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A thought about what we call our orgasms
  • MMO_RPGlolMMO_RPGlol
    Posts: 242
    Now that I'm seeing some progress and some serious feelings (Having a great session right now!) I am realizing how pointless it is to question what type of orgasm you had is.

    For instance: was that a dry-o or a mini-o? Well let me ask you: how did it feel? "Well it was a pleasurable feeling that radiated from my prostate". Well, did it feel good? "Yeah it felt great!"

    Well then who on earth cares?!?!

    I'm sure this is common sense to most of you: buuut I was under the impression that these were all distinct phases of the aneros orgasms!

    (Holy crap this is an awesome session right now!!!)
  • JMay
    Posts: 113
    hehehehe :) it's amazing when you start having good sessions like crazy.
    Like other user said, there are some orgasms that just make you love everything, you just want to cuddle, even if it is alone.
  • ctusserctusser
    Posts: 95
    I can see your point as one could feel less than or unsatisfied in their journey if they felt they were not achieving a super O.   But I also understand classifying the different sensations is helpful to those trying to describe their experiences by various levels of intensity.  Even though I'm new, my first couple weeks were benign and I was feeling disappointed after reading the descriptions of others' wonderful experiences. However, reading them motivated me to keep trying, otherwise I would have thrown my Pro. Jr. away after a couple of tries.

    I wish I could have another session, but I'm sore and fatigued from last night and this morning's Aneros marathon. I think It'll take a couple days to recover from this. Hopefully I'll be recovered enough to make love with my wife tomorrow night when she comes home from her weekend getaway; really looking forward to that ;)
  • Tomasheen
    Posts: 181
    Good idea ctusser. Give it a rest. It doesn't matter one bit what others are having. If yours is pleasurable and you are happy with it, then that's ok. I have p- waves, erections, mini-Os, dry-Os and loads of intense pleasure but I don't think I have had a SuperO yet. I don't mind. What I'm having is great. I love it and if it should go further, I will be more delighted still.
    On a slightly different topic (Edging), I had given up on this years ago because I couldn't resist the urge to come. Hence, the pleasure ended. So I gave up the idea. But having had a wonderful three Aneros sessions yesterday, I decided to take the plunge an indulge in some edging (holding off the orgasm just before the point of no return...and continuing indefinitely). To my utter delight, I found I could control it. I had four fantastic edging sessions later. The aneros has made this possible.
  • AneRico
    Posts: 214
    MMO, I agree.  Who cares what it is...  As I think about this, it occurs to me that subconsciously I can fall into "orgasm envy" where I think "whatever it is I'm experiencing, it's not THAT SUPER THING the other guys talk about...I must try harder, I must get what they have".  

    I find myself, during a session, asking myself "what was that? was it a SuperO?  Was it a P-Wave?"

    Now that's kind of silly I think.  heh.  But you made me think about it.  To look at it a little more closely...by that I mean, to look at my questioning of the experience.

    Fascinating observation, MMO.
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,482
    MMO_RPGlol and AnnieRico, great men!!!, and go forward in the grand fantasmia of all the sensory and mind-melding extravganzassmmmmmmmmm of the the immediacy of all this so early in your experiences!!! You are happy without the names and categories and I agree, once experiencing a higher energies range as you both are, just swim in the wholeness of it all!!! I love it too!!!

    Yet, I agree JMay, ctusser, and Tomasheen, that having some kinds of mappings can be very helpful in both feeling comfortable with where one is at in this amazing, diverse, journey, where each man's is unique, and can take vastly different lengths of time to cover all the possible grounds.... is a great parallel universe approach!!!! Having journeyed through several, I like to feel the muscle memories and dreamscape poetics memories of them all and swim in the wholeness of Whole Male Being at all levels all at once too!!!

    all the very best journey forms for all the amazingly diverse men and stories here and there through full aneros prostate awakening all

    artform

    as we rewire
    we are all reconnected

  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,482
    Tomasheen said:

    "On a slightly different topic (Edging), I had given up on this years ago because I couldn't resist the urge to come. Hence, the pleasure ended. So I gave up the idea. But having had a wonderful three Aneros sessions yesterday, I decided to take the plunge an indulge in some edging (holding off the orgasm just before the point of no return...and continuing indefinitely). To my utter delight, I found I could control it. I had four fantastic edging sessions later. The aneros has made this possible."



    Thanks Tomasheen!!

    After hundreds of flaccid "Penis NOT" glorious aneros riding sessions and less sessions, I too have found two things that enable re-integrating penile stimulation into the arousal builds again, WITHOUT any deflection from the prostate-centredness of accessing of the full spectrum of defined Os of all kinds and way beyond~~~~!!!!!

    Edging a bit, or into great lengths, is one of them indeed!! And a great contentment level pleasure it can be too mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! No pressure to reach climax and fall into that PONR (Point Of No Return!!!) And no refractory period! Sometimes leads into a gorgeous Less Session without any intent hhhmmmmmmm...

    The other is, as my body/mind has completely centred on the awakened prostate in all possible orgasmic matters, that when I do have a Super-T to end my BPH therapy sessions riding Ice or Junior or..., and do ejaculate, I have no refractory period downtime orgasmically energies-wise at all!!! And can just flow into whatever levels onward and onward MMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

    Just as Eros is a frisson component of all forms of love, Eros is part of the blossoming and the aftermath of all our orgasmic energies experiences, even healing self and others.

    A cautionary NOTE!: One still has to obey "PenisNOT" to shift the focus away from penile completely early on in order to achieve the essential separation of your Orgasmic Response from your Ejaculatory Response!! The time that takes varies widely from man to man.

    all the best complete re-integration of all sensuality and sexuality with all the orgasmic realms beyond reproductive style sex opened by full prostate awakening all

    artform

    as we rewire
    we are all reconnected



  • MMO_RPGlolMMO_RPGlol
    Posts: 242
    @Artform... You can Ejaculate and not have a refractory period??

    @ctusser I was more referring to when guys stress out about whether or not they had a mini o, or dry o: as if they were Two distinct things. I don't have any problem with classifying the orgasms, I have just recognized that in the beginning of the journey, that is the last thing people should be worried about. :)

    Also, MAN my session last night was awesome! I was getting a lot of sensations and my skin felt amazing! Then a little later, my girlfriend called me and that like set me off. One O hit me particularly hard, and I was moaning a bit and my girlfriend seemed to really like hearing me in pleasure!!:)
  • Mmo-rpglol, I think I know what you're experiencing, but not how you write messages to the forum and talk on the phone with your girlfriend during a session. I can picture you thrashing about with a phone in one hand and a laptop in the other, lol. About the edging, I've discovered that too following jmay's method. I recognize everything you describe. Edging and other penis stimulation short of ejaculation seems to add to the sexual energy going on in the other exogenous places. My understanding is that we can tap our body's knowledge of penis orgasms and its energies, and build on the prostate orgasms, the best of both worlds.

    I also agree that it's hard to classify our experiences with the aneros, each time seems to be a new experience. The important thing IMO is the accumulation of knowledge about our bodies that leads us to more and more pleasure. I'm learning that my body and mind like pleasure and pleasure is good in its own right. This contradicts everything my middle class Catholic upbringing had taught me. I tried to tell my closest friend about aneros this week and didn't get past the word prostrate. We both attended Catholic college.
  • ctusserctusser
    Posts: 95
    @MMO_RPGlol

    I think you took multitasking to a whole new level last night. Lol
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257

    I am realizing how pointless it is to question what type of orgasm you had is.

    What a great realization for you to discover at your young age. Orgasms are not neatly definable events which can be categorized and sorted. Orgasms exist as a continuum of sensations occurring along a fluid time line. Orgasms are a result of your mind and body acting in concert with each other. Your mind may be the composer of your personal orgasmic symphony but your body is the orchestra and conductor.

    Well then who on earth cares?!?!

    While there are people who would like to deny you, shame you, persecute you or otherwise prevent you from enjoying this natural ability to experience bliss. In an ideal world, nobody, other than you, should care.
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  • MMO_RPGlolMMO_RPGlol
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    @ctusser and @Euphemistic I wasn't on the forum and talking to her at the same time! Haha

    I wrote this up just as a random thought, and them about 30 minutes later my gf called me. Also, I am not at the thrashing point yet. When my girl called it hit me hard but I was still definitely capable of holding a conversation , despite some moaning and laughing like a lunatic briefly.

    @rumel Its sad that people try and shame us on things they couldn't ever comprehend! Fortunately I am learning young that there's a whole world inside our minds that is untapped by conventional western philosophy. It saved my sanity, because nothing good comes from realizing you are completely unsatisfied sexually at 15, and western culture telling you there is nothing else out there. This is a entire new world!
  • ctusserctusser
    Posts: 95
    @MMO_RPGlol

    As soon as I began masturbating at about age 11 I quickly became perplexed and disappointed that I would be in complete bliss at the approach of an orgasm and then a minute later be uninterested or unable to continue.

    To prolong my pleasure I discovered tantric masturbation and edging on my own through experimentation. Beginning these practices at such a young age aided me when I became sexually active because I didn't suffer from premature ejaculation and allowed me to approach sex with patience. I think this background also helped me progress quickly in my Aneros sessions, as I was better able to relax and focus on subtle sensations than a person who is conditioned to ejaculate quickly.

    Even with these practices I was envious and intimidated by a woman's superior sexual ability and often felt cheated and dissatisfied as a man. Let's face it, edging is no substitute for 5 consecutive earth shattering orgasms, some of which seem to last a minute or more, that my wife has experienced. Knowing a woman's potential, I have also become obsessed with giving orgasms during sex, which can do damage to your sex life with a loving partner. I am beginning to accept that my wife sometimes doesn't need or even want an orgasm at times let alone multiples, which is really tough for me to comprehend. At times I have carried on way past what my partner wanted or needed to satisfy my own ego. This new Aneros journey has opened up sexual communication, acceptance and understanding between my wife and I as well as healing my sexual envy.
  • MMO_RPGlolMMO_RPGlol
    Posts: 242
    @ctusser

    For better for worse, I am beginning to have prostate orgasms before ever actually making love with my girlfriend. We are waiting until marriage to do that. I did have similar envies about her orgasmic potential that I have expressed to her in the past, and it was very large source of strain in our relationship.

    Some of it stemmed from the fact that she can have multiple orgasms from various non sexual things, Such as eating cake, as I have observed on a few occasions.

    Since then I have completely opened my heart to her and expressed my deep seeded fears. That in its self has made our relationship much more resilient. Although that didn't resolve my fears, knowing I had my best friend there to share my thoughts with was the best thing to ever happen to me!

    When I first told her I wanted to become multi-orgasmic, she was a little hesitant. she didn't think it was possible for a guy to have multiple orgasms and she didn't want me to get my hopes up for something unattainable for me, so she always just tried to make me happy with my body now. Once I told her that it was deffinitly a possibility, she was so happy for me! Now that she knows that she has been so supportive of me. now that she heard me moaning, amazing things are happening!!!

    No envy now!!!
  • JMay
    Posts: 113
    @MMO_RPGlol 

    pretty cool, huh?
  • MMO_RPGlolMMO_RPGlol
    Posts: 242
    @JMay gotta love it!

    I am going to spend this time now getting a good grip on MMO and learn about the different types of things I can do in my back door by myself. Then once I am married (still a good amount of time left) I going to try and focus on Learning about your method of penile super o's!
    I really want to be able to freaking blow her mind. And the best way for me to do that would be to be extremely in tune with my own body. The one really cool thing I'm learning is that my girlfriends arousal cycle is almost exactly the same as my aneros cycle. She is just much faster! So I think by mixing the two a bit, I think I may send her to the stratosphere:)

    Oh by the way, I'm pretty sure I just had my first rectal orgasm a little earlier! Its was pretty weird but I liked it! :)