously. 
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,086
    I would otherwise agree with you didymus except i am having success, today being my latest success (a few mins ago!)

    yesterday i no anxiety, but i had that problem that i just can't understand, i really want to and i want to MOVE PAST IT but that only happens when you know what happened in first place.

    I am willing to try what you suggest. Though (ironically?) i just had a superb session! 
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 523
    @didymus
    Now I am absolutly certain this the best piece if advice.
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 523
    @inhope
    Nonetheless I am sure staying away from this all (including forum) is the best thing to do right now. Think of something else, do something else... Puzzle pieces will better find there place after a while. Once you have started a journey, it often happens that the pieces move better when not focusing on them.

    Whether you have success or not, it is obvious from your last posts that you devoid too much thoughts and energy to this... Not necessarily helpful, necessarily not healthy.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,086
    Sure will try! i have had periods like this where i leave the aneros for months then come back, each time i did i found myself 'unwired' and had to start from scratch, happy to do it but just thought it worthy of note
  • @inhope
    You're an ASKHOLE! You constantly ask for advice, and don't heed the advice you are given. I may be a douche, but you are a medicated douche. =))
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,086
    Dude, i hate having to repeat myself (which granted i do a fair bit) i DO take the advice of others, check out my latest responses in this thread, observations (not asking for answers) and the occasional question relating to prostate health concerns. I try everything everyone suggests, i just don't post saying so, i only post when something good happens (rare) or when something unusual happens (more common). Im already moving past the issue of what happened yesterday...

    What you have done here (and in your other thread that members have called you out on) is make yourself look like a real tool and i would be careful how you act here you will do yourself no favours.

    In answer to your point: I ask questions a lot yes, but i observe and write about those observations more than i ask questions. I would rather we all get along, if you have a problem with me, thats fine, just don't broadcast in the way that you have and continue to act like a little brat. PM me and we can chat about it, i would rather make friends tbh, but if not then fair enough, just quit acting like this.

  • *cough* Awkward *cough*
  • questOrquestOr
    Posts: 4
    As for me, I try to be tolerant of questions and questioners.  If the questions seem repetitive or basic, it seems appropriate to gently direct the guy to the Wiki.  Many of the answers are there.  If I get annoyed at questions, I try to think of that as "my" problem rather than "his" problem.  If he is seeking attention or trying to get an erotic chat going, so what?  Getting excited would just upset me more.  I think any attempt to "gang up" on a member is misguided and juvenile.
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 754
    @questOr --- Well stated! We ALL needed help at one time or another!

    TG
  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 836
    I wonder whether our 'help' is being destructive. There are at least 4 threads, I have not counted the number of posts with so much advice that I am confused and I don't have the problem. There is simply too much information coming from so many different angles that I think we are creating confusion. Any one of the posts would be worth working on for a week or so, @lingaman did a very helpful 'clinic' in chat yesterday but it did not seem to be appreciated. I think there is such a thing as overload where the overload become the need. Sorry, I do not mean to inflame the situation, but there is some evidence that we are not helping.
  • @isvara
    Thank you! That is a very concise, as well as a critical evaluation of the situation.
    I appreciate your candor.
  • PspotsquirterPspotsquirter
    Posts: 467
    It appears that someone is up to their high jinks...AGAIN! =))
  • Why not just ignore ignorance?
  • PspotsquirterPspotsquirter
    Posts: 467
    @aneros_user13872
    Perhaps that is easier said than done.
  • BunkBunk
    Posts: 157
    You know what they say... Opinions are like ass holes, everybody has one. And by starting a discussion like this one, it's evident that some ass holes have opinions.
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 603
    @inhope My two cents ... I found all of the advice confusing and overwhelming and that expectations can mess you up .... read the wiki .... enjoy the ride for what it is and forget trying to make a Super O, just do what feels good to you. It will feel good all on its own. Then, just enjoy reading and discovering the people here. It will be much more fun. 

    When I did that, I got a lot more good feelings and a hell of a lot less frustration.
  • nubi1nubi1
    Posts: 2
    As a new user, I found that filtering the out the negative advise and accepting what makes sense has done me well.

    What I've learned, in a nutshell is; Relax, Relax, and let it come to you.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,086
    Yep, too much advice caused it to be confusing! I have found my own path or I'm starting to and it's working well, another thread is helping me out currently and hoping to contribute positively myself shortly now I'm having success and perhaps help others in a similar situation to my own :-)

    My biggest hurdle was actually getting bored in a session, running out of ideas of 'what to do next' and then getting frustrated... Since then I've cherry picked some advice and bits from the wiki and it's moved me on, I still welcome advice though and things that help add more 'strings to my bow' :-)

    To the immature people here being assholes: keep it up! It's fun watching you ;-)
  • BobandyBobandy
    Posts: 34
    Let's not be so hard on assholes, after all that's what brought us all together.
  • PspotsquirterPspotsquirter
    Posts: 467
    @Bobandy
    Ha Ha!!!!! Well said!
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 754
    Bobandy said:

    Let's not be so hard on assholes, after all that's what brought us all together.


    That IS the quote of the day! Love it!

    TG

  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 603
    @Bobany VERY DAMN FUNNY!!!!! LOL!

    @inhope I have trouble getting bored too .... So I listen to the HypnAerosessions or other Aural MP#'s suggested here. I like the soothing ones. I have found some of the erotic noise ones helpful real subtle I forget what they are called. But I think boredom is why I do better when I am a little tired while some people like to be wide awake and fresh.

    Patients Grasshopper, Patience, probabyl what I have learned most here. 
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 603
    Spelle Patience Wrong!!!! LOL! 
  • didymusdidymus
    Posts: 101
    @inhope by labeling people as 'immature" and calling them "assholes" is behaving just like the people whose behavior you decry. Try taking the high ground and focus on your journey.

  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 1,086
    Your right didymus, we must not act like a douche. But we must douche when necessary :-)