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How often do you think about sex?
  • View Poll Results: How often do you think about sex Voters: 745

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    every 5 minutes 110 14.77%

    every 15 minutes 159 21.34%

    every half hour 91 12.21%

    every hour 116 15.57%

    every two hours 45 6.04%

    every four hours 76 10.20%

    every eight hours 7 0.94%

    every day 107 14.36%

    every other day 16 2.15%

    every week 15 2.01%

  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,335
    i was just talking to my wife, and found myself saying, out of nowhere: "i think about sex every 5 minutes."

    not sure if that is really true, because i am sure there are long stretches where i am absorbed in other stuff.

    how about you?

    answer the poll...

  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,460

    I don’t know if it is true or not, but there is a line from the movie Simply Irresistible that goes “The average man thinks about sex 238 times a day”. Now, assuming a 16 hour awake period per day that would be (16 x 60 = 960 min., 960 / 238 = 4.03 min), One sexual thought every 4+ minutes. My libido is not nearly as strong as it was at 18 yrs. old but I would have to say on average I think of sex once every 10-15 minutes. IMHO, your thought of once every 5 minutes is well within that average range. In an older post I spoke of the ADIDAS* curse of youth.

    (* ADIDASAll Day I Dream About Sex)
  • I think about sex almost all the time, but I put every 15 minutes because I do occasionally become engrossed in something that takes my mind away from it!

    It's a difficult question to answer really, because I find myself thinking about sex continually for long periods of time. If my brain were a 2GHz processor then I guess I'd be thinking about sex about 2,000,000,000 every second!

    It's a bit like the question of how many orgasms I have in a two-hour session with my Peridise. I dunno, because it's hard to tell when one orgasm ends and another begins especially as they go on for so long :D
  • Yesterday, I read a book about how the brains of women.

    There was a passage ki spoke of sex drive.

    There is a part of the brain, these impulses ki gere.

    In humans, this part of the brain reserved for sex drive is two and a half times bigger ke in women.

    Seeing this, they made an xp. A man and a woman, were placed sensors to measure ki activates areas in the brain, and they observed a scene with a man and a woman ki talk at a table.

    The man had entered the areas of sexual ki activates when ke women watch it seems so trivial.

    Result guys think, several times a day to sex, where women do sex pratikement once during a day.

    Conclusion: chui pa un obsessed, c fault in my brain :P :P
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    I just could not vote in this pole. There are too many factors that come into play for me. So there was no choice that fits me. There have certainly been times where it would be every 5 minutes but I don't think I have ever gone more than a week.
  • Billy11Billy11
    Posts: 272
    That's a tough one. I find that I go through sexual cycles. During the peak all I can do is think about sex and feel my body just buzzing for sexual contact. During the low sex isn't on my mind at all. It would be hard to average all out. Though at some point during the day sexual thoughts will happen. So at least everyday I guess would be my answer but how often during the day all just depends on my cycle.
    When I was younger sex was much more on my mind than it is now.
  • skeeter_gskeeter_g
    Posts: 240
    Wow darwin,

    This is a tuff one.. probably every couple hours for me... but that thought may really be delayed because of work, and having to really focus.
    Now that you bring it up, I will have to think about it!!.. :lol: :lol:
  • VicVic
    Posts: 47
    I don't have to think about SEX:

    I am SEX ... SEX is ME ... if anything, SEX thinks about me in nano-seconds .
  • J4J4
    Posts: 124
    I voted for every half hour, buts it tough. In my head there is a loop in the parallel processor part that is constantly sampling the background data for sexual opportunities. Now, since I have an Aneros, and a prostate that likes a lot of attention during the day, my sexual thoughts have increased, not decreased.

    I don't consider this unnatural, a loop is constantly running in the background for keeping me on schedule, dangerous situations, my children's safety/whereabouts and when am I going to eat my next cookie.

  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008
    There was a time during my forties when I would go for perhaps, more than a week without thinking about sex, but I was under considerable work stress at that time.

    Now that I have retired, there is much more time for the leisure of thinking about sex.
    Since obtaining Aneros devices I have found I am thinking of sex several times a day.

    I still go for several hours some times without thinking of sex, but as time permits, I could be thinking of it continuously for some hours. How on earth do I rate that on the scale of this poll? I voted 4 hours, but I really couldn't be sure without having a some sort of timing device continuously monitoring my brain!
  • Hi, all!

    Good Poll!

    I know that I get too involved in stuff most times to even think about sex, but it will come to mind in some of the strangest places, like fixing a faucet or eating. :lol:

    Biggest problem I have is when I write I think of it all the time and have to force myself to actually not write more love scenes than I really need, :lol: . Guess it's because most of us computer users are lonely people at heart, :lol:
  • GeogioGeogio
    Posts: 107
    It has to be several times a day, if not more. But if I'm working, I usually am thinking about work. Driving is another subject altogether. I think about sex more when driving than at any other time.

    That's probably a bad thing.
  • I put every 5 minutes but thats after I've been in the Aneros forum for 2 or 3 days now.
    Between jobs at the mo.
    If I'm not doing this I'm watching Jerry Springer type programmes.
    Now if there were no sex in them, there'd be no show.
  • Just reading pommies post, maybe you should have asked how many erections in a day ?
    Today I've had about 3 or 4 after a tradional wank this morning before I got out of bed.
    One of these was a bit wet.
    Or maybe how many erections do you have that give you precum?
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    Time passes and energies flow.......!!! :D. :D

    I think I think about sex less frequently now, yet feel the energies and Eros alive throughout all all the time!!!

    Now I have periods of sexual hungers and through those times, it is somewhere between 4 minutes and every 20 seconds!! This really reflects the dual nature of adept Aneros life, IMHO, that we can fly the high orgasmic to spiritual energies anerosless anytime, and still, particularly with BPH therapy sessions as part of the picture, have become an ass/Aneros hungry horn dog in spells from time to time!!

    In any event, IT IS ALL GOOD!!!

  • Really tough question. Sometimes it is hours on end. it really depends how busy I am. I usually enjoy my Aneros and a good jelqing session everyday at noon since I live only 5 minutes from work. My wife highly approves and is always in the mood for a good pounding and the Aneros keeps my rod in top shape.
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008
    I'm interested to know, do you do your daily jelqing exercises to increase size or is it just to keep in shape?
    If it is for increased size, how successful has it been?
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 244
    I can't really answer this. In my case it's proportional to the times I have sex or masturbate. What I do like to fantasize about is women getting very horny, pussies overflowing etc. Until I read about wet dreams being a hundred times more harmful than masturbating I would have said I had more wet dreams than thoughts about sex but now (eventhough I can never seem to have lucid dreams) when I'm about to have a wet dream I waken myself up
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 244
    I don't believe they are anymore, probably just a load of Tao-ist crap. The same 'sages' would say NEVER to ejaculate in the winter, or after you reached a certain age. When it requires this type of OCD behaviour, I eventually lose interest
  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 1,009
    "Why are wet dreams harmful?"
    Wet dreams are probably the best clean out. The body can flush out without our physical interference.
    I have heard say that if we really want to get ahead we should stop drinking water, or just eat air. I think I prefer to stay around a bit longer thank you!
    I totally agree with @Ehm.
  • muscleman65muscleman65
    Posts: 97
    I think about sex constantly whether I just masturbate, use my aneros, sex with a friend or wife
  • didymus said:

    Why are wet dreams harmful?

    Who says they are?
  • LinumLinum
    Posts: 227
    I don't knowingly have wet dreams, and so it is somewhat irrelevant to me.

    On the subject of how often do I think about sex - I would have to say every day, because as others have stated, there is more to life than just sex, and my frequency of thought is very difficult to gauge, and does thinking about it for a couple of hours, mean you have still only thought about it once?
  • xtimedt69xtimedt69
    Posts: 665
    I was telling my wife I think about sex every 5 minutes and I often think about her. She said women are different and that they get involved with what they are doing and that she doesn't think about it very much during the day. I understand women are different, her sister is horny all the time, but she is also and air head and not very productive at work. LOL!

    I told her I can think about sex and her cute ass while doing other things, she says she can't, so I said well I am good at multitasking, so now if I text her I am multitasking it is a sexy little way I tell her I am thinking about her and then ..... she thinks about sex .... Later I find that that trigger has suddenly made her think about it more that she thought she would.
  • ltgltg
    Posts: 36
    Honestly, I only think about sex maybe once a month, but I think about MMO at least every other day.